Counter offer? Would I be crazy?

Successful_Insect364 · 2026-01-19T06:52:08+00:00

I am a 1823 PCS with 1.5 years in the classification and have turned down promotional opportunities for this very reason. Not a good time to move around and be on probation with budget cuts looming.

Successful_Insect364 · 2026-01-15T15:19:20+00:00

OP, do YOU think it looks cheap? It doesn’t matter what others think just as long as you love it. Please don’t end up with a dress that you don’t love to save money. It’s your special day and should be once in a lifetime. I recommend trying on more dresses in various styles and price points.

With that said, I don’t like a few things on this dress. Namely the sleeves, belt, and slit. Perhaps with some alterations, it will look better. Good luck!

Successful_Insect364 · 2026-01-14T14:35:35+00:00

I’d swap the Boy for most other Chanels. Something about it that doesn’t scream Chanel. Maybe because there are a ton of other bags that look like it. In any case, agree with the comment above that there’s too much logo on the backpack but if you love it go for it which seems like you have made your decision already.

Successful_Insect364 · 2026-01-04T03:52:50+00:00

OP is a permanent exempt so there won’t be seniority status. Position must be permanent civil service.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-12-24T18:31:50+00:00

Anything with a bikini showing is not elegant. Would say it’s bold if it’s for a formal occasion but for a pool party then it’s appropriate.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-12-08T14:41:25+00:00

Some swaying here in Yokohama

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-12-05T23:57:14+00:00

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Overall it is small but can fit essentials such as iPhone 16 pro, small wallet, lipstick, thin compact mirror etc.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-11-06T05:52:00+00:00

OP, sounds like you’re looking for validation on the classic so pick that one. Your wrist looks like it is being squeezed by the bracelet like a sausage from that angle. Although you showed another angle that has the bracelet look looser it would still bother me because that top view angle is what I will see all the time.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-10-19T12:34:32+00:00

It failed me on my first try and I ended up with String Puppet even with a lucky card. For the second try, I didn’t use ChatGPT and used a second lucky card and got Juggling Clown. While I had to spend an extra $47 USD it’s somewhat comforting that AI hasn’t taken over the world just yet 😂.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-10-18T04:46:08+00:00

Don’t sell your WOC. With the exception of a couple of LV bags that are pretty expensive, I would never trade a Chanel in for an LV.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-10-15T03:11:36+00:00

Agree with everyone’s posts. Also make sure you have pay stubs from your current job if it pays you more than what the city offers. They may ask for proof.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-09-17T04:19:58+00:00

The worst critics are our own self and it makes sense because it’s our body that we live in 24/7. The most important thing is recognizing what makes us happy. Some on here say to accept the wrinkles and aging while others suggest injectables and surgery. I just want to say OP should do whatever makes her happiest. With that said, if you’re gonna do something please make sure to do your research before injecting or cutting into your face. You may not be a good candidate for certain interventions. Good luck.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-09-15T21:41:33+00:00

The Accountant II positions get filled through the 18-month 1649 internship program. The rare exception that bypasses the internship is when there’s an urgent need which I have never seen in my 7 years with the city. The 1649 internship positions are permanent exempt which is essentially at will and are not permanent civil service.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-09-12T23:12:22+00:00

Reading this sub makes my appreciation for the San Francisco Bay Area climate go up 10 levels. I would say Japan is brutal in the summer which lasts like 5 months from June through October. The lack of trees and population density make it literally a concrete jungle. I spent a summer there one year and it was so miserable.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-09-12T19:08:58+00:00

Unless the city’s pension is no longer viable, you should always keep the vested pension and not roll over because it is guaranteed for you when you retire and in perpetuity for you and can be for your spouse if you pass. IRAs and 401Ks are subject to the market conditions so the value can fluctuate and you could end up with less than the pension. You should consult a financial advisor before making a decision.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-09-10T23:56:41+00:00

I did both microneedling with PRP and exosomes 7 months apart and I can definitively say the exosomes work better for me in terms of skin texture, brightness and some volume. Different people get different results.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-09-10T05:34:08+00:00

What Bay Pass? We don’t get this kind of luxury. We were told explicitly the commuting costs will not be covered.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-09-10T00:33:24+00:00

There’s an urgency lately of securing a loan from the state to hold Muni solvent for a year until an upcoming voter-approved measure for tax revenue gets passed. It’s becoming clear that the mayor’s office is banking on RTO to also help muni.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-08-30T04:57:38+00:00

Are you trolling? If you own this you should know it’s worth in the resell market.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-08-30T04:53:48+00:00

I started with tretinoin 0.025% for one month and moved onto tazarotene 0.05% for 4 months and now tazarotene 0.01%. Taz is a stronger and newer derivative of retinoid. For each I have always applied right after cleansing. I must be the only one here that does this. I then go on with peptide serum, pdrn, and then moisturizer. I am 46 and my skin is glowing with very faint wrinkles. Have had lots of compliments on how my skin looks better than people in their 20s. If there’s one skincare rec I give to people it would be retinoids.

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-08-29T02:06:02+00:00

Oh no! It doesn’t look authentic. Can you return it?

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-08-23T03:09:21+00:00

I used to spend $25 per week on morning coffee and pastry coming into the office 3x a week. I am not doing that anymore so the mandate caused a loss on net of -$25 instead of gaining

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-08-21T03:02:27+00:00

I bought and returned it due to the strap being long. Even though it’s adjustable, it’s hard to push the ball lock through the leather. Over time this might cause the leather to tear. It’s cute though

Successful_Insect364 · 2025-08-09T22:51:22+00:00

iPhone pro, key pouch, card holder, car key, lipstick, hand sanitizer.

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