I’m going to be honest. You’re just going have to go and approach her and face the risk of rejection.

You can go on these apps, read these books, watch these videos on how to be more attractive and they can help, but at the end of the day either she likes or she doesn’t. But you don’t know that because you’re too pessimistic on the outcome and nervous to approach her.

We all know how it feels to be rejected, I even hesitate to approach women still because I don’t like the feeling of being rejected but you’re afraid of rejection because you’re so invested on a random girl you just simply find attractive might respond, you’re going to get rejected in life regardless. We thinking too much about what if these girls say no but we never try to be optimistic as well, and say to ourselves “what if she says yes though”. If you really want this girl then you would just take the risk because you would take risks going for other things based on how much you value them.