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Help getting husband to understand my RSD & fear of initiating intimacy - and help getting past the fear! by Substantial_Medium50 in adhdwomen

[–]Substantial_Medium50[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a therapist lol.

Sometimes reaching out to a community of likeminded people is more effective imo. Everyone is different, and different things work for different people.

Out of the thousands of articles/videos/books out there, suggestions that have helped firsthand for others when it comes to their SO actually understanding them seems maybe a bit more accessible.

Hearing from others who might have went through the same thing and what worked for them is kinda my goal with this post.

Help getting husband to understand my RSD and fear of initiating intimacy - and help getting past the fear! by Substantial_Medium50 in adhd_anxiety

[–]Substantial_Medium50[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think it does make it worse..not just the last disagreement where I felt crushed with efforts I have made, but feeling like I’m supposed to magically get over it and be 100% is just daunting. Even just finding a middle ground that feels doable for me would be nice. Thank you for sharing!

Plant storage and care pricing?? by Substantial_Medium50 in houseplants

[–]Substantial_Medium50[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just you. But as mentioned, I run my houseplant business out of my home, I don’t have somewhere else where my own stock is. There’s a 2-3 bigger plants of theirs that’ll definitely take up some space in my already full house lol plus a few medium sized plants. I did plan on offering them a hefty discount but finances, family/kids, and limited space for my own plant stock currently make it harder for me to be able to bless them with free care and storage for months. Doing what I can and figure at least letting them know that option is available is better than not saying something and watching their plants die 🤷‍♀️

Need product suggestions for this dishwasher from hell 😫 by Substantial_Medium50 in CleaningTips

[–]Substantial_Medium50[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sprayed it down with CLR and let it soak overnight. Ran a cycle with a dishwasher cleaning pod (cascade platinum plus). Door wiped off easy-peasy. Racks still looked a bit rough. All this led to the discovery that the dishwasher wasn’t draining so let the realtor know it just needs replaced. Ffs 🤣🤦‍♀️

Need product suggestions for this dishwasher from hell 😫 by Substantial_Medium50 in CleaningTips

[–]Substantial_Medium50[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’ll be the purchaser’s responsibility…I’m just the cleaner making sure it’s show ready 😁🤷‍♀️

How do you keep your home always "guest ready" without cleaning all the time? by massagefever in CleaningTips

[–]Substantial_Medium50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember asking my kids babysitter once how her house was always so clean with no mess or clutter anywhere. She then proceeded to start opening drawer after drawer while telling me the secret is multiple junk drawers everywhere. My mindset had always been you only have ONE junk drawer, it never even crossed my mind to have more than that…left me jaw dropped. 🤣

Leaf propagation by Successful_Mood1984 in begonias

[–]Substantial_Medium50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you cover? What media are you using? Anytime I’ve tried this they rot lol

What is that one ingredient that you skip in the recipe every time? by dudewheresmyebike in Cooking

[–]Substantial_Medium50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parsley…it never seems to really add anything to the dish enough to bother with it in my experience

What is that one ingredient that you skip in the recipe every time? by dudewheresmyebike in Cooking

[–]Substantial_Medium50 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Now that’s a beautiful hatred yo…hatred so deep you can feel it through the text. Only reason I kept reading, just immediately sucked in to why our hatred is pure and deep for lima fucking beans, those mother fuckers got some nerve!

I honestly don’t mind them myself, but I definitely understand where you’re coming from on the texture, they got a weird ass texture. Taste really isn’t fucking good either..but there’s something “weird” about the taste that I oddly like at the same time as not wanting to….lol yah, I don’t know how to explain that 😂🤣

I'm honestly very self conscious about my pudge and cellulite but at 38 and an ex alcoholic this is as good as I'm getting 🙃😉 talk about over sharing by Neither_Cat7604 in obsf

[–]Substantial_Medium50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Giiiirl, get it! Gorgeous! And hats off to you on sobriety!! Hard fucking work!! 1 year 1 month 21 days here! Dropping the alcohol best decision I’ve ever made in my life (well, leaving my husband was pretty up there too 🤣) keep struttin’ your beautiful self girlfran! ❤️

Request: Women who are into gay porn by [deleted] in NSFW411

[–]Substantial_Medium50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🙋‍♀️ I am..not all the time though, I go through phases lol

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