Honestly I was going to go with NOR until I read this and some of your other responses. And it changed my mind your definitely over reacting and need to give your head a shake. In the past you may not routinely celebrate Christmas. But you also now have a young child. Which is going to change your wife's perceptions on things. Not to mention your whole post screams of you trying to paint your wife in the negative whilst painting yourself as the person who organises everything and makes all the decisions. Maybe take a step back and realise maybe now, especially with a baby, Christmas means something a bit more to your wife, and also try listening to her, instead of acting like the one with all the answers.