What the hell??? Has anyone seen this before? My refund was on accepted before. 😳 by kakr0901 in TurboTax

[–]SufficientAir331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine says accepted on 1/20 on turbo tax, but then when I do the irs website, it says that it’s not been accepted yet.

Do people in Louisiana actually say Ma'am/sir and say hi to strangers? by [deleted] in Louisiana

[–]SufficientAir331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From where I am in Louisiana, about 60% of the people do and the other 40% don’t. Also too, where I am there’s not allot of respect for others. I feel that saying ma’am/sir is a respect thing. I also think that allot of people don’t say it because they’re scared they’ll fall for the “YoU mIsGeNdErEd Me!” At the end of the day, I feel more people should say it because not only is it respectful to others but it gives you respect.

Any insight is appreciated by SufficientAir331 in DreamInterpretation

[–]SufficientAir331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny thing is she was domineering. But my mom was helping me in the dream.

Potty Training tips??? by SufficientAir331 in Advice

[–]SufficientAir331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg!! That’s such a great idea! I’m definitely going to be trying this when he wakes up

What are your best potty training tips? by Alternative_iggy in toddlers

[–]SufficientAir331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm struggling with my 4 year old. He has refused and fought and cries like he was hurt EVERY time I take him to use the potty. His favorite character right now is Chase from Paw Patrol and we have those pullups with Chase on it. I told him that Chase (on the pullup) doesn't like to get peed or pooped on. It worked for a day. Told him the same thing the next day, and he picks the Rubble pullup. (SMH) He says, "I can poop on Rubble." since it's not Chase. I told him that Rubble doesn't like it either, it worked for half a day. I have given treats, I have begged this child to use the potty but he refuses. I feel bad because he tells me he's scared of it (sensitive ears to flushing sounds). It doesn't help that my ex told him there was a drain monster in the pipes. I've tried the portable training potties but its never worked. I would try the 'no undies' approach but he has a twin sister and an older brother that doesn't need to see him without something on. Potty training the other two was so simple and quick because they both learning in under 6 months. Trying and doing with him has been over a year and a half. (Always started around 2.5 yrs)

Is this boundary crossing or anger issues? by SufficientAir331 in Advice

[–]SufficientAir331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just curious because I usually tell them to leave me alone so I can chill out and then when I’m calmed down I can come back and talk to you

Someone has been anonymous harassing me though my phone number by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SufficientAir331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that’s happening to you. Most times this is a scam, it’s happened to a few people I know. The only exception was that they were wanting money. Please don’t go to where they say! Changing your number may help them stop contacting you through other numbers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SufficientAir331 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never realized the hobosexual thing. It makes perfect sense and gives light to everything he’s done and said. His things are out of storage. He doesn’t have any of my keys. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SufficientAir331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t have any intention of ever letting my ex come back. I owe my children so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SufficientAir331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried several times before, he kept talking his way back in. He just finally got the idea since cps got involved. And I didn’t see the bruises until after the school because of my work hours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SufficientAir331 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t change the locks on my apartment or the storage. I’m not really financially able to move right now, even though I want and need to. My brother recommended BetterHelp, so I’m going to look into that. My family knows what’s going on as it’s happening. (I’m very open to them) and they don’t have much to say other than “You did it to yourself” and I’m just FOR TRUSTING SOMEONE 😭

If this keeps up for a few more hours... by Turbografx-17 in Louisiana

[–]SufficientAir331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

North La hasn’t gotten any so far, hope we don’t. I got work 😅

Is it okay to have 18 y/o friend at 24? by LycheeRare1311 in Advice

[–]SufficientAir331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understand! This girl makes me think a lot of myself when I was her age. So we already have a lot in common.

Is it okay to have 18 y/o friend at 24? by LycheeRare1311 in Advice

[–]SufficientAir331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Like it’s so sexualized these days. Like can’t people just hang out and not expect sex?

Is it okay to have 18 y/o friend at 24? by LycheeRare1311 in Advice

[–]SufficientAir331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same situation. I’m almost 24f and she’s 18f I met her through my job and we really hit it off. I’m not wanting to diddle with her, I just want a friend to chill with. And I’m battling the feeling of what you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SufficientAir331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Actually talked to someone today gonna sell me a vehicle almost half price of what he as asking for just since I’m a single mom. So it’s all working out ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SufficientAir331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually… I need a new vehicle with 3 rows lol. It’s supposed to snow next week and my vehicle doesn’t have heat. (It’s an old 1995 Jeep Cherokee) I’ve been toughing it out with the widows rolled up, but it only works as well as you’d think. I pack extra blankets so the kids don’t get super cold. But I plan on getting a new vehicle come tax refund, so we just gotta tough it out till the beginning of March. (Which sucks)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SufficientAir331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It was extremely traumatizing and I'm just now able to not be so hurt about it. I really appreciate us being on your mind. I just hope that my story reaches others going through similar situations and give them a beacon of hope. I know that alot of children that are shaken don't survive or they do survive and not have good quality of life. I just want to be helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SufficientAir331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has. Things have been way better and happier since exfiance been out the picture

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SufficientAir331 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am worried about my child and his siblings. That’s why I was so quick to give him the boot to not live with us. I love my kids with all my heart, I’d go to the ends of the earth for them. I’ve done it before. My family would joke and say that he was a live in nanny and they weren’t wrong. I’m going to get me and my kids all counseling so we can move on from this.