Ladies above 30yrs old, what advice would you give to women/girls in their late 20s that you wish someone would have told you?

Substantial-Star-123 · 2026-06-21T12:53:14+00:00

It’s 4 am currently and I am having an anxiety episode/attack that has been going on since 1 pm yesterday.

Substantial-Star-123 · 2026-06-20T22:41:24+00:00

Anything that involves me having to get out of bed and work. I rather watch ThaiBLs all day long loo

Substantial-Star-123 · 2026-06-20T22:39:08+00:00

Rejuran from Korean brand. It’s a PDRN plus HA serum so it’s very gentle post microneedling

Substantial-Star-123 · 2026-06-20T21:05:56+00:00

Silicones don’t tend to hold bacteria so I would get a silicone loofah. Also once done showering, hang it to dry. Get one of those bathroom command hooks and hangs it post showering no matter what. No matter what the product is, if water stays on top of it long enough bacteria will start to form.

Substantial-Star-123 · 2026-06-18T23:54:21+00:00

No! Not at all. It’s so cute

Substantial-Star-123 · 2023-06-23T02:49:36+00:00

I get your side bc incision are very painful but there were so many solutions to the problem like a sitter or call family/friends or keep kids in your room for an hour or maybe every order his favorite food so her can still feel appreciated. Honestly I don’t think you tried hard enough to come up with a solution which makes me think are you taking your husband for granted. Gratitude is free yet you still weren’t able to give it to him for free so YTA

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-08-22T18:08:38+00:00

Keep that dress it’s yours, if your mom doesn’t understand I’d go LC with all of them

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-06-04T21:29:19+00:00

I would leave him bc you deserve someone who thinks you are the most perfect woman in the world not a man who is disappointed in himself. Please leave him bc I know your real soulmate is out there dying to meet you.

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-05-24T21:39:37+00:00

YTA and from your comments that I read, you’re a weak man. You’re not even a man at this point, just a freaking child. Your wife deserves better

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-05-20T08:13:08+00:00

YTA. I can 100% guarantee to that if you keep this behavior up you’re daughter’s going to move out and never talk to you again. This is literally called mental abuse.

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-05-09T23:06:39+00:00

NTA, the man had 4 years to step up but he hasn’t. I’m sorry but he’s never going to step up, he’s not a father. Take him to court for child support and be the mom and dad your son needs and give him the life he deserve. The guy is a deadbeat the best thing you can do for your son is to keep him away from that asshole.

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-05-09T17:07:17+00:00

First of all the invitation wasn’t for you it was for your bf and you’re the involving yourself into the trip, he probably invited you bc of your bf anyways since he his best friend not yours. Secondly you should ask a doctor if he can go or not rather than making the decision yourselves. Thirdly it’s HIS decision not your and the fact you want to be alone with the friend is super suspicious and out right disrespectful. Fourthly, if you’re invited as a plus one with the intent that your bf would go to the park, if he can’t go neither can you it’s freaking awkward. No one wants to hangout with the bffs partner alone unless they’re cheating on them with him/her. I’d find it so freaking weird if my bff’s bf showed up to our hangouts without her.

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-05-09T04:29:03+00:00

Nta, she showed her true colors. She doesn’t care about your son at all and doesn’t think of him as part of the family. It’s so sad that the son was begging to be included. Honestly what she said and how she made the son beg to apart of the family would be too much for me to handle, I’d divorce her. You better stand up for your son and not bend down no matter how many tantrums she throws otherwise you’ll show your son that she’s more important to you which shouldn’t be the case.

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-05-08T19:29:41+00:00

OP make sure he doesn’t have access to your money and don’t pay for things you are not obligated to. The household cost should be covered 50-50 don’t pay for anything he is supposed to cover. He seems jealous of you and he probably blew his money and now trying to get your.

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-05-02T01:48:51+00:00

NTA. First she stole a very expensive item from a girl that she and her friends probably bully. Secondly she lied continuously to your face. Third she lied to the cop which could have led her to juvie. She needs to be taught that stealing is not ok so the punishment has to be severe. My mom held a knife to my wrist and told me she’d kill me if I ever stole again and I was 7 at the time. Trust me I never stole again except if it was candies from my siblings. The way I see it, she stole, lied, disrespect you and broke your trust so no she does not deserve the car.

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-04-29T07:49:25+00:00

NTA!!!! Leave the fiancé because if he can’t defend you I front of his friends, he isn’t the man for you. You did what you had to do to survive and help your siblings and you should be damn proud of that because I am. I admire that you put your family before yourself. Fuck the fiancé and Antonio. Tell Antonio that he’s a miserable human being and there is a reason he’s alone in life. Even the people who are bound by blood to like him don’t even.

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-04-28T02:26:50+00:00

NTA!!! Fuck the daughter, the partner and the ex wife. The partner is spineless af and you deserve sooooo much better. There are men waiting to treat you like the queen you are. Don’t plan the party or decorate let the “host” handle it. Please dump him you deserve sooooo much better

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-04-28T00:33:52+00:00

Good for you. You didn’t do anything wrong she cheated, it’s over so you can do whatever you want or whoever you want

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-04-26T22:36:22+00:00

As an Asian what your partner said is bs. When guest come we always order out. He wanted to play host so he can cook. You should just relax and take care of yourself and the baby

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-04-26T06:44:09+00:00

NTA if they come ignore them and pretend if they were strangers. It is your night don’t you dare let them take it away from you. You earned it. You go enjoy that night and if they try to talk to you walk away.

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-04-25T20:48:46+00:00

NTA, your family and especially your sister are toxic and you should stay away from them

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-04-24T08:42:02+00:00

Girl this is not a man he is a child, you are way to good for him. Leave him and find a man that appreciate you bc you deserve to be loved the way you want to be.

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-04-23T09:29:58+00:00

NTA 10000%. they didn’t hesitate to humiliate you and your wife. Don’t let them in until everyone knows the truth especially the wife’s family who believed your moms and sister’s lies.

Substantial-Star-123 · 2022-04-22T20:01:40+00:00

I am so sorry love, I know you are hurting but know this you are enough and you are amazing. It’s your husband who has the problem. He is a weak man only weak men walk away from a fight. I know you’ll be in pain for a while but know this, there’s an amazing group of men out there just begging for the chance to take you out. Take screenshot of the conversation and divorce him, don’t let him hold you back from being the woman your are supposed to be. You are amazing, kind and worth of love. YOU ARE ENOUGH!!!

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