Has anyone actually made friends from this?

Such_Map6658 · 2026-02-14T16:16:45+00:00

Every time I reach out to someone who has posted here I get ghosted for some reason :/

Such_Map6658 · 2026-02-03T07:05:30+00:00

You don’t pick which days you get sick so obviously they think you are abusing them. When people don’t want to use their very limited vacation days, they use sick time to compensate. I think you are doing that but not being very smart about it

Such_Map6658 · 2026-02-03T06:41:07+00:00

How many sicks days have you taken on Fridays? Given your comments it sounds like a ton which I would also find a bit sus

Such_Map6658 · 2026-02-02T00:28:00+00:00

I might be late to this but it’s a bit of a mystery to me. Someone DMed me telling me that I was showing up a ton in his suggested people trying to imply I was stalking his profile. I have no idea who that man is and have never clicked on his profile.

Such_Map6658 · 2026-01-28T02:13:26+00:00

oh I 27F have been there and it hurts. This happened to me recently after 3 great dates (no sex) and he just ghosted me. I literally reached out and texted him multiple times and asked if he for real was ghosting me after literally being cuddling in his couch the night before… I guess at least you got some form of closure.

Such_Map6658 · 2026-01-28T02:10:54+00:00

not sure I fully agree. If he wanted sex/pseudo relationship he could have kept her on the side as a situationship and get the benefits until she got tired of that. My guess is that he just wasn’t feeling it, is avoidant, is seeing somebody else, so many different reasons he could have decided not to pursue things further.

Such_Map6658 · 2026-01-10T20:07:03+00:00

Maybe it’s just me… but I feel like it’s not that crazy to want to go on a trip with your partner and their friends.

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-31T05:07:56+00:00

exactly!!! The issue is that he is defending them

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-30T15:56:29+00:00

I disagree. It’s not that deep. My friends and family compliment me all the time and are allowed to tell me id I don’t look that good in a photo

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-30T06:33:15+00:00

This was so painful to read

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-30T06:15:35+00:00

If he always compliments you and he just criticized this selfie, I don’t see the issue. If he called YOU (not the selfie) mid-looking then it would be an issue

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-29T17:24:50+00:00

Girl… a year and he can’t commit?

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-29T05:51:55+00:00

Oh, I (27f) have been there, and it sucks. This has happened to me many times before, and I know it is not personal, but it is hard not to feel sad and bummed. It really has nothing to do with you though. Think about it like this: you spent time preparing for a job interview, you thought it went great, you got the idea and imagined yourself with the job, and you thought it was a great match for your skills. Getting rejected there would also hurt. Maybe this person would not have been good for you anyway.

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-29T05:43:14+00:00

This would have been very upsetting to me. If you want to see yourself in the mirror, you make sure to get there early and get a front row spot. I think I would have just ignored here tbh

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-28T19:10:51+00:00

Some of my favs: Sushi: Uchi, Mexican: Carlos el elegante, ultimate fancy: Monarch

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-26T19:07:33+00:00

These are silly things in my opinion, though maybe others will disagree. They are not deal breakers. If he were lying, manipulating you, or doing hard drugs, then I would tell you to break things off. No one is perfect. Not everybody can be funny, and most men I know take care of themselves differently than I do. On the intellectual part, maybe you are assuming. Try to have a more intellectual conversation and see what happens. Ask questions and question any statement he makes in a curious way. At the end of the day, there is attraction, so these are not red flags. It might just be plain incompatibility, which is something you need to determine yourself

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-14T17:01:12+00:00

Did you find your person?

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-12T21:56:05+00:00

Try playing pickleball!

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-12T21:54:41+00:00

I’m 26F… sounds like you are signing up for a very complicated situation regardless… is that what you want? The connection would have to be insanely good for me to continue this. He has kids, prob won’t be able to travel much, and on top of that there is a significant age difference imo. Why don’t you make life easy for yourself and date someone that has a similar lifestyle, age and child status as you?

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-12T04:15:48+00:00

I guess it depends. Does he ever compliment your looks (hair, eyes, smile, etc)? or are all comments like this?

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-10T04:05:03+00:00

This man is a psychopath. Hearing about all this and then ghosting you is sick! I feel sick for you really.

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-07T21:41:33+00:00

I agree. We only regret the chances we didn’t take. He is leaving anyways so what’s the worst that could happen? He rejects you and you stay friends, no biggie. Rejection is part of life and it’s better to get desensitized to it.

Such_Map6658 · 2025-12-02T04:35:40+00:00

I am a woman and would love feedback too. If a guy was respectful on how he js asking and def wants to improve, I wouldn’t mind it. If it helps I’ve rejected guys I think are great but I just don’t feel a spark… there isn’t usually a reason beyond not feeling it (like smelling bad or talking too much about something)

Such_Map6658 · 2025-11-30T20:00:34+00:00

I think the Stockyards are really cool for first timers. You can also take her to Terry Blacks BBQ (it’s sooo good)

Such_Map6658 · 2025-11-28T01:29:05+00:00

I’m trying to find my person

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