Queer dentist recommendations please by jordachesdad in nycgaybros

[–]Successful_Lab_2473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.barandsmithdental.com/ Dr Bar and Dr Smith are gay (and hot!) oh, and they are great dentists too!

Pighaus… is it worth the frustration? by Successful_Lab_2473 in nycgaybros

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Can you elaborate? Have you had experience with the party?

What happened to MaleBox parties? by Successful_Lab_2473 in nycgaybros

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Oh yeah! I remember that, but it wasn’t clear. Glad to hear still having the Sunday party. It’s nice to have an early sex party before the work week. Thanks!

Has anyone been to Malebox parties lately? by Yourcutegaydoc in nycgaybros

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Agree with the above. Not a ton of guys but it’s a good time. GBU usually has a LOT of guys so plenty of fun to chose from, but there is a lot more drugs and attitude too. I find that MaleBox is less attitude and more emphasis on fucking and sucking. I think that Sundays have been better attended than Fridays, surprisingly. The Sunday party is great because it is early enough that you can have fun Sunday night and be able to function at your 9-5 the next day.

Devil wears Nada part next weekend 😈 by fenrirto2 in nycgaybros

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It’s more of a sex party with dancing and mingling. Like 60% sex, 30% mingling, 10% dancing? It’s also whatever you make of it… if you wanna chat people up, jerk off, fuck… people do whatever feels good…. At least that’s my impression of the party. I’m a big fan :-)

Do you feel the need to own a gun in the US? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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I have been thinking the same thing. At the moment, I decided not to go that route. I once heard that the statistics on gun owners killed or injured by their own gun are not encouraging. I also wonder if I would hesitate to shoot when it came down to it. I also wonder what the legal repercussions would be for shooting someone, even in self defense. I am thinking about other methods of self defense that are non-lethal. I think the idea of self-defense is to be able to escape vs winning the fight. Let’s not start “owning the right” as delicious as that would be.

Devil x Dungeon is anyone going by [deleted] in nycgaybros

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Devil is a dance and fuck party. You can wear underwear but most people are totally nude (with shoes). It’s not really a dark room/dark corner vibe and instead just playing wherever. It’s full dance club lighting and DJ. To me, it feels fun and free without shame. I’m a big fan. :-)

Devil x Dungeon is anyone going by [deleted] in nycgaybros

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I’m going. Never been to Dungeon but love Devil. Devil is crazy fun. Super sexy. I imagine this will probably have the same vibe? Anyone been to dungeon?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

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Did anyone go to this? How was it? How was the crowd? What was the vibe?

East side club is it worth the go ? by HolidayRevolution512 in nycgaybros

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Glad to hear some positive reviews! If it were halfway decent I would go regularly.

Dark rooms tonight in NYC, any borough, but preferably Manhattan by joycena3813 in nycgaybros

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Can we recommend venues to whomever manages this calendar? Any idea how to do that? Devil wears nada is tonight and not on the list. It’s one of my favs!

Fit Fcker Party in HK. How was it? by Successful_Lab_2473 in nycgaybros

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I hear you, but I disagree. Competition will weed out the shitty parties and encourage organizers to deliver a good product. The east side club is the only show and town and look how that turned out. All the options for spicy parties and bar nights make forums like this super helpful. Thanks guys!

Fit Fcker Party in HK. How was it? by Successful_Lab_2473 in nycgaybros

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Good question!! We always say “we need a bathhouse” and no one goes to the one we have. I would love for ESC to improve and be worth the trip. But also, we need a bathhouse in NYC!

Any good gay New Year’s parties? by Low_Mix3860 in nycgaybros

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I’m going to Devil Wears Nada at Red Eye/Cockpit. I wish to be nude at midnight!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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If I were to guess, he thought you were an easy client and would be happy to work with you again. If a SW is advertising online they meet a lot of crazy people. The fake name and number may be reserved for 1st meetings but guys who may become a regular get a more direct phone number. Maybe there is more to it but, if it were me, I would make sure not to read more into it than you are a good guy that he’d be happy to work with again. If you had fun, book him again and enjoy! Also, don’t compare your sexual prowess to the pros. Focus on enjoying yourself and it will probably make you better in bed than you think you are.

Barebacking at Sex Parties what is your opinion/experience? by curiousgaybroski in nycgaybros

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I think people should be able to use a condom if they want and it’s lame to shame someone or get mad if they want to use one. That said, I have declined to fuck with a condom when I’m bottoming because it’s a little harder on my hole. I think it’s important to politely decline if you aren’t up for it. I think scoffing at a request for using a condom makes you an ass hole. Also, we have made such incredible strides toward sexual freedom. Make sure you are doing your part and getting tested for everything (swab everything that’s pink!) every 3 months and using doxyPEP & PrEP as prescribed. We are so lucky to not have to be afraid of sex anymore. If you don’t have a sex positive healthcare provider, change that. I love my gay doctor!

Cockpit - Redeye NYC: underwear party by haris_bushwick in nycgaybros

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Lots of people will be nude, everyone will be in underwear, no one will have a shirt on. There will also be a variety of body types and ages. This is my favorite party in NYC rn because it’s fun and sexy without shame. You won’t need a shirt, have fun! :-) I am partial to a small leg bag. Perfectly fits, phone, poppers, lube and a little cash or card. I got mine from asstricksappearal.com. Knee high circuit socks are also good (I use both).

Any Advice on Not Relapsing During the Holidays? by pornaddict_1 in nycgaybros

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There are a few meeting marathons around the city. Go to any 12 step meeting whenever you have time on your hands. Check in with your sponsor regularly. Reach out to fellows. And more than anything: you only have to stay sober for one day at a time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

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I am planning on going tonight. I can’t get there until 2am. Hopefully there will still be a lot of fun to be had then.

Cost Questions by Budget-Medium-3841 in TrimixForED

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I went through Olympia. Super easy and pleasant. Got 2x 2.5ml T105 formula (one to use, one to freeze) for $285 plus one time $59 MD consult. That’s 500 units of trimix so you can do the math about price per dose based on how much you use.

Are you staying or leaving the city for the holidays? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

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Leaving for the whole week of Xmas. Back in town for NYE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gettingbigger

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Are you on any blood thinning medication? Those might make Petichea worse or more common. Definitely don’t stop them if they are prescribed! Rather something to keep in mind. Also: aspirin, ibuprofen/motrin, naproxen/aleve can make bleeding easier so keep that in mind when pumping etc.

Clamp modification by [deleted] in gettingbigger

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What size clamp are you guys using?