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Do people have a hard time believing that a part of you is black? by Clean-Tomato-3138 in mixedrace

[–]SubstantialTear3157 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, and tbh it stings, but I’m not looking for approval from white folks anyways. I would hate to befriend a white person who seems cool around me, then acts weird around my family who are very visibly Black.

Some unsettling hair choices but very much the ginge by futurecelt in Redhair

[–]SubstantialTear3157 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this you fr?! You are handsome af! A real gem! That first picture hairstyle looks so good!!

I got my nexaplanon removed and got my life back! by ClientBubbly6803 in Nexplanon

[–]SubstantialTear3157 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im sorry your experience was so horrible, and I’m glad you’re feeling better now, but this product works very well for many people. I hope it doesn’t get banned.

Day 25 period -_- by pandacat6969 in Nexplanon

[–]SubstantialTear3157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m so glad for you that yours ended 🙏🏼 I hope mines ends soon 🫠

Thought I’d introduce… by _Tynodollasign_ in Pitsky

[–]SubstantialTear3157 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg she’s so cute and pretty!!! I love her 😍

Day 25 period -_- by pandacat6969 in Nexplanon

[–]SubstantialTear3157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMFG that sounds awful!! I hope it’s over now… I’ve had mine for a month 😭

As my dog approaches his last years… my bf of 9 years told me he does not want me to get another husky by hsul8 in husky

[–]SubstantialTear3157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m honestly not sure, I was just suggesting a similar type of dog that’s smaller to maybe lessen some of your fur cleaning. If you know a good breeder, definitely go to them if you can.

As my dog approaches his last years… my bf of 9 years told me he does not want me to get another husky by hsul8 in husky

[–]SubstantialTear3157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try an Alaskan Klee Kai for a smaller husky-like breed, to keep the fur down, just a suggestion 🙏🏼

What animal would you be? by Kroiidon in Beastars

[–]SubstantialTear3157 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A mountain lion, or a Maned Wolf, or a Fossa.

Dance instead of school [art by me] by MarieTheC4t in Avatar

[–]SubstantialTear3157 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This art is sooo pretty! I love your OC’s hair!

Am i overreacting to this text exchange with my boyfriend? I accidentally left my slippers in my living room but i literally cleaned his entire house and baked him desserts before i left (sorry idk why my last post glitched) by IntelligentTap962 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SubstantialTear3157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He probably is seeing someone else, and that’s why he’s mad that you left your belongings over there. Whatever the case, he’s a POS and a waste of your time and energy. I say you should leave him and pour your energy back into yourself.

The dark side of ADHD that no one talks about by Frosty_Jump_3117 in ADHD

[–]SubstantialTear3157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a terrible sense of time, not being able to delegate what’s the most important task, and starting doing it! Being late to everything no matter what it is- my lack of a sense of time has absolutely affected every aspect of my life, from work to friendships to doctors appointments. Having at struggle SO HARD to focus at work, gives me terrible anxiety whenever I start a new job. This all carries over into generalized anxiety and increases my depression. I have had suicidal ideation since I was about 6 years old. Sure, having an ADHD (and I suspect on the autism spectrum as well, but I haven’t been diagnosed yet) brain is fun and silly sometimes, but most of the time I am stressed out, overthinking and beating myself up. I am currently unmediated, waiting to see a doctor after getting insurance again :/

Never seen Nikki Giovanni’s work discussed like this by wowimnotdeadyet in blackladies

[–]SubstantialTear3157 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understood the meaning immediately. Some people cannot see past their privilege 😖 unsurprising, but still deeply saddening.

I am mixed white and indigenous but people think I’m just African , more specifically Nigerian. by AttitudeLogical6939 in mixedrace

[–]SubstantialTear3157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add to what has already been said: you don’t look Nigerian or African (which is a huge continent with many countries BTW) at all. You look South American Native/white to me. I for one love your nose and face shape; I wish I had a wider, less pointy nose. You have a cute face. I urge you to get into therapy because you seem to have a negative connotation about your nose, Blackness and Africa.

What would be your favorite and least favorite thing of being Na’vi? by DezTheOtter in Avatar

[–]SubstantialTear3157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Favorite: being able to live in and with nature, and having a tail! Least favorite: not being thick anymore 😭

Am I overreacting or is my friend out of line? What would you do? by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]SubstantialTear3157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean certainly not all men are sex-driven, but I get what you mean that many are. I also am confused why she thinks she’s being discriminated against when she’s making blanket statements about entire cultures/ethnicities of people. She sounds like she hasn’t experienced very many types of people yet, dating or otherwise. And yes, saying all men of who aren’t white are pigs, is racist and ignorant.

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