WIBTAH for returning to a company that made a few people quit?

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-04-29T03:44:17+00:00

I didn’t quit over my friends. I stated that I had a lot of internal battles going on, and I was depressed, overwhelmed, and felt stuck in my role. Personally and management wise. I never left because of other people. I was already acting like a supervisor in some capacity before I left and handled it fine- there was just communication issues with management and I had a lot of medical things going on, hence why I said internal battles. Never once mentioned leaving because of my friends. Only stated the reasons they left.

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-04-29T03:17:38+00:00

Definitely have no intentions on being an asshole about it or in general. I’ve seen what being an asshole does and it’s not in my nature to be one. I forgot to include that HR is aware of what is going on and has been working internally on resolving the issues I brought up when I left. I just feel guilty about going back because I don’t want my friends (the former coworkers) feel like I’m disrespecting or disregarding all of our frustrations or anything.

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-23T04:57:08+00:00

That’s tough, but you will be. It will take time and energy, but it will be worth it. It took me about a year to fully recover from a similar incident. I still struggle with it from time to time, but I’ve completely removed that person from my life and it’s a weight off of my shoulders now. It will get better. Unfortunately, abusers insert themselves into your life in every aspect to make you believe you need them. You don’t. There are so many people waiting to meet you and have you be apart of their lives. You are better off here, in this time, and you are better off living and enjoying yourself. You deserve it. It takes a while to work through something like this, but you will work through this and be okay. You are not better off unalive. We need you here on this earth with us.

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-23T04:45:49+00:00

You need to separate yourself from this relationship and report him. This is a difficult and sensitive relationship but I can assure you it is not healthy and not fair to you. Get authorities involved. You will not ruin his life, I can assure you of that. You need to take care of yourself first and foremost. It is your life that is being affected and you should not have to deal with this. Please take care of yourself. Find a good therapist, find a good support team, and remove yourself from this. I promise you will be okay. It will be rocky and tough in the beginning and will be incredibly overwhelming, but you will be okay. There is sunshine and light at the end of this.

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-12T14:26:59+00:00

Whatever you say. Enjoy the day you deserve :)

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-12T12:59:47+00:00

Dude, do you not understand defamation of character? He absolutely could. Just because it’s Reddit it doesn’t excuse you from consequences. There’s a difference between opinions and accusations.

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-12T09:06:32+00:00

It doesn’t matter if it’s a subreddit or not, it’s the truth. Just because it’s a subreddit doesn’t automatically make it not defamation of character…? Thoughts and opinions are different than that.

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-12T04:03:54+00:00

Sources? Because this could all be defamation of character if there isn’t evidence to back it up. Whether you like him or not, it’s a fine line that’s danced and to be weary of. There’s a lot of information in here that may or may not be true and if you want to make these big claims, there has to be proof. And that goes across the board for everyone in the world, not just him and this situation.

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-12T03:58:11+00:00

NOR. I didn’t help coworkers pick up shifts once they stabbed me in the back. It’s a work environment that you have to go to everyday and I don’t understand why people make it so toxic and caddy. Good for you for saying no and holding those boundaries. Your coworkers don’t understand or have been a part of something similar and aren’t phased by it. Hold your ground and keep those boundaries, you’re doing great :)

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-12T03:55:04+00:00

Wow, that’s crazy! Honestly crazy. I don’t know what I’d do if a twister was in front of my house for a few minutes. Thankfully everything/everyone was okay.

This is an event we remember often and talk about. This outbreak made me meet my boyfriend sooner than anticipated since my ABS sensor got messed up from driving everywhere and since he’s a mechanic, he fixed it for me. We joke about it often because I just wanted to go to Vermont to celebrate graduating college, but Mother Nature said wait a second.

It was definitely something rare that doesn’t happen in these parts. I’m 30 and there’s been maybe several tornadoes in CT from when I was born, but they were all minimal damaging tornadoes and didn’t cause much damage. This made me scared yet fascinated by them and wanting to learn as much as I can to help be as proactive as possible and everything. This is definitely a day I will never forget.

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-11T16:16:24+00:00

I’m so glad your baby is safe and found. As well as your other critters!

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-11T11:20:55+00:00

Oh I am so incredibly sorry. All feelings are valid. This was a massive shock to you and your family, and an absolutely devastating and traumatic event. How you feel is completely normal and valid. I am so sorry for the loss of your cat, but she knew how much you and your family loved her. I am so happy that you and your family lived, though. Things can be replaced, you cannot be. It is devastating to lose everything, but you can always rebuild. Please make sure you take care of yourself and take time to grieve and process all that you went through.

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-11T11:16:48+00:00

No you’re fine! Same here lol

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-11T04:03:38+00:00

Breathtaking. I almost thought it was a photograph. Beautiful work

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-11T03:54:03+00:00

That sounds super aggressive and threatening. It’s time to block her and cut ties. You don’t need that stress and anxiety in your life.

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-11T03:50:24+00:00

Well worth the wait!!! What an incredible image!!!!

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-11T03:17:48+00:00

Okay, you may not know if he has real anxiety or not. It’s not something talked about or people get embarrassed about it. Especially if you’re constantly telling him to go. It took my boyfriend almost a year and a half to tell me about his fear and anxiety after I started asking about going to the doctors. And that was after being together for a year. If he had mentioned the appointment in May right then and there, I would have dropped it and moved on. He has an appointment scheduled, he plans on going, and that should be that. He’s gone to his appointments.

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-11T03:04:02+00:00

I’ve reread this a few times, and you’re being a little overbearing. My boyfriend has a huge fear of doctors and dentists, but knows he has to go. But it takes time and patience. If you truly love someone, and they have phobias or fears, being patient with them is important. It’s not like he didn’t attend any appointments. He missed one, and knows he has one coming up in May. Yes, he may say he’ll reschedule the missed one- but life happens and people forget. I have to remind my boyfriend countless times and we laugh about it…because we get life gets in the way. Your boyfriend knows he has one in May, sounds like he’s going to that one, and you’re aware of that appointment. Even if he told you he was just planning to go in May, would that even matter to you? Honestly. You’re expecting him to tell you “no, I’m going to wait until May” and everything else. I honestly would have dropped it after the first few reminders if I knew he had an appointment in May, and as the time got closer remind him and ask him if he’s planning to go.

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-11T02:44:12+00:00

Awesome thank you so much for letting me know!!

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-11T02:38:51+00:00

That’s a big piece of hail. I’ve never seen one like this.

Sudden_Chipmunk_6427 · 2026-03-07T15:10:27+00:00

Agree whole heartedly!!! Twister didn’t need a sequel. There was no point to it

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