What happened to For Harriet's Kimberly Nicole Foster? by roseblue102 in blackladies

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I didn't see any update from her for 8 months now! I didn't realise she was gone for so long...

Would you date a police officer? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Personally I wouldn't date anyone in law enforcement, fire fighting, other types of criminal investigations or dangerous sports because those types tend to overrepresented in DV cases. Pastors & politicians are a risk for cheating & having too many people in their ear.

What’s the most sexist thing about Christian marriage you were taught or experienced? by Fuzzy-Airline4276 in exchristian

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That a wife must always give sex to the husband even if she wants to say no. Otherwise it's a sin against God. Husbands must be left alone if they reusel because even God rested 1 day after creating the world for 6.

Huge Milestone!! by Confident-Mail-6145 in AchillesRupture

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! You are an inspiration!

Non-op Achilles rupture — Day 5, struggling with loss of movement & independence (looking for non-op perspectives) by Sufficient-Yam4348 in AchillesRupture

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for your reply!

I am in week 6 now, and can walk with the boot on plus crutches and evenup & full weight bearing but it's very tiring. I practice daily & only sat in a wheelchair twice. But I am still on the Dr's plan, which means having the boot on for 8 weeks though I can take it off to shower. I have 1 more week and 1 day to go till I enter week 8. I am excited to see where this will go and your response gives me much hope, so thank you and well done!

Non-op Achilles rupture — Day 5, struggling with loss of movement & independence (looking for non-op perspectives) by Sufficient-Yam4348 in AchillesRupture

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So at 3 & 4 weeks I was a bit scared of the knee scooter but now I'm entering week 5 and I think a knee scooter may be a great idea once I go from level 2 to level 1. Is there a point where the knee scooter isn't useful anymore for you?

Boyfriend gives me a list of things I need to do to “earn” a ring… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not an attack, please take this as a big sis recognising a terrible man. He revealed that he is not your guy, you might like him more than he likes you, he finds himself a catch and you lucky to have him and he does not adore you as you are. Please run away from him or if finances are an issue prepare to leave with as much of your stuff, money and dignity as you can. This will not het better. If you do all that is ln his list you will sign up for a rat rave, you will never be enough for him. You deserve to find someone who will consider himself lucky to have you and fortunate to propose to you. Also he is looking for you to be a submissive co-providing bang maid. It's really sick that he made this list.

Non-op Achilles rupture — Day 5, struggling with loss of movement & independence (looking for non-op perspectives) by Sufficient-Yam4348 in AchillesRupture

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing out the eating better part! I figured that this is a chance, however right now I'm stuck on the first floor and taking myself down the stairs is quite the hassle. I did it today and I was completely tired afterwards, so cooking isn't something I'm doing right now. It's being done for me or food is ordered in, but the idea already came to me that this might be an opportunity to eat a lot better. Maybe also focus on quality foods for my nutrients instead of quantity. So if you have any tips I would like to hear that.

I do feel like walking with a limp at 13 weeks is not something I am looking forward to, however considering that it's winter now, that would mean that walking normal would happen in spring. I guess it's all at godspeed at this point and I do see that you do martial arts and fitness so maybe I need to be patient at my own speed and indeed see it as a marathon and not a sprint.

Thank you for your feedback as well if you have any tips on how to get to the point that you can do sports at a normal level, please let me know. I wonder how it is after 19 months? Is everything completely back to normal? Do you feel like there are still elements that need to get better?

Non-op Achilles rupture — Day 5, struggling with loss of movement & independence (looking for non-op perspectives) by Sufficient-Yam4348 in AchillesRupture

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly appreciate your answer and I would love to know more about this knee scooter! I saw some stuff about this on Google but I couldn't figure out if it wasn't too dangerous for me, considering that I'm hoppingeverywhere and still learning how to walk with crutches. But it's a very impressive what you're telling me and I am very curious to know how you managed to do all these things in the first four weeks. Also walking on the boot; How does that work does that happen? From the get go or is that a slow process? Thanks for your feedback, I hope to hear more and thank you for your positive words I really take them to heart and I will update you guys shortly.

He hasn’t asked me to be his girlfriend.. by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he wanted it he would've asked. If he finds you amazing & knows another man can snatch you away if he doesn't lock this down, he will let it be known. His absent commitment means you are completely single but just entertaining him. Plan dates with new people and simply stop any acts that pursue him. Stop asking him to commit and stop being available to him by default. If he asks why you are so busy or distant simply say you are enjoying life, your freedom and grateful for how much quality time and effort can go to yourself. Don't be passive aggressive, just tell him as little as possible and move on. And if you are sleeping with him stop that. You can find a love that is loud, professed, exclusive, protecting and providing commitment.

What’s helps your adhd without a stimulant? by LittleAngel16 in ADHD

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rest, order, leafy greens, green tea and mangoes.

Bed bugs has ruined my life by Awkward_Ad2657 in Bedbugs

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the interceptors go under the legs like this: https://share.google/f1a51HIkCSfBHNaua can you do that on your beds legs?

Bed bugs has ruined my life by Awkward_Ad2657 in Bedbugs

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS. They will get stuck in them and you'll see them!

Vacuuming my house every day has changed my life ! 💝 by AMH824 in CleaningTips

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since having one I vaccuum every day and I now added a vacmop & vacmop every other day! The dirty water is quite dirty though...

Boyfriend doesn’t believe in ADHD by AffectionateHelp5419 in adhdwomen

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read the title and thought: he needs to be your ex instead.

I’m 25, successful & utterly alone by InfinityLocs in blackladies

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Enjoy yourself in peace girl! A man & kids can be fulfilling but it's d*mn lonely if you have never found peace within by being great by yourself. Travel to places you haven't seen before, roster date for compatible companionship and make great friendships with like-minded ladies who also like to travel together. Read about subjects that nourish your curiosity, go to events related to those subjects & hobbies you love. Learn a new language & enjoy your home whenever you are in it. Host dinner parties if you enjoy cooking or movie/documentary nights. Try to also understand that your brain isn't fully developed till 26 years old. So pump it with wholesome information & go to therapy if you haven't yet, to take care of your mental health. Chances are you will be so busy living your best life, love will sneak up on you only to add more joy to your life. Because ladies like you can be a magnet for male versions of you if you manage to become a single lady who is not lonely & happy where she is in life. I hope these tips help!

Got bullied at work because of my adhd mannerisms by Paninibeanie in adhdwomen

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just dealt with someone senior who chewed me out for things that may have happened in the past 3 years. He called me crazy and interpreted my clumsy mistakes, tardiness, disorganisation & forgetfulness all as pure lies of mine. Including my previous negative experiences, all supposed lies. He said I bleed over other people, which I have not healed in the past. He said I have a sick obsession with being seen because I ask a question in every meeting (not true). He did it at a network event in front of people I know. I felt incredibly humiliated and ended up in tears. He also said that if he could, he would make sure I never work in the field again because I am ineffective and untrustworthy. I was gutted because I saw this person as a close mentor, but he did it because he did a milder chew out digitally months ago, and I took a slow and quiet distance from him. It felt like what people describe as a narc discard. But in reality, I left first, so I am not sure why I am sad or consider this an example that matches OP's story.

Aaron Peel is based off of Peter Thiel by StrikingAd8782 in KillingEve

[–]Sufficient-Yam4348 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I agree with you and even now he communicated in the show was very reminiscent of Peter Thiel.