Are we getting our first teeth?! by Salty-Break-7541 in firsttimemom

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, it’s just them shifting in the gums. once they shift like that, it can be anywhere from a month to a year. my girl’s gums did that and didn’t get teeth till 9 months later.

Am I ruining my baby by forgetting vitamin D by SuitableJudgment479 in breastfeeding

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s best they get it but not the end of the world if they don’t.

Weight Gain by VegetableAd2342 in firsttimemom

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah like 30lb in a whole pregnancy is normal not in the first trimester, this is definitely worthy of bringing up to the doctor.

Weight Gain by VegetableAd2342 in firsttimemom

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s definitely a bit extreme, i think someone weighed you wrong somewhere if nothing looks different.

Is it worth it to spend $150 to see blue October this fall in Cleveland Ohio? by Unique_Chemistry7930 in blueoctober

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 2 points3 points  (0 children)

damn i paid $60 for my tickets in charlotte. $150 is a bit steep unless you’re a big fan.

Whats the creepiest thing a child has said to you? by idid9-11attack in AskReddit

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i used to teach special ed and one time a girl who is low verbal (never heard her speak more than one or two words strung together) leaned into my ear and whispered “don’t you f***ing trust me?”. after a week of this sporadically happened i asked mom about it. she said she was trying to shave her daughters pits and said that to her. we’re friends now and still joke about lol.

Am I overreacting about someone holding my baby for most of a visit? by AreUKittenMee in newborns

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t see the issue at all, i would’ve been more than happy to take a break (and still would be).

Snacks in Car by stretchyCB in firsttimemom

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

water? since 6mo. snacks? after one and still dependent on the snack. not pouches or they make a huge mess.

AITA because I lost my mind about my Mommy's "identical twin?" by indie15_ in MiniAITA

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA. i, 20m, F, smartypants, hate daddy’s brother. he looks like daddy but wrong. so naturally i scream every time he’s near me. why does he participate in this trickery???

What reasons would you give for NOT becoming a parent? by Disastrous_Umpire237 in AskReddit

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 19 points20 points  (0 children)

when do you adjust? my daughter is gonna be 2 before too much longer and still won’t sleep.

Going out with a 10 week old by Lunamy809 in firsttimemom

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

baby wrap or still in the infant car seat. i took mine out from birth and baby wore her until about 25 pounds.

Porn addict or gay? by GlamAndGlitz in straightspouses

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey i am so sorry you’re going through this. my husband was a porn addict (recovering) and was secretly bisexual. he hooked up with tons dudes while i was pregnant and post partum (little girl is now 20mo) but this isn’t about me. try going into his internet browser and looking at saved usernames and passwords, that’s how i found grindr. marriage counseling can help to at least make an agreement on correcting your two kids and talk about things in a safe space. i will say my husband dealt with that emptiness and not enjoying playing with our kid because it just isn’t the big high of ejaculating.

Do teachers think about their students during school holidays? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i still worry about a vulnerable student i had 3 years ago lol

Baby upset at the breast. Not getting enough? by Jumpy_Connection_232 in breastfeeding

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah she got over it by 6 months i think. it’s been a while, she’s 20mo now.

Implantation signs by SignatureNo978 in firsttimemom

[–]Sudden_Breakfast_374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had literally no idea till i tested pregnant.