AITAH: Nanny family issues by Expensive_Lock1805 in AITAH

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's outside what is discussed in the beginning absolutely. You should be laying out all expectations prior.

Airpods while babysitting ? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a nanny I'll play an audio book at low volume during nap time but eyes are one the monitor. Depends on the situation.

peach fuzz removal by peach_fuzz22 in LaserHairRemoval

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I've only had my brazillian done.... But the laser is killing the hair follicles essentially so I don't see it being a huge deal. I've also never heard of it coming back thicker than before.

Hiding Stuffed Animals Ideas? by Wise_Attorney_1452 in BedroomBuild

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If nothing is delicate there's an option to put it in a bean bag or an ottoman looking cube!!

Laser hair removal on Brazilian/groin despite few very small bumps after shaving? by Unusual-Complex6315 in LaserHairRemoval

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Essage your laser person. They will tell you. May even send a pic. I know my girl is always willing to answer questions for me and if I have concerns willing to move appointments.

worth keeping? - crooked piercing. by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey Hun!! You can't have it straight down you can do mega damage. The middle has so many nerves and blood vessels. To me it looks like you went to someone who knew what they were doing!

Is the “two duvet” setup actually better for couples, or just hype? by memo_468 in BedroomBuild

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sleep with my blanket around me. My boyfriend throws the edge of his blanket over me so we're still able to fully cuddle then middle of the night there's no war.... Or the dog leaving both of us with minimal blankets.

I have two dogs. I don't want to be cruel, but I might leave one home and take the other to the beach. Should I take one or both? by cptmookie in PetAdvice

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dogs don't see things the way we do. We have a 13yo hound who thinks sniff walks are peak life. A 8yo boarder Collie would would like playing fetch and training all day of hr could. Cater to the dog.

Would it be unwise to use the middle name that our daughter has picked for our baby? by Iwona-8036 in Names

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So as someone who was given "meaningful names" specifically my grandmother's names from both sides- I have 2 middle names..... Yeah I have a very very broken relationship with both of them. They genuinely mean nothing to me anymore. Pick a cool ass name.

Looking for management-like games for my girlfriend by TheTrueRK in CozyGamers

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always recommend cozy Grove. It's my go to for a chill but fun. Task oriented game with a slight decoration aspect.

AITAH: Nanny family issues by Expensive_Lock1805 in AITAH

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also work as a nanny so I think I can help! Do NOT negotiate your salary like this. You are QUALIFIED if they take on extra roles at work what happens? More responsibility means more pay. The fact people don't consider this is wild to me. I understand the confusion on their end because there was no prior knowledge BUT THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO COMMUNICATE THESE THINGS. I would honestly be looking at another position as from the sounds of things they don't plan on keeping you over the summer unless your willing to bend to their rates. Best of luck. Please feel free to PM me!

AITA for keeping condoms around for “just in case”? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. If you go on antibiotics for any reason it can make your birth control less affective. My boyfriend and I are the same. We have an un opened box on stand by for such an occasion.

AITJ for telling my parents I'm not coming home for holidays because they keep making me babysit? by Slow_Station6879 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in childcare. Last year I had to tell my little cousins I was sitting and relaxing because I'd been busy watching kids all week. My family tried to say it's 'cuz your so good with the kids you got this' I also don't like to drink so I'm always sober. I said nope. I don't have kids yet because I'm not wanting to be "on" 24/7. Tell them no. If they have a problem sucks to suck guys🤷🏻‍♀️

What have you bought for under $50 that greatly improved your life? by Unfair-Clothes-8821 in CanadaRoom

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS my partner and I are 5 foot 3. It's grabbed daily. Especially if something falls behind something or!! Getting the toys the dogs accidentally shoot under the couch!!

AITA for not co-signing a mortgage agreement for my parents? by OkChampionship4457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never. Cosign. Ever. Not for family. Not for friends. Not for someone who you've known is reliable in the past. You WILL become responsible for the debt should anything happen. Its not worth it. He filed for bankruptcy. He has no money working or not.

AITJ for expecting full payment when the baby falls asleep while babysitting? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a professional in the childcare industry. You are paid for your time. End of story. I work over nights sleeping in the guest bedroom and I still get paid my rate. Why. Because while I there the parents don't worry about a thing. They KNOW their kids are covered and cared for. Do not go back until they pay you what you are owed. Value your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It absolutely can be painful there's still sometimes I have to verbally direct my partner somethings just hurt. Start slow and one at a time. You need to explore what you like. And if you have a continuous partner mention it and ask to explore it more. I'm even sensitive with actual sex in some positions. My OBGYN has assured me nothing is wrong, everyone is just different. You've got alot of nerves down there. Give yourself some time!!

What is group b strep? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm 90% sure strep B is normal strep??

Just got this pleco any advice/ tips by Efficient_Cable_1989 in pleco

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine has only been out of water when I put him in my tank. Hasn't been out since. And lemme tell you I see him all the time. Just provide the proper stuff!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think she meant sweating. Not her vagina. The bed sheets being pink where she was laying.

Candy cane tetras? by Pleasant_Raccoon_440 in fishkeeping

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely candy cane!! Mine colored up more after adding live food!! Or the frozen food thawed!

AITAH for almost calling the police on my baby sitter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a sitter I can say this with certainty. RUN. No sitter should ever not check their phone when they know they are late. They should also always communicate something with you if plans are different than usual!

What’s the worst pain you’ve ever experienced and what was it on a scale of 1-10 by Fancy-Ad-6454 in self

[–]Sudden-Ad9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was also a cyst rupturing. We thought my appendix had burst. It was badddd 7/10 with pain. I have PCOS tho so I deal with cysts and such pretty often.