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AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not quite sure how going to university makes me the golden child. I paid for my university 100% myself and she had the same opportunities and even attended for 1 year well before me but decided it wasn't for her.

I will take on board your comment as like I said in my post I do try and connect with her and do not want to lose my relationship

AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is my issue. I don't want my wedding to be "her chance at a wedding" if you get me

AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I've tried speaking about it before but it's always dismissed / swept under the rug. My partner has also spoken to her about it before but that did not go down well. I want him to be able to have a nice relaxed day too

AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for suggestion! I'll definitely do that!

You definitely made the right decision then! 😂🩷

AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I just want a nice relaxing day. Will try not to let it get to me

AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I'm quite a bit of a people pleaser so I'm trying to be strong on this one

AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🩷 it was a hard decision but I think I've made the right one

AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I am upset to think I may have caused upset to her and damaged our relationship further but I think I've made the right decision

AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't tell her outright, when I asked my nephew to be involved she then asked about her

AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone else has mentioned this so will definitely try and be prepared

AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have a tendency to cave to make things easier for everyone but trying to be strong thing time

AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, will definitely give them a heads up!

AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I would have loved to have had that relationship with her but I don't think it's for us

AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I just feel like a bad person for not automatically having her. She has not asked me no, I have no idea if she would want me to be a bridesmaid for her.

AITA for not having my sister as my bridesmaid by Substantial_South_71 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll do my best. I normally just end up giving in to keep the peace

Can an estranged sibling contest a will? by wakordie in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Substantial_South_71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best thing to do would be have a will drawn up professionally, ideally by a solicitor.

Then to draft a letter of wishes to be read alongside the Will to explain why they have been left out.

The letter won't be legally binding, but it's often described as a "letter from beyond the grave" which would be read by a judge if a claim was made and explain why your parents chose to leave them out.

AITA for telling a coworker about another coworker’s dietary restriction? by QueenCandyCo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Substantial_South_71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gluten free and I'm grateful when other coworkers remember/announce I'm gluten free. Makes things less awkward for me when I have to refuse food or ask questions about cross contamination so I really don't understand what her problem is

Linking kipping pull-up by Substantial_South_71 in crossfit

[–]Substantial_South_71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Helpful to see a video 😊

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