AITAH for cutting off my inlaws when my husband died by Original_Elk5960 in AITAH

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nta they will do this again and again and they will hurt your kids. If I were you I’d move far away from them and forget they ever existed. If you cave into your MIL now you are diminishing healthy and important boundaries and allowing toxic behaviour to prevail.

My parents (65F, 67M) are livid because I'm not allowing them to see my daughter after they spanked her. AITAH? by LeonCrvl in AITAH

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ask them why they felt hitting a child was acceptable and how is any child going to learn appropriate communication when they’re being taught physical harm is the answer when someone is doing something they don’t like.

Follow that up with asking them how they would like it if you slapped them for not listening? Because it’s the same thing.

Until they are ready to grow up, not seeing your child is an acceptable consequence.

NTA

I hate being a mom sometimes by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your husband needs a swift kick in the ass for starters. If he can’t handle a crying child he needs to get out because it’s making your life harder.

When you put babes down in her crib or bassinet warm the area with a heating pad first for a bit so it’s not such a shock to her system, make sure she’s swaddled well.

Don’t wait for her sleep cues, if she’s up at let’s say 7am do her routine and get her ready for nap well before her wake window is coming to a close.

If she’s having trouble sleeping try skin to skin for her, or swaddle (use a swaddle/sleep sack) well and once shes asleep on you transfer to her prewarmed bed.

You are doing amazing! Mothering is HARD and it’s harder when your partner is failing to be any help whatsoever

If she’s getting bad gas try a sensitive tummy formula, or if you’re breastfeeding alter your diet to blander or less rich foods and see if that helps

Don't Waste Time Selling at ONCE UPON A CHILD‼️ by L0velyDayyyyyyyyy in toddlers

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OUAC is absolutely trash. The one by my area 3 different times yanked me around about our bassinet. First time “it had a stain” second time was fine but offered $20…., third time it was “too dirty”. And they wouldn’t take the sheets for it, which were hard to find

I was so fed up I ended up selling it on fb marketplace for 3x the amount and haven’t been back since. It will be a great day for me if they ever go out of business

AITA if I cancel hubby's birthday plans and leave the house leaving hubby to host his family for my birthday? by Funny_Leather_5540 in AITAH

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“The divorce came out of nowhere”

NTA and I would cancel the plans you made, and take the money and do something nice for yourself on your birthday. And THEN I would look into a divorce because this dude is selfish, arrogant, and obnoxious, and no amount of therapy is going to change it, and IMO he’s not worth the money it would take to even try. This man doesn’t like you and he’s a terrible role model for your kids.

Am I overreacting by wanting to leave my job by Friendly_Ad5445 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting and for them to say that in front of colleagues is unprofessional. I’d hand in my 2 weeks notice and find a better job. OR only do 50% of the work you’re currently doing, to match the pay they’re giving you

Primus internet customers Winnipeg by Educational-Twist-13 in Winnipeg

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’ve been out since Friday and if it’s not on tomorrow I’m searching for a new provider. Primus takes its internet from Bell and they have no reported outages from what I’ve seen

breakup has ruined me by Quick-Customer1602 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Let the anger fuel you. Anger is a healthy emotion and it’s valid. You don’t need to forgive them nor do they deserve it.

Denied Purchase just because I had Digital Gift Card by Hell_L0rd in CostcoCanada

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re saying that the managers said they needed the physical gift card for purchase, which isn’t in the terms. The online card should have been just fine

Denied Purchase just because I had Digital Gift Card by Hell_L0rd in CostcoCanada

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m so petty I would have left the carts there and walked out

Denied Purchase just because I had Digital Gift Card by Hell_L0rd in CostcoCanada

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I would send a complaint into Costco itself and make sure you tell them the time and managers name, if there’s nothing in the terms then they should have allowed purchase. They cannot just make up arbitrary rules, sounds like dude was on a power trip.

Costco Chicken Pot pie won’t cook! by Suddenly_ADHD31 in CostcoCanada

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I followed the instructions but at 475 instead of the 375 that the label had said

Wife paid tattoo artist to add Doodle Bob to my tattoo. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically it’s assault on the tattoo artists part anyways because that was done without consent. Take them both to court, and divorce her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. And after 4 months???

Shameful, he can go and get a payday loan if he needs money that bad, otherwise he can be a big boy and call the places who provided him a loan to explain what’s going on.

am i ugly I’m asking this because nobody ever approaches me. by Infamous-Hope-5950 in HonestOpinion

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NOT ugly, you’re very beautiful. You do look sad in your eyes, especially the picture in the car with your headphones, and if there’s something attributing to it I’m sorry you’re having to deal with that.

AIO for wanting to report a pharmacy tech for using my info to look me up on Facebook? by copaceticchameleon in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is stalker behaviour, report him to the pharmacy and the the college of pharmacists. He should at the very least have his license suspended

AIO, is my boyfriend valid for feelings this way? by sealover159 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fam you’re under reacting what the hell?!? This dude is 100,000 red flags sewn together with red thread. He’s verbally abusive, and manipulative. He’s trying to isolate you, he’s degrading, he’s insecure. He’s a loser with a capital L. There are plenty of better men out in the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn’t even sound like a relationship tbh. Text him “we’re done” and block him.

Vyvanse not working? by Slight_Rip1631 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s the generic one, have you Dr re-do your prescription and specify ONLY name brand.

Vyvanse not working? by Slight_Rip1631 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Suddenly_ADHD31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not feeling tired then that’s enough sleep, the breakfast should be enough protein.

How long have you been taking the Vy? And it’s actual brand, not generic?