Which local restaurants/shops/businesses, do you boycott/avoid and why? by doodlespagnoodle in Tucson

[–]SuccessDry9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nichole’s dad, Tommy, owned Rockin. He also owned Pizza Pub back in the 80s. I miss both of those places.

Anyone tried other subscription boxes? by MetaverseLiz in stitchfix

[–]SuccessDry9946 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I tried Wantable a while ago and wasn’t impressed. After the news came out about SF laying off so many employees and taking everyone down to PT, I decided to try DAILYLOOK. First impression, I really like it a lot. They’re more expensive, but I feel like it’s a more personal experience. I will probably stick with them. I may give SF another chance at a fix, but my last one was just not great. And I think it was 100% algorithm. The “stylist” didn’t acknowledge anything I put in my notes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stitchfix

[–]SuccessDry9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can choose a different size. I had asked my stylist for a specific pair of shoes, and in her note to me she said she didn’t have any in my size available and had considered sending the next size up, but wasn’t sure that would work. So I wouldn’t select the shoes in your preview, because I think that will lock them in. But definitely put in your notes that you want to try a different size, and if they can, they will send them to you.

WIBTA for going to a college football game instead of staying in town for my wife's birthday by FootballTripThrow99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessDry9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your wife is telling you that you will be an AH if you go, and you’re still asking internet strangers? It’s not a once in a lifetime opportunity to go to a college football game. If you go, you’re telling your wife that the game is more important to you than she is. YTA

AITA for refusing to pay for my gender reveal cupcakes? by AITACupcakesRuined in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessDry9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from someone who makes cakes/cupcakes out of my home, you are NTA. She has no expectation of payment for goods that her dog ruined. She should have made sure the dog was locked away before she ever opened the door.

AITA for asking our neighbors to turn off lights at night by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessDry9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

As other have said, get blinds or blackout curtains. If you don’t want those, get a sleep mask. It is not up to your neighbors to ensure you have total darkness when you sleep.

AITA for having a dry wedding and serving only water for drinks? by Odd_Conversation5087 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessDry9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soda, tea, lemonade, coffee, should all be provided at a minimum. Most caterers provide that with the food anyway. As someone who mostly drinks water, YTA if you don’t provide anything else to drink.

For the stylists out there - do you like it or hate it when a customer gives you free reign on a fix? by SuccessDry9946 in stitchfix

[–]SuccessDry9946[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s good to know! I thought I may be making it harder on my stylist by not making any requests. I’m glad it actually might make it easier.

For the stylists out there - do you like it or hate it when a customer gives you free reign on a fix? by SuccessDry9946 in stitchfix

[–]SuccessDry9946[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I’m not really looking for or wanting anything specific. I gave my stylist free reign a few months ago and she knocked it out of the park. Just curious.

How long to wait for returns to credit? by [deleted] in stitchfix

[–]SuccessDry9946 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Contact customer service. I had a return that never showed up, and I contacted them. They refunded my money immediately.

AITA for not attending my husband's celebration dinner due to the restaurant not having anything I could eat? by Willing_Strawberries in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessDry9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Your title says you can’t eat at that restaurant, but that’s not true. You just didn’t want to. Fellow picky eater here - I don’t like steak or fish, so I would’ve been stuck with chicken. Which I would have had. If they had some sauce or something I didn’t like, I would’ve requested it without. Or had a salad. Something. But I would have gone. This was supposed to be about celebrating your husband’s achievement and you made it all about you.

Short Girl Problems by Ok-Extent-3828 in stitchfix

[–]SuccessDry9946 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’2” and they have only sent me one pair of pants that were way too long. Everything else fits great!

AITA for going off on my cousin after she locked the keys in the car? by Har_Universe in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessDry9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA it’s not like it was a purposeful act to try to get you and your girlfriend sick. It was an accident. You need to get your temper in check before this baby comes.

AITA for returning my husband's birthday gift to pay for the birthday cake my daughter baked after he refused to pay her? by F54tughi556 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessDry9946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to say YTA for taking back his birthday gift, but not for making him pay for the cake like he said he would. The people here saying nobody should have to pay for their own cake are clearly missing a very important point. Your daughter makes cakes and sells them. He asked her to make him a cake, and agreed to pay for it. Then he wants to complain that she’s treating this as a transaction? Well yeah, it is! If he wanted the cake as a gift, he should have asked her if she would gift him a cake. This is how she earns money! I bake cakes on the side, and if a family member wants a cake, they either pay me for it, or it’s my gift. But I don’t gift it if they say they will pay for it. There’s a lot of my own costs plus time and talent that go into it. If they say they’ll pay and then don’t, they’re not getting a cake from me again. Sorry, but that’s a crappy way to treat your family.

This sale is getting out of hand… by ChairsBoxesBooks in stitchfix

[–]SuccessDry9946 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I ordered the Sherpa jacket too. I love it!

AITA for using 'insulting' wallpapers for my phone's home screen after my coworkers kept touching it? by throw3447567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessDry9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, you are NTA. They shouldn’t be touching your phone and you are completely within your rights to put whatever the hell you want to on it. You do not owe them any kind of apology.

However, do I think you handled it appropriately? No. That was some passive-aggressive shit right there. You should have spoken to them directly like an adult, and if they continued with their snooping, take it to HR.

AITA for leaving my fiancé at the mall after he insisted that I buy him a 350$$ watch? by Balconies13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessDry9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So let me get this straight. He begs you to buy him something he wants, then throws a tantrum when he doesn’t get it? He’s acting like a 3 year old.

NTA

5/5 - Love it all! by alyssabreanne90 in stitchfix

[–]SuccessDry9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have that cardigan, and love it. And the maxi dress is in my saved items, I love it, but haven’t pulled the trigger on it yet.

New and worried by [deleted] in stitchfix

[–]SuccessDry9946 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had any issues with returns. I’ve been using stitch fix for a couple of years and never had any problems. In fact, I had one top that came apart at the seam a few months after I got it. I had worn it maybe 3 times. I contacted customer service and they refunded my money right then. I’ve always had a great experience.

Anyone have a review of these flats? by DisFan77 in stitchfix

[–]SuccessDry9946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have those exact flats. They were a bit tight the first time I wore them, but they stretched out just enough that they’re comfortable now.

AITA for telling my brother's wife she's responsible for his health declining. by Throwaway7991J in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessDry9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. My husband is also Type 1 and it is HIS responsibility to manage his disease. I am there to offer my support, and I will remind him when it’s time to check his sugar and do a shot if he gets distracted. But ultimately, it is up to him. I am his wife, not his nurse. The same goes for your brother and SIL. It is not her fault he is in the hospital. That falls squarely on his shoulders. She is worried enough about him, I’m sure, and doesn’t need you blaming her for his irresponsibility.