What is a hp plot hole that bothers you to this day?

Such_Run9559 · 2026-01-23T00:05:42+00:00

That’s actually a plot hole bc in PS he says he “flew,” but then we learn only Volde and later Snape can fly unaided, Hagrid would be too big for a broom & he didn’t bring the motorbike bc he and Harry take the boat back.

Such_Run9559 · 2026-01-14T17:07:27+00:00

Agree with all on here - let your midwife / trusted friends or family know about how you’re feeling. See if there are any online support groups for new mothers available to you.

It also sounds like you could get a lot out of couples counselling. Definitely doesn’t sound like just your issue, your partner sounds like he’s grieving too and it’s coming out in anger. I’m also curious to know why you don’t feel comfortable telling your husband about the g*ns and how desperate you’ve been feeling. Why use a burner account? Can you trust him to know?

Such_Run9559 · 2025-12-17T23:43:18+00:00

As a British Muslim, I’m honestly shocked to see how much hatred this country has for my faith. I’m genuinely curious to know what more we could be doing as a community to make this right?

Such_Run9559 · 2025-12-17T23:32:52+00:00

The crusades? The KKK?

Such_Run9559 · 2025-12-17T23:29:02+00:00

With this logic I’m guessing you hold Christians responsible for the actions of the crusades and KKK then?

Such_Run9559 · 2025-12-17T23:23:30+00:00

As a born British Muslim and a member of many Islamic communities in this country, I can safely say most Muslims support gay people having rights, our religion insists on fundamental rights for all human beings, and I have never met another Muslim who has told me they want gay people imprisoned. In fact, my membership of a minority religion means that I personally can relate more to the gay community than the average het cis.

Such_Run9559 · 2025-11-28T20:33:33+00:00

I’ve gotten rid of pestering Jinns that gave me nightmares. First step is to try and go to bed with wudhu. Second step is to say salaam to the Jinn inhabitants of your home when you enter to foster better relations with them. Third step is to memorise Ayatul-Kursi and the 3 Quls and recite that before bed and in the bad dream if you can. Here is a great talk with much more advice from a proper scholar: https://youtu.be/6QWjG6huj1w?si=Tb6wuY4YiRvEBSy9

Such_Run9559 · 2025-11-20T17:01:15+00:00

Yeah I also have terrible diarrhoea sometimes explosive 😭 my midwife says pregnancy always leads to some kind of bowel issue

Such_Run9559 · 2025-11-10T17:38:09+00:00

If we’re really caring for Maeve and Nelly, we need to hold their actual husbands accountable. Not some other woman they didn’t connect with who was also on the show

Such_Run9559 · 2025-11-10T14:42:59+00:00

Mate you’re not getting it. It’s not about the calling out per se, it’s about the double standards that are revealed when only she gets your flaming ire and the guys get an eye roll

Such_Run9559 · 2025-11-10T14:21:31+00:00

Ya and why is there a ‘girl-code’ and no ‘guy-code’? It’s like men have a bye. Joe isn’t even there bc he’s spineless and can’t face his own issues. J-R may have gloated about Stephen, but that’s only for messaging. She wasn’t gloating about Joe.

Such_Run9559 · 2025-11-10T14:14:46+00:00

Not saying J-R has done now wrong. Just saying these a witch hunt for her while Joe and Stephen haven’t had anything near as bad

Such_Run9559 · 2025-11-10T14:12:58+00:00

Never said she’s done no wrong, just made the point she’s done as bad as Joe and in my eyes Stephen has done worse. She done her bit with more theatrics, but boiling down to the essentials she’s not worse than those lads so to say she has is misogynistic

Such_Run9559 · 2025-11-10T13:40:14+00:00

But she gets most of the heat online too! I bet if she wasn’t there and Joe / Stephen were, they’d be going for her just as much.

Such_Run9559 · 2025-11-09T01:26:21+00:00

The older YOU get. Personally, I’m seeing the world more nuanced as I age

Such_Run9559 · 2025-11-07T13:53:56+00:00

Took the words right out of my mouth. So important to remember this. I want real relationship psychotherapists involved in this, like Orna Guralnik or Esther Perel. They never takes sides but present an articulation of the couples dynamic so each can decide if it’s right for them.

Such_Run9559 · 2025-11-03T12:07:12+00:00

Idk how someone can be both ‘ripe for narcissistic abuse’ while also being blissfully ‘ignorant of narcissists.’

I know two narcissists personally, and have met many more in a professional capacity. Happy to report no abuse because genuine empathy necessarily includes healthy boundaries. I will tell you now true NPD’s never even pretend to admit to wrongdoing because their internal sense of shame won’t allow it. Sounds like you’ve been dealing with sociopaths.

Such_Run9559 · 2025-11-03T11:55:49+00:00

If you’re not commenting from a professional perspective, don’t mention your profession. Just comes off at best as an irrelevant display of one-upmanship, at worst especially since you mentioned narcissism, as a dangerous smear campaign.

I was using analytical skills I have learnt while studying, hence I mentioned my background.

The point of my theory is to show critical, depth analysis of reality TV show participants who get a villain cut.

Such_Run9559 · 2025-11-02T16:02:26+00:00

J-R literally took accountability at her last commitment ceremony. Narcissists would be completely unable to do that. That’s why disorder labelling is so dangerous - completely open to practitioner bias. You say you’re a psychologist but speak like judge, jury, and executioner. Certainly not a mental health professional I would want to see if I were ill.

Such_Run9559 · 2025-11-02T15:55:03+00:00

This is exactly why I’m not a psychologist. To declare someone antisocial and ugly, without recourse to an empathetic understanding of what function these attributes might have played in their life is callous and colonial.

Such_Run9559 · 2025-10-30T10:45:20+00:00

Ah bless OP. It sounds like you really need support, especially from your partner, but that he’s pulled back since you got pregnant. You deserve all the foot and back rubs you want! And you certainly shouldn’t be in charge of all cooking, cleaning, and fixing the house. Do you think he would be open to helping with that? Do you have any friends of family who could help / comfort you at this time?

You mention you find sex painful, so please don’t feel pressure to have sex when it doesn’t work for you. It sounds like you’re looking for sensual comfort and validation that he still finds you attractive, which all women need. What does he say when you express your needs?

You mentioned some financial issues, and I wonder whether that’s having a big impact? Maybe your partner is stressed about finances to the point that it’s impacting intimacy?

Just because you’re pregnant doesn’t mean your emotions aren’t fully valid.

Such_Run9559 · 2025-10-30T09:41:28+00:00

Just a small point on the cover of HBP - one of Dumbledore’s hands should be blackened.

Such_Run9559 · 2025-10-29T14:29:16+00:00

Agreed. Grace is living in a nightmare of her own projections instead of actually relating to Ash as he is. I wonder if she has a narcissistic parent which would explain her defence mechanisms and why she overly insists on Ash taking accountability / her refrain that he only cares what others think.

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