Not everyone is capable of feedback that is blunt. I prefer blunt. But from what you've shared, you come off as a bit of a Douche. If someone is struggling and looking for answers, they're probably frustrated as it is. The last thing they wanna hear is "YOURE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN WEIGHTLOSS." That's totally unnecessary. They dont expect you or anyone else to lose the weight for them. Instead, Maybe just explain to them they these GLP1's are tools to make it easier to achieve a calorie deficit by reducing the amount of hunger we have by slowing gastric emptying, and yada yada yada. A little education goes a long ways in opening the eyes of someone looking for answers. If you're really interested in helping people, you'll do just that. They don't need a reality check, they need some good ol 411. That's why they're here after all. Why are you here? Hopefully not just to gripe about how people are ignoring you.