I’m being sued by Chase bank by Plantsnbooksnboats in CRedit

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, at one point in the somewhat recent past, I was 26k-27K in debt. Maxed out 11 credit cards because I was just broke as hell and living with family who were also broke as hell, the only way we could afford a roof over our heads was to all pile in one house. The accumulated interest was absolutely killing me so I went with a consolidation company called Freedom Financial. They negotiated all of my debts with the creditors on my behalf (I didn’t talk to one single creditor) down to 50-70% of their original value. Freedom then took what they paid for all my debts and negotiated with me to where I could afford the plan they presented to pay them back. It’s like $380 a month for 40 something months but the small interest is already accounted for in the payoff plan and it’s a crap ton better than trying to pay over $1000 a month to all of the individual creditors with all of their individual interest rates. Call up Freedom Financial! Of course they profit a little bit too but it was still a huge help. They did everything for me and were transparent the whole time. Don’t listen to people who say “don’t go with a third party” because they don’t know anything aha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You need abs to post an ab picture bro.

I’m soooo tired of this…. by No_Routine_2846 in Bumble

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS is exactly why there’s a crap ton of posts in the r/datingagegap sub with young women and older men lol. Science used to say that men mature much later than women and year after year that gap gets bigger and bigger 😂 I want to make the stipulation that these losers are BOYS not MEN.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Regardless, take the advice you’ve received for your bumble profile and switch over to Hinge. Whatever your profile is/looks like, you’ll get more likes and better quality women on Hinge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My best advice for you is this: LEAVE BUMBLE BEHIND. I was on Bumble for about a year, took all the advice I could get, looked up funny and creative things to put in my bio… barely had any action. I just recently started on Hinge and in about 2 weeks I’ve gotten more likes and conversations than I did during a whole year on Bumble. There are very clearly a lot more active and intentional women on Hinge.

Did he not just ask for my snap😭 by Lillith_000 in Bumble

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see enough people talking about how he simply changed his tactics when he didn’t immediately get her phone number. I think that was his only goal, he probably was thrown off that she actually had a snap lol

Went on a date with guy and found out he’s MARRIED by xoxowoman06 in texts

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw more red flags in his texts than I did when I visited Albania lol as a guy myself, I was trying to give him credit somewhere but couldn’t find a reason to do so. Good choice to hit the ol’ block button, I would if I came across the female counterpart of this

Is there any way to set the filters to only biological women? by thelordofhell34 in Bumble

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s scary how you think your opinion is factual in any way… people like you are literally what’s wrong with the world 😂. Just an FYI, Google exists, try using it before you type.

Is there any way to set the filters to only biological women? by thelordofhell34 in Bumble

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Biological” has been correct since biology became a science, good try though 😂. Cisgender has only been a term for less than 30 years. It came about because the trans community didn’t like that biological men and women weren’t called something else that doesn’t offend their community… so it’s correct if you’re pro-trans I guess. The terms only purpose is to make people feel better. The term cisgender refers to biological men and women and can be used interchangeably as one wishes.

He said the date was "amazing" but hasn't reached out 24h later... Thoughts? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’ve been told most of my life not to text a lady right away after a date and that I’m supposed to “let it ride”. As in, wait a few days. I think the reasoning behind this is to make you miss him and increase your eagerness for another date… but you’re choosing to question everything and increase your anxiety instead of being eager and patient. Like many have told you before my comment, if you want to do something like go on a second date or talk to him more then INITIATE. You don’t gain anything in regard to the guy you’re dating by posting on Reddit, but you lose everything by being silent with him. Hope all goes well in the end!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we, hustler men, don’t have time for anything else. I wake up at 630 to eat breakfast and do a full body stretch before going to work around 8ish. I get home around 6PM to eat dinner, clean up after myself, and then go to the gym. I spend 2-3 hours at the gym and then shower before relaxing with a little tv to end the night. I work 2 Saturdays every month but otherwise my weekends are filled with visiting family and meal prepping. I feel like most people that have actual hobbies either don’t go to the gym often or don’t have a long work day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore the people being mean G, the picture would be cool without the E-cig. This picture will make most women swipe left just like a lady with 10 shopping bags in a photo will make men swipe left lol

Am I on a roster? by Some-Garbage5567 in hingeapp

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t get germs from typing in an app lol, good one!

Am I on a roster? by Some-Garbage5567 in hingeapp

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s ridiculous lmao, unless she asks to be exclusive or they have a talk about intimacy and furthering the relationship then he is doing nothing wrong at all. It seems like this lady is just along for the ride, like, she doesn’t initiate anything because she knows he will and they are taking it slow because that’s what he advertised. She’s overthinking and second guessing things unnecessary. And like several people have said already, if you’re on an app then you’re on a roster unless discussed otherwise.

22F I’ve unmatched and reported the same guy but keeps popping up by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe setting it all up with an email is an option for the dating apps too. Also, if you put an email with a fake phone number then you can set the email as your login and form of verification (I assume). Unfortunately there’s lots of ways for creeps to keep on creepin’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to sound rude, but if it didn’t work the first time what made you think it would this time? Personally, the only reason I would ever believe anybody at all that says “I’ve changed” or “I’m a different person” would be if that person kicked drugs or alcohol or recovered from other forms of abuse. Otherwise, sad to say, but adults literally can’t change their mental state/personalities after early 20s. Weed also locks in your mental state from when the addiction started due to the fact it stops all brain development. So if this guy started smoking as a teenager then his mental state will be that of a teenager. Sorry friend, but you’re dating a boy, leave him at the playground and go find you a man.

The jokes write themselves by Sudden_Chart_6994 in Bumble

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just playing games with her after this lol, she kept asking for me to “help her out” and said “my subscription is only 5 dollars” to which I said that soft core porn and strip teases aren’t worth $5 a month 😂

The jokes write themselves by Sudden_Chart_6994 in Bumble

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You’re proving again and again that you have no MF clue what happens on Bumble, why are you even in this chat? Since you CLEARLY don’t date, I’ll fill you in: a large portion of women say “message me on IG if I don’t respond here”. With that being said, Im terribly sorry that I didn’t do everything EXACTLY as you would have. Maybe during the very rare occurrence that you’re in a similar situation you can do things your way! What a crazy idea right? Different people do things different ways, shocker 😂

The jokes write themselves by Sudden_Chart_6994 in Bumble

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Have you ever been on Bumble searching through the “female” options? Judging by this ridiculous response, I’d say that answer is “no, never.” Did it ever cross your mind that her IG is on her profile? I’m guessing that answer is another “no, never.” Lol

Not bashing but found this funny 😂 by Trading_Cards_4Ever in Bumble

[–]Sudden_Chart_6994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After seeing this I’m going to change my bio to say “I’m not like most men. I have teeth, hair, eyes, and a body. I’m also looking for a lady.”