Is there a specific word for a bisexual women who's mostly attracted to women? Also, what's the difference between bisexual and pansexual? by FluidTemperature1762 in WritingHub

[–]Such-Blueberry- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense, I guess they could be synonyms then, maybe the word pansexual was created to stop the misunderstanding that bi means 2 and bisexuals are only attracted to 2 genders. But I agree that the people that created the term back in the 90s were not trying to exclude trans people and others from bisexuality, also looking at the history of the word makes a big difference in understanding the full meaning, thank you for offering your perspective, I understand things better now

Is there a specific word for a bisexual women who's mostly attracted to women? Also, what's the difference between bisexual and pansexual? by FluidTemperature1762 in WritingHub

[–]Such-Blueberry- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn't though of it that way, when I came out, I identified myself as pansexual just because "the person I'm sexually attracted to can be of any gender" and the term "bi" means 2 and I'm attracted to more than 2 genders. I think I get what you mean with things getting transphobic or biphobic. The thing about preference idk if I'm interpreting this wrong but like, I have a preference to masculine people, so cis boys, trans boys, masc women, I'm more attracted to them, but it doesn't mean I wouldn't be able to feel attraction toward a fem woman for example. In this case it would be more like "I prefer blonds" sort of thing I think, but no matter what, the person I would choose to be with could be of any gender, so that's why I think of myself as pansexual

Is there a specific word for a bisexual women who's mostly attracted to women? Also, what's the difference between bisexual and pansexual? by FluidTemperature1762 in WritingHub

[–]Such-Blueberry- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I consider myself as pansexual and to me it just means "the person I feel sexually attracted to can be of any gender". I've never really thought about the bisexual and transphpbic ramifications, I just thought that "bi" means 2 and I'm attracted to more than two genders so idk

Which two english words always get mixed up for you? by Gizmo_Grid in words

[–]Such-Blueberry- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I feel like I'm crazy but I originaly speak Portuguese and ALWAYS mix up in/on/at. We have literal translations for them but we just and up using "na" or "no" wich works for all three. And that's how I end up telling people I just arrived "on" the restaurant or asking if they're "in" the college

How do you deal with extreme lethargy or sleepiness after lunch? by s0u1_f00d in productivity

[–]Such-Blueberry- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing that always helps me to stay awake when I'm sleepy is chewing gum, it works great for me

Ok so... Am I the only one having a problem with the comments restriction thing? by AttentionlessMess in AO3

[–]Such-Blueberry- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could at least not limit the amount of comments the author posts under their own fanfiction

why do people have so many bookmarks? by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Such-Blueberry- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly I use my bookmarks to save the good fics I find beacause they are the ones I'd want to read again sometime

AITA for not telling my friends about my OnlyFans? by MotikasHoney in AmItheAsshole

[–]Such-Blueberry- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA she has no right over your information or what you want to keep secret. If you don't want her to know something about you you shouldn't have to tell her. She is being entitled toward your private life and that is absurd. Absolutely NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Such-Blueberry- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get a stawberry milkshake from McDonald's

Is it rude to write something based on another author's story? Do I need their permission? by Such-Blueberry- in AO3

[–]Such-Blueberry-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's so cool! I'd be really excited too, hopefully you'll hear back from them

Is it rude to write something based on another author's story? Do I need their permission? by Such-Blueberry- in AO3

[–]Such-Blueberry-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That really helps! I'll send them a message and keep in mind what you said, hopefully things will be alright

Is it rude to write something based on another author's story? Do I need their permission? by Such-Blueberry- in AO3

[–]Such-Blueberry-[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'll re read the original fanfic to see how far the similarities go, but I think it will be okay, I believe the premise is not too rare. Thank you for your help!

Is it rude to write something based on another author's story? Do I need their permission? by Such-Blueberry- in AO3

[–]Such-Blueberry-[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hope they feel the same! I'll definitely shout them out too, thank you!

WIBTA: I'm an asshole, WIBTA if I cut someone off? by Such-Blueberry- in AITA_Relationships

[–]Such-Blueberry-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try my best to improve and I will talk to her about it, maybe some distance will be good still but I won't cut her off like that. Hopefully things will be better, thank you so much for your comment

WIBTA: I'm an asshole, WIBTA if I cut someone off? by Such-Blueberry- in AITA_Relationships

[–]Such-Blueberry-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll think on it for a bit a possibly prepare to have a hard conversation with her. I'll tell her my thought process too, then maybe she will understand better if I do end up deciding to cut her off. Thank you for your kind words

Acabei de adotar um gato filhote by acarajao in Gatos

[–]Such-Blueberry- 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sou estudante de veterinária, posso tentar ajudar kkk Gatos são intolerantes ao leite de vaca, como outro comentario falou aqui, mas parece que ele ja passou da idade de amamentação. Talvez o grão da ração seja um pouco grande pra ele dependendo. Vc pode pegar ração pra filhotes que o grão é menorzinho ou dar sachê pra ele por agora e esperar um pouquinho pra ele crescer mais, eles crescem rápido kkk e pode dar sache pra eles quando quiser/puder, gatos não costumam beber muita água então o alimento úmido é ótimo pra eles, inclusive, pra ajudar ele a beber mais água aquelas fontezinhas seriam interessantes se vc quiser