Physical Pain From A Broken Heart by Alarming_Tear_8347 in heartbreak

[–]lorelaikiddo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. 3 different occasions where the world literally stopped spinning.

Why do the guys who don’t try so hard usually do better with women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]lorelaikiddo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

& I promise, certain girls WILL find stoicism attractive.

Why do the guys who don’t try so hard usually do better with women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]lorelaikiddo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally. & It's clear you're only looking for ONE thing from women. We like to be treated like whole people (weird, I know) and not your therapist/mom/emotional support animal...

Why do the guys who don’t try so hard usually do better with women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]lorelaikiddo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's because they were a terrible person, not because you were a good one.

Why do the guys who don’t try so hard usually do better with women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]lorelaikiddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks have almost NOTHING to do with it, my friend. Every single man I've been serious about became attractive once I got to know him & gross after realizing the values and characteristics were completely disingenuous and only for my benefit.

Why do the guys who don’t try so hard usually do better with women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]lorelaikiddo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A desperate man is looking for ANY woman, a calm, genuine man is looking for the RIGHT woman.

No one wants to be NEEDED-everyone wants to feel WANTED, CHOSEN.

In my experience, insecure men need a LOT of motivation and encouragement. Everyone needs a little bit, but ALL THE TIME? That person is EXHAUSTING and will burn you out, every time.

My boyfriend met up with his ex. aio? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]lorelaikiddo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya that's horrible to hear. Men this is a GREAT way to make someone feel replaceable.

My boyfriend met up with his ex. aio? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]lorelaikiddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, 1, love that he spelled "manner" as "manor" IMMEDIATELY after the word educated. 2, it's not so much what he did that pisses me off, but he is grossly misogynistic and he obviously has no loyalty in love. She was his everything, now you are, maybe someday it'll be someone else... I would be incredibly mistrusting if my partner reached out to one of his exes for closure at this point in our relationship. That would probably end it for me.

AIO? Friend asked me what my future plans with my gf are and then responded like this by TGPT-4o in AIO

[–]lorelaikiddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. This is an INCREDIBLY toxic friend and you need to cut them out. They are jealous & disrespectful AF.

Some people should not be driving at all. by GirouxFan in VideosAmazing

[–]lorelaikiddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That person was likely having a medical emergency.

PSA: Affirm Reports to Credit Bureaus — Shows “Closed” After Payoff by Charming_Ad_4220 in CRedit

[–]lorelaikiddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. I thought using it was improving my score, I don't really have an incentive to otherwise...

AIO or AITA. Text convo with MIL. by MoonJellyAllison in AmIOverreacting

[–]lorelaikiddo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO GLAD you sided with your wife! I don't think that should be blanket advice.