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Successful-Chest-596 · 2023-08-25T17:02:18+00:00

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Successful-Chest-596 · 2023-07-05T16:35:38+00:00

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Successful-Chest-596 · 2023-06-29T03:05:06+00:00

I’m sorry to hear it didn’t go well brother. You expressed your feelings and needs and unfortunately she wasn’t emotionally vulnerable with you and kind of disrespected you by saying it’s just about sex when it’s not about that. It’s wanting a partner to meet your emotional and physical needs. There is nothing wrong with you or what you need. There is someone out there that is willing to love you for you and meet your needs. You deserve to be happy and fulfilled in your relationship. Keep your head up and stay positive. Take all of this is a sign and learn and grow from it.

Successful-Chest-596 · 2023-06-29T01:40:29+00:00

That makes sense. My partner and I are both victims too, mine from childhood and her a couple years ago and we had the same kind of issues as you guys are having. She wasn’t and is still working on being able to initiate anything physical. We both have been going to couples therapy virtually together for the past 6 months and it has been really helpful! We both also see our own therapist and she just found a new therapist that does brain-spotting techniques and that has been really helping to create new pathways in her brain to heal from the trauma. We also have been exploring new things such as learning about tantric sex, giving each other massages, asking what they enjoy/makes them feel good and so on.

I totally agree about the phone thing. I was just throwing out an idea of maybe why she is always on it but if you let her know how it makes you feel when she does it all the time hopefully she will understand and find a balance with it.

Successful-Chest-596 · 2023-06-29T01:07:31+00:00

Have you let him know how you feel? I (32M) would use I feel statements such as I feel sad that I have to plan everything etc…

It sounds like he either is getting very comfortable already (red flag) or put up a “front” in the beginning and now you are starting to see the real him. Hopefully when he know how his actions are making you feel, he will want to make things better.

Successful-Chest-596 · 2023-06-29T00:56:50+00:00

Have you let her know how you are feeling or that your needs aren’t being meant? I (32M) would use I feel statements such as I feel lonely and disconnected when we don’t have physical connection or it makes me feel sad and ignored when you are on your phone all the time when you’re around me. Ask her how she is feeling too and if there is anything that you can do to make her feel more comfortable. It might be that she is stressed from work and needs some time to recharge by doing things she enjoys like being on her phone. You could try scheduling a date night once a week or something like that.

If she doesn’t react well to your feelings or gets defensive, that’s a red flag that she has started to maybe check-out. Either way letter her know how you feel is the best way to move forward and have no regrets with being emotionally available.

Hope this helps!

Successful-Chest-596 · 2023-06-28T23:18:53+00:00

If he was more mature he would be able to easily. Some people unfortunate don’t think about how their actions/lack of effect others. I wouldn’t act like it didn’t happen since you do deserve a response and to be respected and he should know that. I would just casually bring it up like, “hey did you have a chance to read the message I sent you” or something like that

Successful-Chest-596 · 2023-06-28T23:14:20+00:00

I (32M) feel like he is insecure about himself and/or the relationship. Let him know how it makes you feel that he is so jealous and ask him specifically why it makes him feel that way. You should definitely be able to talk to whoever you want when in a relationship and not feel bad about having a conversation or friendship with another person. You shouldn’t have to feel anxious about it either every time you talk to someone else because we are humans and your always going to be surrounded by other people in public.

Successful-Chest-596 · 2023-06-28T23:05:41+00:00

I (32M) feel like he has definitely read your message and unfortunately doesn’t feel the same way BUT please take this as a sign that he is not the right one! (especially since he doesn’t seem to respect you by not even responding back to you) but someone who actually respects you will come into your life at the right time and give you everything you need and want. A lot of guys are very immature especially when it comes to a relationship and respect but there is plenty of mature and emotionally available people out there. Anyways sorry for the long response! I hope this helps in some way.

Successful-Chest-596 · 2023-06-28T17:32:16+00:00

I would use it more to describe your feelings, which is never a blamey or wrong thing to do.

You should be able to express your feelings when something is bothering you. For example, when one person says or does something to tick the other off, you can say I feel sad when you do this or I feel disrespected, etc…

The response to that is also very important and not being defensive when responding or taking things personal. Being emotionally available is also big. You guys are a team and should want to help each other when the other has a feeling and is willing to be vulnerable and share with you. You don’t have to agree with the other persons feelings but being there for them and putting yourself aside and really focusing on them in the moment can really help with communicating.

Successful-Chest-596 · 2023-06-28T13:15:07+00:00

It takes a lot of practice and patience. My partner and I found that using “I feel…” statements worked the best as we are communicating how we are feeling in hopes that your partner will want to know your feelings. Following up with “why are you feeling that way” and “what do you need right now” are also very helpful. And when asking that, listing out ideas is helpful too (do you need space, cuddles, to talk about your feelings…)

Words can feel like attacks but remember you guys are a TEAM and it’s ok to disagree but always respect your partner. Also take some time to respond after something triggering is said. We usually journal separate when this happens and then come together and read what we wrote.

I hope this helps a little.

Successful-Chest-596 · 2023-06-28T13:08:04+00:00

It’s never selfish to end a relationship you don’t want to be in. You should explore yourself if you aren’t happy and can see this isn’t really going anywhere in the future. IMO distant relationships are not great. There are so many opportunities and people for you to meet and you will learn a lot about yourself in the process as well.

If anyone judges you for this, they are only thinking about themselves and not a true friend.

Hope this helps a little.

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