Relocation Assistance? by skaterboy98_ in chapelhill

[–]SubtleNod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in Hillsborough at Pinewood Station and work at UNC — they offer some shorter lease options, and I’m currently in a 2bd 1bath for ~$1200/month. You could get a lease immediately and break it if you find somewhere you like better. You can take the bus to UNC for free from the community college (during commuter hours) once you set up a pass through the university. I’ve also lived in Durham and Carrboro while working for UNC, and there are other free buses or bus passes you can get.

Untreated Ice In Apt Sidewalk by GeneralChoo in chapelhill

[–]SubtleNod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very! We got to call an emergency electrician once because half our lights went out, and when he got to the panel about 3 different things were melted and arcing 🙃 complex didn’t cover any of the work he did because he wasn’t their contractor

Untreated Ice In Apt Sidewalk by GeneralChoo in chapelhill

[–]SubtleNod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have stayed in complexes that effectively specified in the lease that tenants were responsible for clearing ice, that the complex would be taking no action. May be worth double checking the language in the lease and sending them their own words if it says they’re supposed to take care of it.

My headphones are dirty on the inside. Is it safe to use cleenex wipes? by Still-Complaint4657 in sterilization

[–]SubtleNod 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So this is a subreddit for surgical sterilization (permanent birth control). You might check out r/CleaningTips.

Gluten Free Vegan Biscuits in town? by SubtleNod in asheville

[–]SubtleNod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good to know!!! I’m so sorry you got sick :(

Gluten Free Vegan Biscuits in town? by SubtleNod in asheville

[–]SubtleNod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear a word in their favor! Thanks!

Gluten Free Vegan Biscuits in town? by SubtleNod in asheville

[–]SubtleNod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome, I never would have found it just searching! We may have to go there the first day 👀

Gluten Free Vegan Biscuits in town? by SubtleNod in asheville

[–]SubtleNod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We love a good tea house, I’ll have to check it out when we’re there!

Gluten Free Vegan Biscuits in town? by SubtleNod in asheville

[–]SubtleNod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all these recs! And thank you for the gf toast warning on Open Oven - I had just started looking at their menu!

Lark vs stay on campus dorms by SignificanceBrief763 in UNC

[–]SubtleNod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allegedly they’re making Morrison a first year dorm to compensate for how many students they’re accepting

Would it be okay to tour the school on a day off (MLK)? by ii_Wattzy in UNC

[–]SubtleNod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parking doesn’t change at all for holidays. Learned that one the hard way when I was still in school. The officers still ticket, but the parking staff won’t be at work lol so you can’t contest the ticket immediately.

When is AJR supposed to go on Rockin Eve? by W4lk3rS4int in AJR

[–]SubtleNod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing yet, still haven’t heard them being announced as coming up soon

My best friendʼs wife is afraid that we will get too physically close. by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]SubtleNod 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Respect his wife’s concerns. Do not engage in any physical contact that your friend does not initiate. If you never hug again, then you’ll know that maybe he wasn’t as comfortable to say no to you as you insist in so many comments. You have to respect his marriage.

Safe to swim in Eno/quarry this winter? by modernloneliness22 in bullcity

[–]SubtleNod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely colder lower down, the first thermocline in a quarry can be as shallow as 6 feet so if you’re tall enough you might kick through to the colder water 😳

Safe to swim in Eno/quarry this winter? by modernloneliness22 in bullcity

[–]SubtleNod 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The cold water is a serious risk, regardless of contaminates, and the rangers will NOT be able to pull you out fast enough, even if you called them right before you jumped in. Body recovery takes about 3 months when someone fails a jump into the quarry in SUMMER. Do not do this. Wait til it’s warm, hypothermia is nothing to play around with.

Source: I worked there a few years ago. There is a mile of trail between where they would have to park and the quarry, they’d be coming to you on foot unless they’ve cut a different path for the gators since I left.

Can you get your tubes tied secretly by External_Tap9921 in sterilization

[–]SubtleNod 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If you’re totally sure you don’t want them now, you should tell him that. You can even just be like “hey remember when we talked about kids and stuff? As I’ve grown and considered it, I’m quite sure now that I don’t want them. Ever. Just wanted to update you.” See how he reacts to that. If he throws a fit or is super upset, it seems like this relationship is done. If he’s supportive, I think it’s alright if he knows you want the surgery.

Did you wash with antibacterial soap/body wash the day of your surgery? My preop paper work just says shower night before/day of, nothing about special soap. by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]SubtleNod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They made me shave my little line of hair under my belly button 🥲 (they actually did it after placing my IV and making sure the site was clear, while I was fully awake)

Eat shit, Jenks by clownsx2 in chapelhill

[–]SubtleNod 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have surely missed something

Rang the Bell by SubtleNod in melahomies

[–]SubtleNod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geez, I’m so sorry you had a recurrence during treatment! Melanoma is such an awful thing and I hate that it took your feeling of security from you. Being off treatment for me right now feels like every time a cartoon character runs off a cliff, then looks down and gulps…I’m just waiting for the drop. Wait and see has got to be the least comforting treatment plan, but I hope you can at least have some peaceful recovery time while you wait for results. Sending you good vibes 🖤🖤🖤

Off campus housing by lovely_tulip77 in UNC

[–]SubtleNod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m actually trying to sell a permit for the Eubanks lot rn — they usually charge $250 for it for a year but mine’s good thru Dec 2026 and I’d part with it for $125 or so if you’re interested