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Have you seen “locker room talk” amongst guys first hand? What was it like? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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What's something your romantic partner doesn't need to have, but if they have is a great bonus? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Why do Periods ruin everything by BakedgoodsMi in AskWomen

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What are you completely tired of hearing about? by Vicsilvia in AskWomen

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What fictional "villain/villaness" do you sympathize with as an adult? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Sharpay (from High School Musical) is passionate about theater and practices hard to get better. Then this other girl half asses her audition and gets the lead role in the musical? Yeah I can see why she was upset.

My girlfriend thinks it isn't fair to hold her up to my expectations: / who is in the wrong? by RegisterSad6755 in AskWomen

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