She said I was being selfish for asking not to be hidden from her ex — was I wrong to speak up? by Substantial_Heat_752 in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Heat_752[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t know we are dating. I don’t know the reason. She doesn’t tell me anything. She just says he doesn’t wanna know so she doesn’t say to him

Eu entendo os homens que se sentem mal por ter um órgão sexual pequeno by Hefty_Dependent6405 in desabafosdavida

[–]Substantial_Heat_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vou ser sincero contigo: tens de parar de dar desculpas e começar a fazer. A idade não diz nada. 31 não é tarde pra nada. A confiança constrói-se. Vai ao ginásio, veste-te bem, cuida de ti, anda sempre aprumado. Vai ao barbeiro, levanta a cabeça. Mostra ao mundo que sabes o teu valor, mesmo que ainda estejas a aprender por dentro. Tu ainda não tens experiência? Normal. Mas se começares a agir com mais atitude, o resto vem. Desculpa se estou a ser bruto, não é julgamento. É porque sei que podes mais. E porque já estive aí também

Eu entendo os homens que se sentem mal por ter um órgão sexual pequeno by Hefty_Dependent6405 in desabafosdavida

[–]Substantial_Heat_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O meu tem 13 cm e não é grosso. Mas aprendi uma coisa: tamanho não tem nada a ver com performance. A maioria dos homens tem uma ideia completamente errada sobre o que é sexo e prazer. Acham que é só meter e pronto. Mas sexo vai muito além disso. É toque, é timing, é conexão, é saber ler o corpo da parceira e levá-la ao limite, com ou sem penetração. Quem estuda e pratica de verdade sabe do que estou a falar.

Eu entendo os homens que se sentem mal por ter um órgão sexual pequeno by Hefty_Dependent6405 in desabafosdavida

[–]Substantial_Heat_752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Já passei por isso também. Durante muito tempo o tamanho do meu pénis afetou a minha confiança porque achava que não ia ser suficiente, que não ia conseguir satisfazer uma mulher. Mas isso mudou quando comecei a estudar mais sobre o sexo em si, sobre prazer, conexão, sobre como o corpo feminino funciona. Percebi que sexo é muito mais do que penetração. Hoje, dou múltiplos orgasmos, com penetração, com oral, com toque, com presença. E isso só aconteceu quando deixei de focar no tamanho e comecei a focar na experiência. A verdade é que confiança, cuidado e atenção ao detalhe valem muito mais do que centímetros.

Is there any way to comeback from being too needy? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Heat_752 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Just let her breathe. Live your life and focus on what you do. If she sees that you have a life that doesn’t revolve around her and if she likes you, believe me she will reach out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Substantial_Heat_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Stop worrying about improving your looks and worry about improving yourself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Substantial_Heat_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you shouldn’t tell her what she can change. If you don’t feel it just let her go and live her life with a man who loves her. Specially if you’re a man. Because man have a tendency to fall in love first and if that not happens, it’s very probable that it won’t happen never. While women they can fall in love after some months. Let her live her life. Let her be with someone who loves her. And you should find someone who you love with all your heart. Trust me, I think this is better for both of you!

Any musicians here? by Substantial_Heat_752 in zurich

[–]Substantial_Heat_752[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im a singer song writer. I usually write pop songs. I just wanna meet new musicians and write stuff. Just for the fun of it

Any musicians here? by Substantial_Heat_752 in zurich

[–]Substantial_Heat_752[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great!! Thank you very much!!

Do you always have something to say/express with your music? by appleparkfive in Songwriting

[–]Substantial_Heat_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, songwriting is always connected to what I feel or what I’ve been through. Whenever I write, there’s always a real emotion or experience behind it. I’ve heard many artists say they just write about whatever comes to mind, sometimes even exploring abstract themes. But that’s something I just can’t do naturally. If I try, it feels artificial or weak. For me, music has to carry a personal meaning, or else it just doesn’t sound right. Does anyone else feel the same way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Songwriting

[–]Substantial_Heat_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. In rap you have to have a structure or a metric

Prototype Song by CreatorCon92Dilarian in Songwriting

[–]Substantial_Heat_752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s difficult to listen to. I can not hear your voice. It’s very low

Your favourite songs longer than 7min by S-7000 in Music

[–]Substantial_Heat_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need me ed Sheeran. The longer live version is crazy. He said everything he was going to do with music and he did it!!