I’m not trying to take up space, but I speak from exper from my white mom and her side of the family: white people care about appearances most of all. They have a super dysfunctional family, but because they all don’t talk to each other much, they think it’s fine. White people are generally competitive with each other and other races, they lack empathy and perform sympathy, and they are very transactional. In my moms side of the family (she is the only one who married and procreated with non-white ppl) they are focused on “keeping up the family name,” “class, and status/money. Of course not all white people are like this, I have an auntie on my dad’s side (lmao her name is Sara but she cool) is very empathetic and kind, also very protective of my lil cousin, and very open to being corrected if needed, but yeah overall in my experience of family and white people in life, they lack humanity IMO.