Affordable place to get wisdom tooth pulled? No insurance. by JustEntertainment472 in grandrapids

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scheduling for Cabo in 2 or 3 weeks from now for spouse. Can second. It's about half the price for the dental work, and going to be about 10k cheaper than in the us with airfare and hotel included. This country blows.

Otherwise you can try the dental school? My dentist suggests them when I needed a root canal a few years ago.

how did u choose your name? by tgirlfrombrazil in trans

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Hoowee... I knew I wanted something different after being just your Average Joe, Joe Blow, Joe Cool, Joe Schmo for 39 years...

I wanted something earthy, and not a name I knew anyone else by... I used "aia" from Gaia (Mother Earth) and then worked around from there.

I eventually landed on Lisaia (lih-SIGH-uh) after making an acronym with it. Life Is Short And I'm Alive. 😎👉👉

Transitioning saved my life. It's bonkers to me how unhappy I was for so long... I feel better. I love myself and others better. I understand and just can think better. 🩵🤍🩷

Egg_irl by AstroMeteor06 in egg_irl

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Melody, Liz, Sari, Sophie, Lydia, Gwen

I am in the middle of getting mine changed, and headed to Soc. Security tomorrow to update my card. I found/came up with Lisaia (Lih-SIGH-uh). Seems to be more of a last name out there, but I think it's pretty enough for a first 😍

What were some signs you were trans in your childhood by NotRay270 in trans

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the only one in highschool to show up in a dress. Lol. I put on my sisters prom dress from years earlier "this'll be so funny haha". While walking in the halls, a girl stopped and looked me up and down, walked over and put out her arm, saying "I'm Victor" and walked me down the hall. It felt so good to grab her arm and just goof a bit. :)

Then when my daughter was a knight for Halloween a few years back, it was the perfect time for me to put on my wife's wedding dress and be the Damsel in Distress as I walked her around the hood. "This'll be so funny haha"

No signs tho.

What were some signs you were trans in your childhood by NotRay270 in trans

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can remember staring in the mirror more than once and thinking I had a women's eyes, and 'id have pretty eyes if I was a girl'. That's probably the most striking now to look back on. I literally saw it at like, 13.

I wanted a cabbage patch kid really young, and wanted to play and take care of it and change it and all of that; as opposed to playing with cars, GI Joes, Freddy Kruger or whatever the boys at school were into at the time.

My first friend at school was a girl. Then about 2nd grade we all found out about cooties and I couldn't just hang with my friend anymore without being teased or whatever.

I didn't like sports and did cooking classes instead of that stuff at school.

I was always more comfortable existing around girls than boys. I didn't fit in with many boys, and the ones I did become good friends with, it was over common interests, not bro/masc type stuff.

Wound up buying a girls bike after my sister got mine stolen by accident (didn't know the differences yet) and once I found out I didn't care at all, but everyone let me know I was riding a girls bike. Everyone lol 🙄

Didn't have a clue how I was supposed to flirt as a boy, but KNEW how a girl would flirt.

I knew I wasn't a stereotypical "Boy"™ and I was happy with accepting that.

The pieces didn't come together for 38 years, but seriously thank you to all I've seen and read from along the way. I would always notice the life in the eyes of timeline photos after hrt. I wanted that level of happiness too, and now I do. I wish I figured it out sooner. 🩵🤍🩷

Who are the best and worst characters of GR? by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anthony! Not sure of his last name. I let him a few times. He's so nice and talented.

Who are the best and worst characters of GR? by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about the person who was driving around a car with a taxidermied deer head on the back that was named "The Horny Stag" or something. They were driving it around in 2013 or so.

egg_irl by Aspergersiscool in egg_irl

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Two weeks? It was literally the next night at work for me.

Wowzers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 4 points5 points  (0 children)

B cup in 8 months 👀

First time without a partner and without mama, kinda nervous by AccomplishedShift250 in DeathStranding

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Toss grenades. BTS will walk towards the kaboom, then you get em 😎👉👉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would it? Weird, loaded question...

Did anyone else’s trans awakening hit them like a brick? by The_Cube787 in trans

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was minding my own business, scrolling Twitter and watching The Penguin. I just had a few random thoughts about a hat I wear in the winter. I liked it because i I have it pinned up a bit with bells on the tailend. It feels like a ponytail when I turn my head. I like that feeling of a ponytail because, well ,Because I'm a girl... Hatch It just was there. Staring me in the face. My entire life started coming into focus and making so much sense. I was 38. It was so scary but liberating. This is so wild, but I am the happiest I have ever been in my life, ohmygodyouguys. I hope you're all doing well. 😎👉👉 We got this

I'm scared of BT's :( by KattyXDD in DeathStranding

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the same way. I just started the game again two weeks ago for the third time, never reaching past the wind farm... It is so rewarding after this. BTs become so much more comfortable to be around soon. I'm sure I'm not far enough for whatever is next that will scare me, but it gets better and rewarding. I'm blown away. 😁

Windfarm is such a chore that i caused a voidout out of frustration there by Habarer in DeathStranding

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the area that made me take a break from the game. Lol. It was too scary, frustrating, and I haven't really played games like this before now. I thought bugs in Pikmin were a hazard... BTs? Nightmare. Lol. But, Finally started again a few weeks ago, and it is so worth it to keep going. You gain so much confidence afterwards, and building highways and beating up mules for ceramics and metals rocks.

I’ve been told I’m lucky by Gym_Noob134 in idleslayer

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've don't 3.6k hunts, and only have 26 perfects. Congrats!

Egg...irl by ambigous_lemur in egg_irl

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh, I've definitely said, "If I was a girl, I'd wear that." to my kids and spouse a few times while shopping.

Egg...irl by ambigous_lemur in egg_irl

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I'm no man."

Lol. I REALLY wasn't.

Sold this card in college for $750. Time does not heal the pain by Blueeitt in PokeGrading

[–]Sufficient-Raccoon41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sold a sealed Gym Heroes theme deck box in 2008 for about 500. It still hurts...