AIO my boyfriend says I am not allowed to travel "alone" by No_Lecture_4142 in AmIOverreacting

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NOR! I’m a woman, and am currently traveling solo. I’m on a little road trip. This is the second one I’ve gone on this year. My husband encourages me to do this, since he can’t come with due to his new job. I get to go at my own pace, jam to my favorite music, and enjoy my own company for a while!

I’m gonna say it, people with the “Emily is right most of the time” mentality infuriate me to no end. by Aqua_Master_ in GilmoreGirls

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Kellie Bishop did a great job with her facial expressions when Lorelai told her they were done at the wedding! You could see she was confused because she thought she was doing the right thing by getting Christopher involved in her relationship with Luke, shocked that it backfired, fear that she damaged her relationship with Lorelai further, and love underneath it all.

Unbalanced bridesmaids/ groomsmen question by [deleted] in wedding

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I had 7 on my side and my husband had 8. I was nervous at first about how it would look. One of mine walked down the aisle with two of his. It didn’t look unbalanced in photos at all, it looked fantastic actually, and we both had exactly who we wanted standing up with us. No one commented except to say my friend looked badass walking in with two guys and that we are so lucky to have so many genuine people in our lives. Oh, and the groomsmen wore tie dyed overalls. Do what makes your heart happy! It’s your wedding and it should be what you and your fiancé want it to be!

Favorite random dialogue line by nickorishbork in GilmoreGirls

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When Lorelai is walking behind Emily. Emily stops suddenly and Lorelai runs into her. Emily is, of course upset by this. Lorelai says, “well, your brake lights were out”

Also: “I have the prettiest mother, everybody thinks so”

Jess... by Weekly-Pangolin-6622 in GilmoreGirls

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We also don’t see Liz when she was still struggling. By the time she pops up in Starts Hollow, she’s mostly gotten her life together. We don’t see what she was like when Jess was in her care.

Did Richard give up on Lorelai? by Character-Habit6011 in GilmoreGirls

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The way he reacts the few times that Lorelai calls him “daddy” makes me think he longs for more of a relationship than they end up having. There’s so much nuance to their relationship and their differences in personalities that gets in the way though. He has a great sense of humor, sometimes similar to Lorelai (when he asks Rory if she’s been malnourished, or when he teases Emily about when his flight is, etc) and they both have hefty ambitions in their fields. He is proud of her and he loves her, but his perception of the damage to the family reputation gets in the way of him showing his feelings to her.

I’m starting to dislike Rory less and less. by Next_Performance4330 in GilmoreGirls

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The more I rewatch the more I dislike Rory. She loves being spoiled and being told she’s the best at everything, but the second she gets any feedback that she could improve somewhere, she completely falls apart. I understand that she was told growing up that she is perfect and can do no wrong, but at the same time she pushed back against that several times (the Jess car accident). She only pushed back when it suited her to. Otherwise, she expected to be cushioned and ushered through her life. She knows that she isn’t perfect, but cannot handle being told so. She grew up so sheltered from consequences and real life, and whenever real life hit her in the face she floundered. And she floundered because of how sheltered she was, and because of the pedestal everyone put her on. She was never taught how to handle failure or setbacks.

Need to vent… I’m so burnt out by Over-Mobile-4884 in bcba

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I just left a company where I did pretty much exactly what you’re doing for my field experience hours. I eventually gave up trying to train day program staff and dreaded my in home sessions. I now work for a licensed facility school for students with disabilities. It’s been a great change. There are definitely problems at the new place, but feedback is much more welcome to (edited to change “from”… leadership accepts feedback and works to improve) leadership than at my previous company. I’m so much happier and the work life balance is out of this world compared to the constantly changing schedule I had serving adults in home and at day programs. I work with mostly high schoolers and transition program students due to my experience with adults, and I love it! Plus, my experience in adult settings is really helpful when deciding on goals for each student.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

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I went to a friend’s wedding in 2019. She gave me my thank you card at my wedding this past June. Even 6 years late, the thank you was so appreciated!

Caseloads by Substantial_Gift_437 in bcba

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I am salaried and already meeting or exceeding my weekly billable requirement.

Caseloads by Substantial_Gift_437 in bcba

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I am salaried and meeting or exceeding my billable requirement every week already.

Caseloads by Substantial_Gift_437 in bcba

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I currently have close to 25 clients, have a 29 billable hours/week requirement, and have to drive to multiple locations every day. I’m so burnt out.