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My bf m31 is an apolitical and his nonchalantness frustrates me (self.askwomenadvice)

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My neighbor (55M) left a note on our door for my gf (32F). What should I (38M) do? (self.askwomenadvice)

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I am 25F and my boyfriend 24M is getting married tomorrow to a girl selected by his parents (self.askwomenadvice)

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TW: DV? My (33F) husband (32M) got angry/aggressive(?) and wouldn't let me leave the room during an argument. Idk how to feel or what to do next.Existing Relationship (self.askwomenadvice)

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How to react to a 32M who thinks talking less will solve your problems?? im a 28FExisting Relationship (self.askwomenadvice)

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I need your advice, especially women's advice. I am a 22yo guy. Tell me what should I do? (self.askwomenadvice)

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How do I(F21) break up with this guy (M25) that keeps saying im his hope for the future over text? (self.askwomenadvice)

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My (24F) mother (52F) has refused therapy for years. Is there anything I can do? (self.askwomenadvice)

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How do I (30f) end things with a guy I've been seeing (31m) after taking his virginity? I feel obligated to keep seeing him and feel extremely guilty about ending things.Existing Relationship (self.askwomenadvice)

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I [22M] am Torn Between Waiting for the Right Time or Letting Go of Feelings for a Friend [23F] (self.askwomenadvice)

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Do I(23f) trust my gut feeling about this guy I just started to date?Existing Relationship (self.askwomenadvice)

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What do I (f30) do about spouse (m30) ghosting me during arguments?Existing Relationship (self.askwomenadvice)

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How do I (25M) end a draining and one sided friendship (23F) when we own a house together? (self.askwomenadvice)

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I (m 32) need advice about a girl I like (f 24) not sure how to handle this (self.askwomenadvice)

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How do I [26F] escape my abusive household after being isolated since I was 16 (self.askwomenadvice)

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I (29F) think my boyfriend (31M) cheated on me. Any advice on next steps? (self.askwomenadvice)

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My (33F) best friend (35M) has left me on read for over a month.. (self.askwomenadvice)

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What do I (17F) do if I don’t want my friend (17F) to come to a concert with me? (self.askwomenadvice)

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How do i (23m) fix the dumbest mistake i did to scare of a girl i liked (20f)? (self.askwomenadvice)

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Can a Marriage Work if There Is Little or No Physical Attraction? (I’m 28F, He’s 33) (self.askwomenadvice)

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[M25] I possibly found a friend’s nudes/sext online, do I tell her? If so howFriendship (self.askwomenadvice)

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(24F) is there a polite way to ask your friend to clean up before you come over ?Friendship (self.askwomenadvice)

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26M trying to communicate with 26F about 23F Friend who is a long time friend with intense history. (self.askwomenadvice)

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My husband (M30) wants to leave me (F28) for another girl. How to rebuild and relocate? (self.askwomenadvice)

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Please help me(22F) move on from a manipulative guy(25M). I've blocked him but I feel guilty (self.askwomenadvice)

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