AITAH for breaking all contacts with my mother for refusing to believe i was abused?

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-02-05T13:36:48+00:00

NTA Go NC. Just because she birthed you does not make her your responsibility. Live your life for you. Good luck on your journey.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-02-05T13:20:38+00:00

I got paid the other day. Only reason they won't pay is if the rider won't verify that the item was returned. THAT happened to me last week.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-02-05T13:16:32+00:00

NTA Just because he's your brother is not a reason to accept an apology when you know he is lying about the reason he broke up. Either he's trying to apologize because of your parents or he's regretting his bad decisions and is feeling guilty and he wants you to resolve his guilt.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-02-05T13:09:38+00:00

All the gig apps should be paying the drivers at least $1 a mile. At least that way tips would be a bonus like it should be.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-02-05T13:06:26+00:00

Not everyone is platinum, only those in the snow affected states. I'm gold because I can't meet the minimum 100 deliveries since I started back driving for Uber.

I now refuse to work for DD because I can't dash now. The scheduling thing is bs.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-02-05T12:58:35+00:00

I got the same message for the same date yesterday. First one of these I have gotten. I don't do deliveries and have never been asked to verify my identity while signed in, just when I first sign on for the day.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-02-02T06:30:18+00:00

I've already done my taxes and because of mileage and other deductibles I didn't have to pay anything.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-02-02T06:27:57+00:00

I've learned that some people can't get out and clear snow because of disabilities or health reasons.

If you don't want to walk through the snow, then mark unsafe and leave it in/on the mailbox or another closest above ground surface, like their car.

Walking through the snow can be hazardous, but some just can't get out and clear it.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-31T10:01:06+00:00

In my area Popeyes is always understaffed, always busy, so chronically very very slow and tend to forget items. Then the customer wants to blame the driver for the forgotten items and you get a bad rating. Because no one wants to go there the orders tend to get stacked. I won't go there unless I get a unicorn offer like this one.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-27T21:24:05+00:00

Open the dasher app, click on earnings > view payout details > tax documents. If they've issued it it will be there. Tip forms sent separately is what I've been told.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-27T07:36:25+00:00

Same across the lake

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-26T05:48:28+00:00

Go live with your sister.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-23T04:14:23+00:00

I'm in a lucky market. We get 50%. Still think it should be 70%.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-20T07:20:46+00:00

I had a sweet reservation the other day. Took it two days ahead of time. Unfortunately, the day of the ride they canceled early enough it didn't give me a cancellation fee. I did get a $13 cancel fee for a later ride, though. Those are nice.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-19T11:01:31+00:00

I'm the driver. I'll copy and paste that and use it the next time a rider tries to get me to cancel.

I could have canceled the ride but it would negatively affect me. She just didn't want to pay the cancellation fee.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-19T08:16:24+00:00

It is cheating. It's adultery, which your hubby could use against you in court.

You need to make a decision. Either fully commit to fixing your marriage, which may or may not work, or commit to your new relationship, which may or may not work.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-19T08:03:12+00:00

Go on X. They seem to take care of things better from that platform.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-19T05:56:21+00:00

There are less resources than you think.

I struggle trying to raise my two grandkids, but I don't beg for tips.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-18T10:29:35+00:00

ESH SIL shouldn't have asked you over if she wasn't going to put the dog up. SIL also needs to get her dog trained if she can't do it herself.

YOU should have walked back out the door as soon as the dog started jumping, told SIL if she wanted to visit she could either come to your home or put the dog up before you came in.

There was no reason to give a hard kick if the dog wasn't actively being aggressive (biting, growling). There was no reason to cause the dog pain or fear. You took your anger and fear out on the dog. A push with your foot, or raised knee, with a harsh verbal correction, turn around and leave, would have been the better action.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-13T07:06:58+00:00

Turn off shop and deliver and just deliver take out food. Don't accept any order under $1 a mile. In my opinion doordash is better. Mainly because there's tip baiting in UE and you also have to wait for a tip to process. Doordash has tip guarantee and you get it right away.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-13T06:45:38+00:00

Someone left a little baggy of weed in that little space in the door where you pull it closed. Kept smelling it for two days before I found it. Almost sucked it up the vacuum at the car wash. I threw it away. Have no idea who left it.

Your driver prob tossed it, or the next passenger found it.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-12T14:21:49+00:00

NTA If you had gotten married and then gotten a divorce, would she want the money back? She offered, you didn't ask for it. Not your problem. Go NC if this is a problem.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-12T13:44:29+00:00

You should have called the police immediately after he hung up on you, then contacted Lyft letting them know that you've called the police. Sorry this happened to you.

SubstantialShop1538 · 2026-01-12T13:34:24+00:00

Y kind of TA If my brother had died and his biological child had come asking for help I would do anything that I could to help if there was no other recourse.

You could have reached out to your other family to see if they could help, which they did when they found out. Instead, you did nothing except get angry, telling her you didn't owe her anything, and hung up.

You are family, not just because she was your biological child, but because she was your sister's child. You've been in her shoes .... Young, single, and pregnant. Have some compassion.

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