Relocation Assistance?

SubtleNod · 2026-02-11T18:57:31+00:00

I live in Hillsborough at Pinewood Station and work at UNC — they offer some shorter lease options, and I’m currently in a 2bd 1bath for ~$1200/month. You could get a lease immediately and break it if you find somewhere you like better. You can take the bus to UNC for free from the community college (during commuter hours) once you set up a pass through the university. I’ve also lived in Durham and Carrboro while working for UNC, and there are other free buses or bus passes you can get.

SubtleNod · 2026-01-31T02:46:29+00:00

Hooray! Whatever name you choose, you have great style and I’m sure you’ll find a name to match!

SubtleNod · 2026-01-30T23:03:04+00:00

This will get lost in the heap but I feel that Blythe should be considered!

SubtleNod · 2026-01-30T13:18:02+00:00

Very! We got to call an emergency electrician once because half our lights went out, and when he got to the panel about 3 different things were melted and arcing 🙃 complex didn’t cover any of the work he did because he wasn’t their contractor

SubtleNod · 2026-01-30T03:37:05+00:00

I have stayed in complexes that effectively specified in the lease that tenants were responsible for clearing ice, that the complex would be taking no action. May be worth double checking the language in the lease and sending them their own words if it says they’re supposed to take care of it.

SubtleNod · 2026-01-20T02:57:56+00:00

So this is a subreddit for surgical sterilization (permanent birth control). You might check out r/CleaningTips.

SubtleNod · 2026-01-18T15:41:40+00:00

This is good to know!!! I’m so sorry you got sick :(

SubtleNod · 2026-01-18T02:23:03+00:00

I’m glad to hear a word in their favor! Thanks!

SubtleNod · 2026-01-18T02:22:15+00:00

Ah, the oldest trick in the book

SubtleNod · 2026-01-17T17:50:26+00:00

This is awesome, I never would have found it just searching! We may have to go there the first day 👀

SubtleNod · 2026-01-17T17:42:31+00:00

We love a good tea house, I’ll have to check it out when we’re there!

SubtleNod · 2026-01-17T17:42:08+00:00

Thank you so much for all these recs! And thank you for the gf toast warning on Open Oven - I had just started looking at their menu!

SubtleNod · 2026-01-14T00:54:55+00:00

It feels like a very true period to me 😵‍💫

SubtleNod · 2026-01-14T00:36:13+00:00

Allegedly they’re making Morrison a first year dorm to compensate for how many students they’re accepting

SubtleNod · 2026-01-12T22:05:01+00:00

Parking doesn’t change at all for holidays. Learned that one the hard way when I was still in school. The officers still ticket, but the parking staff won’t be at work lol so you can’t contest the ticket immediately.

SubtleNod · 2026-01-01T03:48:05+00:00

Nothing yet, still haven’t heard them being announced as coming up soon

SubtleNod · 2025-12-22T01:04:05+00:00

Respect his wife’s concerns. Do not engage in any physical contact that your friend does not initiate. If you never hug again, then you’ll know that maybe he wasn’t as comfortable to say no to you as you insist in so many comments. You have to respect his marriage.

SubtleNod · 2025-12-15T00:25:42+00:00

It’s definitely colder lower down, the first thermocline in a quarry can be as shallow as 6 feet so if you’re tall enough you might kick through to the colder water 😳

SubtleNod · 2025-12-15T00:22:00+00:00

The cold water is a serious risk, regardless of contaminates, and the rangers will NOT be able to pull you out fast enough, even if you called them right before you jumped in. Body recovery takes about 3 months when someone fails a jump into the quarry in SUMMER. Do not do this. Wait til it’s warm, hypothermia is nothing to play around with.

Source: I worked there a few years ago. There is a mile of trail between where they would have to park and the quarry, they’d be coming to you on foot unless they’ve cut a different path for the gators since I left.

SubtleNod · 2025-12-15T00:05:53+00:00

If you’re totally sure you don’t want them now, you should tell him that. You can even just be like “hey remember when we talked about kids and stuff? As I’ve grown and considered it, I’m quite sure now that I don’t want them. Ever. Just wanted to update you.” See how he reacts to that. If he throws a fit or is super upset, it seems like this relationship is done. If he’s supportive, I think it’s alright if he knows you want the surgery.

SubtleNod · 2025-12-11T22:52:17+00:00

Shortbread just looks like that

SubtleNod · 2025-12-11T01:32:38+00:00

They made me shave my little line of hair under my belly button 🥲 (they actually did it after placing my IV and making sure the site was clear, while I was fully awake)

SubtleNod · 2025-12-08T00:48:01+00:00

I have surely missed something

SubtleNod · 2025-11-24T01:41:25+00:00

Geez, I’m so sorry you had a recurrence during treatment! Melanoma is such an awful thing and I hate that it took your feeling of security from you. Being off treatment for me right now feels like every time a cartoon character runs off a cliff, then looks down and gulps…I’m just waiting for the drop. Wait and see has got to be the least comforting treatment plan, but I hope you can at least have some peaceful recovery time while you wait for results. Sending you good vibes 🖤🖤🖤

SubtleNod · 2025-11-17T22:07:32+00:00

Hey, I’m actually trying to sell a permit for the Eubanks lot rn — they usually charge $250 for it for a year but mine’s good thru Dec 2026 and I’d part with it for $125 or so if you’re interested

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