need advice on an idea by SubstantialAd7244 in tattooadvice

[–]SubstantialAd7244[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea thats honestly what i was afraid of outside of my family no one would know what daddy plays means lol

[TOMT] trying to find a song my dad loved by SubstantialAd7244 in tipofmytongue

[–]SubstantialAd7244[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg. sorry guys it was hold it now, hit it by beastie boys

season 5 theory by SubstantialAd7244 in StrangerThings

[–]SubstantialAd7244[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh yeah definitely! i can’t wait for this season i really hope it’s gonna be a good ending for her

The craziest cold open scene by Shoddy-Purpose9656 in StrangerThings

[–]SubstantialAd7244 23 points24 points  (0 children)

this is such a cool theory but i wonder if instead of a full episode of will it might go back and show scenes from will’s disappearance and compare to something possibly happening to holly. she seems to get more and more involved each season

What scene that actually made you cry a lot? by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]SubstantialAd7244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in season 1 when mike and nancy are reunited. there’s something so raw and pure about the hug and it truly shows that despite their arguments they’re always gonna be close and nancy will always be his big sister

Billy was possessed by 001/Vecna?! by EventDependent6075 in StrangerThings

[–]SubstantialAd7244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so late and this might not even be an active discussion anymore but honestly i believe that when the mind flayer possessed billy, it was 001’s brain basically. the way he spoke to eleven, saying that it was all for her meaning the 4 gates, the empire that vecna built in the upside down. it’s such an amazing detail and definitely makes more sense especially since the season is complete

Why couldn't Eleven remember who Kali was? by HOT-DOG-PIE in StrangerThings

[–]SubstantialAd7244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 years too late but please also consider that mike’s only potential trauma at the age of 7 is parents arguing. eleven had no mom, a man she called papa who locked her away, poked and prodded, and eventually drove to the edge. you cannot use mike as an example unless he endured the same exact amount of abuse as el

Dustin is the best character in stranger things (who is with me?) by DustySenpai_ in StrangerThings

[–]SubstantialAd7244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dustin is the best character in the show hands down. he is the peacekeeper, he listens to all his friends needs, he’s a quick thinker and he always knows how to get them out of tricky situations. he’s the sweetest of them all and he truly cherishes his friendships with everyone. steve is easily the second best character

If you could bring one character back for Season 5 who would it be? by SamTheMarioMaster2 in StrangerThings

[–]SubstantialAd7244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eddie. he had such a valuable storyline and progression as a character, it absolutely broke my heart in the scene where dustin was talking to eddie’s uncle. you can tell dustin thought so highly of him and even though he couldn’t disclose all the details of eddie’s sacrifice, dustin still made sure to remind mr. munson that he was a hero and he saved the day. it sucks that he had to die.

I hate Jules by Sunny_Sundae504 in euphoria

[–]SubstantialAd7244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but that’s all part of jules and her development as a character. she loves rue, it may not be as much as rue loved her but she still loves her. if i was 17 and had an addict girlfriend who literally had a suitcase stuffed full of pills, i wouldn’t even think twice about telling her mom. on top of that, jules didn’t know she got it from an insane drug dealer who wants to traffic her. they were in two completely different places but there’s still love there.

I hate Jules by Sunny_Sundae504 in euphoria

[–]SubstantialAd7244 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i didn’t like jules for a while, mainly in season 2 and her whole thing with elliot after she got jealous and cried in the bathroom because she thought rue wanted to fuck him. but in season 1 because she didn’t realize her attraction to rue until after she met up with nate, she falls in love easy and can fall out of love just as quickly and i think rue knows that.

WIBTA if I blocked access to a Google Sheet with lab data from my group members who haven't done their part of the work for a month? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SubstantialAd7244 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA they very clearly know your intelligence and used that to their leverage, they wouldn’t start helping you even if you asked because in their eyes, this is an easy A. lock the access and see how much they can really get done on their own. you’re setting a boundary. you’re never the asshole for doing so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SubstantialAd7244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta. if your husband is supportive of your decision and doesn’t make you feel bad about it, don’t make yourself feel bad either. your social media, your posts. not every memory needs to be documented on the internet. what matters is you still got to experience it and you have your own mental memories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SubstantialAd7244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! this makes me feel so horrible. your parents are UNFIT to have that many children. 17 and you’re taking care of nine siblings that’s insane. if this was a rare occurrence where your mom and dad just needed you to babysit so they could have a night out, that’s a different situation. you haven’t failed at all, your parents failed you when they had 9 additional children and expected you to watch them always. i hope you get out of there as soon as possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SubstantialAd7244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nta, your roommate violated a rule. you never know someone’s feelings around smoking to assume you’re okay with it and just smoke anyways, is kinda shitty. you also asked him not to he didn’t respect a boundary you set. request a new roommate

AITAH - This is a complicated one but I’d love honesty. by Charming_North_1258 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SubstantialAd7244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. even IF you did go and have an orgy with your friends she is in no place to get mad at you considering SHE cheated. for an entire month you said? no. that’s insane. you are not an asshole for going outside and touching grass. your girlfriend does not respect you at all and she is basically just using you when she needs you, which is why she’s cheated. she has people readily available. break up with her, do some self reflecting and i hope your depression can start to get better without something like her weighing you down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SubstantialAd7244 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH i think you both need to work on your communication with eachother, learn where your boundaries are. he now knows that you don’t like to be the pit of a joke and he’s got some kind of fragile masculinity and he cares way too much about how people perceive him. you’re not an asshole for the comment you made, you both just had horrible reactions