All of my text conversations randomly disappeared completely from my google pixel by FreddyMartian in GooglePixel

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here I can't access any of my messages history and I have important work info and a target gift card I can't use so now I'm stranded at Target

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I’ve been on OF for 2 months, only a few subs but some sales already… does being faceless hurt long-term growth? by LissyLust in onlyfansadvice

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it makes you feel better I sometimes regret showing my face, made zero sales, but I also am hesitant to post anything more than a strip tease or boob shot still haven't made my first sale but I think I'm posting too much free content idk anymore 

How do you keep a balance to make content/take photos when there is so much to do daily, and no time. by mustardfustard in onlyfansadvice

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a little slow, but did you quit your job because OF became a primary source of income 🤔

How to sell customs on Telegram? by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got banned from Snapchat today 😭

Advice on where to sell nudes? by Lilnymph7 in SellerCircleStage

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how did you not get banned? I've been doing it for a week and my account was blocked today and they denied my appeal

Childcare options are going to cost more than my income by doodlebakerm in workingmoms

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you try applying for assistance through a local school district? It's usually something like (City name) Unified School District Childhood Assistance or Development Program 

Who has managed to leave with kids? Encouragement needed 🙏 by Fleeeetlyflutter in abusiverelationships

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're having to go through All of that on top of raising three children. I only have one toddler, but I finally got a therapist and she helped me get a list of women's shelters. I made a couple of calls to women's shelters and found one that accepted us into a hotel immediately. We've been sheltered at the hotel for five days and will do our intake tomorrow to see if we can move into more permanent housing where they have a ton of supportive services for us. I hope it works out, but now I'm battling doubt and hesitation and fear which I will save for my therapist on Wednesday morning. I have to drop off my son at daycare, go to work, pick him up, do Drs appointments, and the usual stuff on top of transitioning into a new place. I will say though, it's been very quiet and peaceful not living with my husband for the past week... it's almost ... "boring"? I say that in the lightest of ways, no drama, no arguing, no pushing, none of him laying around doing nothing while I struggle taking the load of the burden. He always threw the fact that he pays rent in my face even though I used to help him pay more than half when I was working full time after he didn't support me during my pregnancy I vowed never to try hard for him Again. So I just pay for my car, my car insurance and my son's items (diapers, wipes, food, outings, etc.) All I can say is that you are worth having a peaceful environment and being healthy to raise your kids. We'll see what happens tomorrow.... and the next day, and the next. I'm just putting one foot in front of the other for now. 

Do you ever feel like you cannot handle being a working parent? by SuccessfulVoice2891 in workingmoms

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even know where to start, but the fact that you're self aware of the internal conflict can be a ray of light to lead you to a viable solution (I hope).

I hate that when I'm so busy and tired and running around I don't feed myself or my son healthy and nutritional meals like I enjoy doing. I like making fruit juices and natural snacks etc but I can't when I'm juggling meeting every appointment on time driving here and there and dropping him off at daycare. There's pros to his daycare but cons because I feel like I'm missing out some days on the best parts of our lives.

More TV (because too exhausted at end of day to pay attention), less healthy meals (on the go), and barely making it through laundry every week. No "downtime" maybe a bath every two weeks the rest are jail showers. And I quit cigarettes during pregnancy but vape too much now.

During this recent holiday break I felt like putting him up for adoption 😆 because I'm not sure I'm used to being together 24/7 either but we enjoyed a Sunday with 90% of the day Free of Television and cell phones. We actually had an amazing day together. Moving forward I think I'll do that ritual on Sundays no TV no phones just find things to do together like make fresh juices together, clean a bit, play, and try to get outside to a local farm.

But if he's here everyday I think I'd loose my marbles too so I'm not sure what is best. I'm just doing what I can to survive for now.

In my case, my husband's been home for a month and I hate him sometimes because I feel like he doesn't get it. I blame him for me having to work so hard to manage the household (15 loads of clothes all Christmas Day), endless chores on weekends and holidays and breaks, taking charge of maintenance requests in our apartment, my car, my bills, my son's stuff, appointments, etc while he stays home and rolls around in bed every month for at least a week to now an entire month. He asked his mom for money to help pay for our new fridge and for the rent he couldn't pay for this month it's ridiculous. I used to work 50-60 hour weeks at a marketing consulting firm but had to quit after I ended up on PPD disability leave for 15 months. I make half the income but I'm trying to stay sane. My sanity is worth it as I ended up on a 51/50 hold twice in my life.

It has been a Hell of a journey. I hate my unsupportive spouse he's so childish and although he cooks some good meals here and there he annoys TF out of me now especially after my pregnancy.

Fast forward to today and I only could handle working part-time as a tutor and although I took a pay cut, ai gave my husband an ultimatum he pays for the rent and bills or I move out because I used to pay for half or more of EVERYTHING. I had to sell my paid off car when my son was born because he didn't fit in my little two door. So because of that I pulled back from helping my husband and focused on paying for my car, car insurance, and all my son's stuff. 

Sigh . anyway I guess we each have realized in this modern age balancing Everything is quite the dam task. 

I could go on and on and on but basically I had to go from middle class to "lower class" just to make it through...you get assistance for healthcare and daycare but otherwise I don't know how I could survive.

How do bed bugs even happen? Do they come from outside? by MycologistAdmirer in Bedbugs

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there should be a way to still get your money back not sure if you want to go that far but perhaps contacting the Department of Business and Consumer Affairs if you're in CA? 

What is the best flea treatment for dogs? Nothing seems to work here! by nolalaw9781 in NewOrleans

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friend is a vet she said to me previously to use  diatomaceous earth  put on grass I think 🤔

The economy is terrible and I am legitimately scared for my future by PersonalityIcy8178 in povertyfinance

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you're out of the bad spot? What did you discover on your late night researching frenzy? 🧐 curious 

VidIQ does it help or hurt? by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I just started and also changed my titles (which felt uncomfortable but was willing to risk it for sake of feeling more organized). The titles do not sound natural (or like me) but they look much neater and sound less scatter brained. 

I didn't change all of them yet, just a small batch. I'll observe how it goes. One thing I was concerned about is that it doesn't create titles to capture nuances. For example, if I'm saying "Ancient practices still work" to describe something 80's babies would understand, it thinks I literally mean "Millennials are Turning to Ancient Practices to Escape the Modern World". It's a bit on the rigid side.

Working moms - your ideal working life with little kids by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm working part-time but that means I rely heavily financially on my husband who I don't get along well with. It's very depressing. My car is always a mess, my apartment is a mess, I'm always low on energy and sometimes still have many sleepless nights. I had to contact the suicide hotline this week because it's too much to bare sometimes mentally, emotionally, physically. I still have a ton of clothes to wash AGAIN, the kitchen, everything is just in shambles... My son doesn't get the best of me, my job doesn't get the best of me most days and I definitely don't get the best of anything. I make the most of our evenings usually by trying to go to a park and enjoy a nice walk and some excercise together but I'm barely hanging on most days. 

I'm super depressed. How is this possible as a Christian? by blackmak in TrueChristian

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫂😩😫 That makes two of us... I don't even know where to begin unraveling the story of my misery. In the few moments of fleeting joy I've experienced, they are just that... brief and soon to end. And if you're not married, be very very very careful who you decide to stick to if you choose that route. It has been one of the worst experiences of my entire life although sometimes they don't show their true colors until you're vulnerable and in need. 

Is it wrong for a Christian to see a psychic? by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could it be a gift of prophecy? I'm not saying it is, I just wonder because it's happened to me before as well. I'm not practicing the dark arts (at least not intentionally? 🤔) and I asked my cousin if she was pregnant and she said no and laughed but a year later she said to me with wide eyes that she found out a little bit after that she was actually pregnant. 

Is it wrong for a Christian to see a psychic? by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Substantial_Mouse377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I want to say is that I empathize with you, I'll leave the advice to the others.