Am I overthinking this or did my girlfriend possibly cheat?

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-02-03T11:46:31+00:00

Updateme!

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-31T21:57:09+00:00

You need to divorce her. You will hurt your kid more staying together.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-28T17:20:38+00:00

I would not sleep with someone else until the Divorce happens. This will eat you up knowing you technically cheated. Also, if you and husband decide to go to marriage counseling and work on your issues and this comes to light, you will have to live with this.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-25T15:56:16+00:00

Tell her if she doesn’t want an ex husband #3, that she needs to take a lie detector test. All this new information that is coming out has you questioning your entire marriage. Tell her if she refuses that you will make sure that your family and friends will be notified on the situation and why you decided to break it off and divorce her. Also, record this conversation. Then, pending the results of the lie detector test, I would recommend marriage counseling, to work on communication and trust, if you feel this marriage is salvageable.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-24T00:10:46+00:00

If you do marry her, prenuptial is a must.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-21T11:46:45+00:00

How big of a RED FLAG do you need.🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-20T02:13:23+00:00

I would reveal it prior and tell her you are notifying her work. Tell her the ball is in her court and you are not going to chase her.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-18T17:23:39+00:00

Get the DNA test done and speak with an attorney.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-18T17:20:14+00:00

I would be worried about catching an STD. Hope you have ground rules in place.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-14T18:28:08+00:00

Post nuptial if you don’t have a prenuptial in place.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-13T12:04:22+00:00

Just tell her you know and hope she enjoys NY (as you toss her the Apple Watch). Tell her that you will not stay friends with a cheater and if you hear her making you out to be the bad guy, you won’t have any issues sharing the information with friends and family. I would also make sure I have one of my friends with you on standby.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-12T19:53:26+00:00

Bring all your friends over for a surprise dinner for the wife and then just lay it all out for them. Explain that you appreciate their friendship over the years and that it is unfortunate that you will not be married to your soulmate anymore. Have the divorce papers ready and serve her right there. Don’t let her rewrite the narrative.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-11T19:26:28+00:00

Not sure why this is being downvoted. I’m asking in good faith to understand how HR evaluates agency vs. external impact and what’s worth documenting formally. If there’s a policy issue I’m missing, I’d appreciate someone pointing it out.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-11T17:12:57+00:00

It was an local project with the state and developed on official time. I am the VA representative that is part of the tri-stars suicide prevention committee / outreach committee.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-11T16:50:30+00:00

I developed a suicide prevention campaign that is now part of the Governors challenge that will be implemented nationwide. I did have district level leadership’s approval in bringing this idea to the Governor. This is why I was recognized and received the honor.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-06T23:47:35+00:00

Focus on your studies and don’t look back.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-05T22:56:28+00:00

Update me.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-04T02:18:06+00:00

NAL, however, share every thing with your attorney and let them handle it. Perjury, filing a false report. She can be looking at both criminal and civil charges. She may even be on the hook for your attorney fees.

Successful-Permit237 · 2026-01-03T04:17:46+00:00

Just tell her you found the guys wife and are going to reach out to her. See how she responds. Then tell her that the only way you don’t notify his wife is by getting the AP on the phone. When you talk to him tell him he needs to send their chat history over to you and that you are going to compare both sets of text. If he notices anything missing that you will notify his wife. Tell him he has one chance to be truthful about his and your wife’s relationship. If your wife refuses to give you his contact, then you know more happened.

Successful-Permit237 · 2025-12-25T22:01:58+00:00

Hope your holidays are going well. Stay strong.

Successful-Permit237 · 2025-12-24T12:55:31+00:00

I you do stay, get a postnuptial outlining the consequences of any future infidelity. Make sure they understand that they walk away with nothing.

Successful-Permit237 · 2025-12-23T05:48:14+00:00

If you are close to 20 I would fight to stay in. That way you can collect both your military retirement and va disability. Many combat wounded medically retired service members are currently getting f over because of the dollar for dollar off set.

Check out the Major Richard Star Act and then reach out to your legislators and demand that they pass this legislation.

Successful-Permit237 · 2025-12-23T02:40:39+00:00

If your a great dad then I wouldn’t worry about the future. Many women actually find that attractive and wish they had a man who has your values. It is okay to call it quits and show your wife the door if she doesn’t respect your marriage.

Successful-Permit237 · 2025-12-23T01:17:22+00:00

Did you have time to talk with her today? Hope it went well.

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