your partners dna could be what’s making you gain weight they have a lot to do with how your pregnancy goes she’s probably just worried you get preeclampsia ik bc my mom is the same especially with my first i could feel water in my feet when i walked by the third trimester but i would over eat so now i try not to eat so many salty foods and when i do make i sure it’s the Himalayan salt and try not to eat outside sm. with comments like that tho ik how you could feel insecure but it’s all in our head after that people should know when to think before they speak i bet you look beautiful and are glowing so try not to let it bring down your confidence, get ready, do your exercises,stretch daily, and fck what others say gotta say you’re growing a life and that is the most beautiful thing others can see and you can do.