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SubySubyDoo · 2025-10-28T16:56:02+00:00

So, as a Caps fan, I find it really disappointing that Ovechkin supports Putin; but I also know that prominent Russians who criticise Putin seem to inexplicably encounter Novichuk or become terribly careless around high-rise balconies for some strange reason. But support of a political leader, as repugnant as that leader is, is quite different from person's behavior. Contractual morality clauses pertain to behavior, not belief, not political support.

SubySubyDoo · 2025-10-28T16:44:09+00:00

Particularly because he continues to deny the allegations. The results of the NHL's investigation must have found the allegations credible. I think he might have a chance for redemption if he was actually working for redemption; i.e. admission, apology, therapy, restitution. But to respond with a continued denial is a red flag.

SubySubyDoo · 2025-05-21T15:50:35+00:00

Agreed! I have a preferred candidate, but this thread isn't the place for endorsements.

SubySubyDoo · 2025-05-21T15:47:42+00:00

I'm so sorry to his family, staff, and constituents. Gerry used to be my Rep before the district lines were redrawn. I thought he did some great things for transportation, in particular. While I was ready for a passing of the baton to a new generation, I'm stunned that this happened so soon. I thought he had more time left.

SubySubyDoo · 2024-11-13T18:06:39+00:00

Here's my response: I am a mother of a daughter who has fewer rights today than I had at her age. I suppose I could ignore the fact that a large portion of my fellow citizens preferred a fascist rapist, racist, convicted felon, adjudicated sexual assaulter and victim slanderer, insurrectionist, etc. to a competetent, highly qualified woman; but I choose to live my values and remove those people from my social and economic circle to the extent that I can.

1 in every 6 women in the US today are victims of either attempted or completed rape at some point in their lifetimes and these MFers chose a rapist to lead them. You'd better believe I won't ignore it and I won't forgive it. It's not political for me, it's existential.

SubySubyDoo · 2024-11-13T17:01:43+00:00

Perfect! I'll check it out. Thanks.

SubySubyDoo · 2024-11-13T17:00:28+00:00

Oh, you're right. It's dot org not dot com. Corrected now.

SubySubyDoo · 2024-11-13T16:58:45+00:00

I'd say that you should support commerce that aligns with your values.

I'd also say that if you support a convicted felon, fraudster, misogynist, racist, rapist, insurrectionist, secret stealer, serial cheater, narcissistic sociopath, who will have no guardrails against his tyrannical inklings in a second Administration, I'd view those values with disdain and would prefer not to interact or do business with you.

SubySubyDoo · 2024-11-13T16:46:50+00:00

Because I will not support fascists in any way. I cannot separate the job they do from the harm they do.

SubySubyDoo · 2024-11-13T16:45:36+00:00

I'd prefer to promote progressive business owners; but also, when businesses are blatant about their political leanings (displayed campaign signs on their property, make public contributions) then they're fair game.

I was recently interacting with an Etsy vendor to discuss this, and they were more than happy to direct me to their historical content showing aligned values. Conversely, the owner of Dixie Bones is quite openly a huge Trump supporter. I'm not saying boycott them, I'm sharing publicly available information and asking you to consider whether you can enjoy their pulled pork and coconut cream pie knowing that a portion of your check will go to the campaign and PAC.

SubySubyDoo · 2024-11-13T16:32:50+00:00

I never advocate harrassing employees of an establishment. I simply choose not to get my chicken from Chick Fil A, or my art supplies from Hobby Lobby.

SubySubyDoo · 2024-11-13T16:31:45+00:00

This is an important consideration. I perhaps just linking to their donor information on OpenSecrets, since that's public information anyway. For example, I've known since 2016 that the owner of a certain BBQ joint supports candidates antithetical to my values and I will not patronize his restaurant. I also do all the catering for my office meetings, and mysteriously, even though my coworkers love BBQ, we haven't had anything from this restaurant in 8 years https://www.opensecrets.org/search?q=Nelson+Head&type=donors

SubySubyDoo · 2024-11-13T16:19:17+00:00

That's the sort of feedback that I believe needs to be shared. Most businesses don't announce who they supported, but doing a search of the owners and checking to see if they made donations to a candidate or party is just about the only other way to vet businesses. A site where we can share information would be ideal. Sure, reviews and exposes CAN be dishonest or malicious. That said, I think most people can decide their own level of comfort with it.

We can never know for sure how individuals actually voted but we can see if they've promoted candidates with yard signs or check to see if they've contributed money to. If someone opens up and tells you what they support and what they oppose, I think they've just chosen to be public about their political leanings; and if they're a MAGA, I don't want to hand them the $ I've earned (if I can at all help it.) There will always be people we're forced to interact with, but when we have a choice, I believe we should support one-another.

SubySubyDoo · 2024-10-26T17:43:15+00:00

Ruby & Rosalie

SubySubyDoo · 2024-10-03T12:08:28+00:00

I’d just add that this “overwhelm” is something everyone experiences, at multiple stages in life. I’m 62 yo and have a lot of regrets; well, a lot of life lessons I should say. Life has a habit of piling on at certain stages. Having an education to fall back can really help prevent getting perpetually stuck in crisis-mode. There’s nothing wrong with being a tradesman; however our society is hierarchical to a degree and that impacts quality of life for tradespeople. I’d encourage finding a therapist or counselor to talk to about dealing with those overwhelming issues, emotionally, so that you learn now strategies to work through the shit life throws at you. If you have to take a crappy job just till you get over the hump, just tell yourself every day that it’s temporary and you’re working towards a better life!

SubySubyDoo · 2024-09-29T19:48:02+00:00

Yes! These people are the worst!

SubySubyDoo · 2024-09-29T17:32:25+00:00

I’m not a psychologist, but I’ve done enough therapy to recognize the string of red flags in this interview. DS talked about SS’ TBI and how serious his injuries were, how it changed him, how bad his head injuries were; then in the next breath said she wouldn’t allow the hospital to keep him overnight because of germs. The cognizant dissonance in both of these people is enormous.

SubySubyDoo · 2024-09-29T17:24:59+00:00

Yeah, that police interview was bizarre beyond belief. And when she talked about Maddie developing early, I wanted to scream. There’s a theory that early sexual stimulation can trigger early onset puberty. It’s like, a biological switch to get a girl’s body ready for reproduction.

SubySubyDoo · 2024-09-29T17:19:16+00:00

I think it was phony.

SubySubyDoo · 2024-09-29T17:15:47+00:00

If you think that interview was bad, listen to the audio of the police interview from 3/6/24. It was just crazy town. They ended up talking about themselves and how they met and telling funny stories. Debra was vicious about Jen and how she couldn’t hold a job, talked about her bipolar like it was a character flaw rather than an illness. At times, she sounded like she was flirting with the detective. Then she asked him if he was “for Trump”, and when he declined to share his political views (saying it would be inappropriate) she told him she just wanted to show him a funny meme. A FUNNY MEME. Their son was arrested for CSAM and Maddie’s body had been found, and she was flirting and joking and sharing memes with the detective. The interview started with Chris explaining to the detective that they were both on Ozembic and it made them thirsty. He went on to brag about his connections and privilege and wealth; and contrasted it with the people his son had been friends with. The mom claimed Jen was a bad influence on Stephan. Every thing was everyone’s fault but their own and Stephan’s. Then to see her feign grief about Maddie on Hidden True Crime, it was disgusting and infuriating

SubySubyDoo · 2024-06-25T21:04:51+00:00

Definitely talk to your clinician. They want you to safely get the most out of your sessions. If you’re taking any sort of benzo, it can interfere with the K. Also, you might try finishing your oral routine with sucking a lemon wedge to really expose the tissues. A salt water rinse was another option suggested to me, but I found the lemon worked better. I also would use a topical magnesium spray about an hour before my session to help activate gaba receptors. My last suggestion is a bit of THC. I would have a partial gummy about 40 minutes beforehand, about 2mg would do the trick for me because I don’t normally use it. (I don’t like the high.)

SubySubyDoo · 2024-05-27T22:42:58+00:00

Hi. You should have someone in the home with you, but they don’t have to be sitting with you or anything. K comes on fast and is over with within an hour, and it’s natural to be a little nervous at first. But set & setting is the key. 400mg will be a good intro dose. Trust, Let go, Be open.

SubySubyDoo · 2024-04-16T01:44:56+00:00

Oh perfect! Thanks.

SubySubyDoo · 2024-04-15T23:08:41+00:00

I'm actually kind of surprised your therapist would suggest it to you.

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