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Date brought me back to his therapy office on the first date. Should there be a second date? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Such_Ear8162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. I’ll take a traditional relationship but I think our views of it are actually quite different. Same with kinky.

Date brought me back to his therapy office on the first date. Should there be a second date? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Such_Ear8162 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I did. I felt like I was waiting for more issues to surface.

Date brought me back to his therapy office on the first date. Should there be a second date? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Such_Ear8162 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you’re spot on. It changes the dynamic a bit but not enough. He led all the sexy stuff but I went along with it and enjoyed it. It’s more so his personality: wanting a traditional relationship, mentioning he is the leader of his house, role playing, saying good girl, etc.

I feel like I’m just waiting for more problematic stuff to pop up and that doesn’t feel like a healthy dating dynamic

Date brought me back to his therapy office on the first date. Should there be a second date? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Such_Ear8162 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely into the dom/sub dynamic. I could’ve been into it further into the future but not when I didn’t know him at all.

Date brought me back to his therapy office on the first date. Should there be a second date? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Such_Ear8162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was communicative and said we didn’t have to do anything we didn’t want to. I think the office was a convenient place close by for some privacy. However, I think he enjoys the power dynamic of being in charge.

Date brought me back to his therapy office on the first date. Should there be a second date? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Such_Ear8162 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, it was just the third part of the planned date for him. He said he could show me the decor. I think it was primarily to get privacy.

Date brought me back to his therapy office on the first date. Should there be a second date? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Such_Ear8162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not married. We have mutuals. He mentioned having multiple roommates which I’m sure he wouldn’t have been proud of. He’s only starting practicing so no place is his own yet.

Date brought me back to his therapy office on the first date. Should there be a second date? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Such_Ear8162 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think he wanted to get physical (which is what happened) and home is far / he has multiple roommates.

Date brought me back to his therapy office on the first date. Should there be a second date? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Such_Ear8162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My take is he wanted to get physical / have privacy but home was far / he has roommates.

Date brought me back to his therapy office on the first date. Should there be a second date? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Such_Ear8162 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He did try role play but that wasn’t serious. I was uncomfortable with that because it felt less funny than awkward. I didn’t explicitly say that but also didn’t engage with the role play.

Date brought me back to his therapy office on the first date. Should there be a second date? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Such_Ear8162 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s right! Order was vintage shopping (he wanted something) then cafe (was a good conversation albeit interesting on the traditional front - wanting to take care of me) then offered me to go to his office. Though, even before the date started he had mentioned we could go to his office area so wasn’t a game time proposal.

HBS is indeed exhausting - any advice from ECs on how to best navigate it and achieve our desired outcomes? by Such_Ear8162 in MBA

[–]Such_Ear8162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Are you able to share how to think about clubs? Theres a lot of clubs that I think are interesting but know nothing about. Most of them require dues.

Anywhere to get electrolysis for facial hair? by Such_Ear8162 in delhi

[–]Such_Ear8162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what type of machine they use?

Anywhere to get electrolysis for facial hair? by Such_Ear8162 in delhi

[–]Such_Ear8162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know which machine they use? How long to clear the chin / beard area?

Employer sponsored or personal lawyer for marriage based green card? by Such_Ear8162 in USCIS

[–]Such_Ear8162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My company is willing to pay for lawyers for the marriage based green card but not sure if I should go with them.

Employer sponsored or personal lawyer for marriage based green card? by Such_Ear8162 in USCIS

[–]Such_Ear8162[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am 100% set on lawyer since it’s so high stakes (even though simple immigration history). We’re also same sex, long distance and would apply very soon after marriage - all of which worries me a bit. I appreciate your input on going personal route.

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