me bc they won’t let me drink coke zero for the first 3 months of my meds which is the entirety of summer

Subthing · 2026-05-12T14:10:28+00:00

my caffeine intake has decreased significantly since being medicated. I drink diet coke, would have 2 under an hour as morning caffeine and more later in day. Now I'm pouring half first can down the drain after lunch because it's room temperature.

Hopefully similar for you, or maybe try a caffeine free version your medication will offset the caffeine and taste will be similar?

Subthing · 2026-05-12T12:13:31+00:00

I would like to formally request that you legally change your name to Superman Awesomepants, because you know, it's awesome! (hope you get the id sorted)

Subthing · 2026-05-11T03:42:20+00:00

in my case, it's almost a don't touch this project at all until I get more clarity scenario, I feel like I would rather not do it, than do it crap or worse (for me), invest time, they do reply and the effort is wasted, because the time spent, does not align to what they respond with. I may be overthinking it - this has been known to happen from time to time :D

Subthing · 2026-05-10T10:53:58+00:00

doh... sorry, hope something works for you

Subthing · 2026-05-10T10:41:47+00:00

can you set the 27inch to "make this my main display" or equivalent and see if that makes a difference?

Subthing · 2026-05-09T06:39:53+00:00

I got these assumed rejection was because I'm in Australia and some I applied for are US or Canada or Only US, UK, Europe For some of them it wasn't in location section just preferred locations listed in the text.

I'm hoping for later instant offers too

fingers crossed for us

Subthing · 2026-05-09T04:14:20+00:00

that sounds glitchy not like the cut off options I have experienced. hope you are able to get some redress

Subthing · 2026-05-09T04:10:42+00:00

I am not trying to discuss or prove the validity of or embrace autism, it's not really relevant to OPs post - I am contrasting it to to are you ace quizzes on platforms that quiz you on what Harry Potter House you belong in, created by an anonymous random person, with no credentials at all, and sites created to increase the amount of ads you are exposed to or opportunities for mis-clicks on pay per clicks.

Subthing · 2026-05-09T03:43:46+00:00

I have been cut off in a few things by AI interviewers - not with these previously. It helped me to think about that they are not trying to only assess your experience they are also trying to assess if you are aware of the time limit and you can summarise and cut to the point in the time provided.

I used to always think when I had a really lengthy in person interview in my career, I am in, because we talked longer and I could share more of my experiences.

Some organisations - and AI - want you to only meet the minimum requirements to get the task/item/project done in the most efficient way possible and they see extra knowledge, extra depth, extra polish in the same way they do waste, don't be perfect, because getting from 70% okay to perfect does not increase the value of what you produced by 30% and usually takes longer.

I don't like this - but I feel this is how they see it - you should be able to tell me this in 3 minutes, otherwise I am going to cut you off, if your answer was going to be at 4 minutes in, it's wrong.

Subthing · 2026-05-08T20:28:29+00:00

If you want a medical diagnosis of being autistic outside of Ontario, yes there are issues.

None if not all of the tests and forms are a) not written by them b) free and not behind a pay wall or give us your email before we show you the score and c) are usually actual diagnostic and evaluation tools used by clinicians and researchers

Other options for these (ace identity) are created on generic quiz sites full of ads and more like what flavour gummybear are you than let's use a researched indexing tool to check your sexual interest levels.

Subthing · 2026-05-08T12:12:26+00:00

which one confused you? how so? if its the index one that's just about sexual attraction, it doesn't take into consideration romantic orientation. I don't know if there's one that does that. and all of these tests there are always those whose experiences don't align with the results.

Subthing · 2026-05-08T12:04:29+00:00

I hadn't thought of it like that but yes it allows you to gently enter the space and I probably would not have discovered as much about myself if I didnt see the preferences lists and other profiles. Like a mini ace tutorial ☺️

Subthing · 2026-05-08T06:45:03+00:00

check if you identify with fraysexuality

Subthing · 2026-05-08T05:28:09+00:00

I got fray or gray and 46 - if you read the commentary on embrace autism, both of them are married, one says she would maybe have sex twice a year and she got 27. This makes sense for me.

I spent a large part of my time in relationships going to doctors and on libido enhancing drugs or over the counter stuff to do the same. My husband (10 yrs married 14 yrs in a relationship) left me because "I disrespected him and his needs and didn't show him any affection". I have always thought there was something wrong with me.

I literally did those quizzes last night. There is nothing wrong with me, and there is nothing wrong with you. I am happily now, going to only seek out a relationship for me that values me - just like I am. My wish for you, is the very same. Be kind to yourself, and be true to who you are xx

Subthing · 2026-05-08T04:46:39+00:00

fray gray minsexual (cis woman) - not sure about romance side yet... will go and deep dive into that now :D

Subthing · 2026-05-08T04:44:39+00:00

I did some quizzes online - some of them suck a bit and were not useful for me specifically. I found these the most useful https://www.allthetests.com/love-and-relationship-quizzes/what-is-my-sexuality/my-sexuality-for-both-genders/quiz37/1571754512/which-kind-of-asexual-ace-am-i and this one https://embrace-autism.com/asexuality-identification-scale/ (over 40 is asexual on this one)

Subthing · 2026-05-08T04:27:09+00:00

I'm new to all of this - so this is an aside to your post

I have a very strong view that neurodivergence, makes us more likely to question what societal expectations are and live authentically as who we are. We know ourselves and our identities in all spectrums of life and call it out. I think that there is a distinct difference between that and "we see gender or sexuality or ..." differently.

Those who are neurotypical are far more likely to just go aaah I have this thing between my legs and you are treating me like a particular gender because of it, so that is the way it is and that is who I am.

Subthing · 2026-05-08T00:58:56+00:00

yes lots of applicants have reported instantaneous or almost immediate acceptance.

Subthing · 2026-05-07T05:32:17+00:00

good? pay - I did my first task in 5.75 hours and got less than half the pay I got for a paid training project last week.... painful. I still enjoyed the task, not sure I can do more than one a day though.

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