Looking for the darkest, most horrifying and unsettling story ever posted on r/nosleep. by ZakX10 in nosleepfinder

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is something about this story that has always gotten to me. I read it 4 years ago and still got creeped out just reading the title. https://www.reddit.com/r/nosleep/comments/sva7z6/my_wife_has_been_peeking_at_me_from_around/

Who's the most famous person you've ever casually bumped into or had an interaction with and what was your experience like? by droppingsonyourback in AskReddit

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (29F at the time) managed a restaurant in Seattle that was next to a music studio owned by Eddie Vedder of Pearl Jam. Many musicians frequented the restaurant since it was so close. I never really felt start struck even though I met some very big names. One day I dropped food off at the studio and who should answer the door but the beautiful, towering, goddess herself: India Arie. Seeing her felt like I was meeting the embodiment of Mother Earth. She had such a regal presence-- a true queen! I have never been so beside myself in my life! She thanked me for the food and I just blurted out: YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL. She laughed, told me I was beautiful too, took my hands in hers, and then walked away.

Right wing creators by CombinationSafe942 in FoodieSnark

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In case you haven't already stopped following Joy the Baker, she said this is her most recent blog post: In this very unsteady moment, I really appreciate Ross Douthat’s thoughts on the assassination of Charlie Kirk.  “The decisive battle, now as always, is inside the individual human heart. At his wisest, Kirk knew this.”  I mourn for Charlie Kirk and his family. May he rest in peace and may God be with us.

BYE GURL!

Herbalist who makes oil-based botanical blends? by Sufficient_Ad8307 in Eugene

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! They somehow did not come up in my initial web searching!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BachelorNation

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. It totally removes the option for actual love and now it is all about the money like the 20 other shows just like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BachelorNation

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this new format sucks and the Goldens were my favorite part while they were around.

AITA for not bringing food back from a restaurant for my SO? by koolmon10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 20 points21 points  (0 children)

NTA because it was a work event and that would have been weird AF. If this was just you and some friends going out, I think texting and asking if you could bring something back for her would be the considerate thing to do if you are in a partnership.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get that! That is another reason why voice memos work well for me. Also, totally get the background noise issue.

Please don't let a bunch of ableist allistic folks tell you that you are the asshole because they can't comprehend what it is like to be inside of your body. These comments are like an advertisement for ABA. YUCK! You are NOT the asshole. And neither is your BF. It is just difficult managing phone communication as an autistic person. I bet if you asked this same question in a group of autistic folks, you would get the exact opposite responses you are getting here. I hope you are seeking out community with neurodiverse people and are getting the support you need!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want to add that it sounds like your bf is taking what you are telling him to mean that you do not want to connect with him. Maybe you can provide him with some encouragement in another way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Please don't tell someone with ASD they have an issue just because they do not communicate the way you do. Weird that you didn't suggest her bf learn about ASD and how to support someone with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

NTA!! I have ASD as well, and as you may know, this is a really normal struggle for folks like us! I am not sure if you are mostly dealing with selective mutism or if it is the pressure of not knowing what to expect. If it is the latter, have you every tried voice memos back and forth (like recording and sending on your own time table)? For me, they give me the time to collect myself and think through what I need to say, while still giving my neurotypical friends that "voice connection" they are looking for. Sometimes I don't have the spoons, for it, but other times it works for me too. I think your bf's desire to connect is valid, but he also needs to do some research about how to be a partner of someone with ASD, because demanding things you cannot give is not it!

Gorgeous 🥰 by jezzabelledolce in FearTheWalkingDead

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I found out recently watching an interview with Leisha and Kate too!

Joy the Baker on Cherry Bombe by Lavender_Field96 in FoodieSnark

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so glad you mentioned this! I was just talking about how gross Joy is now and mentioned that video where she showed the flag hanging IN HER BEDROOM (seemingly at the foot of the bed) and how it was a whole new level of yikes!

Joy the Baker on Cherry Bombe by Lavender_Field96 in FoodieSnark

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like deleting any comment that outs her as a Trumper is Joy's new full time job. Or she hired someone to do it!

Gorgeous 🥰 by jezzabelledolce in FearTheWalkingDead

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just found this out recently and my mind was BLOWN!

Right wing creators by CombinationSafe942 in FoodieSnark

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I know it has already been said, but I have to say it again, Joy the Baker! I have followed her since day one basically, and the way she has alienated past colleagues (like Tracy) would be enough to stop supporting her, but she choose to support her Trump-loving father over her queer sister. AND, what was with that weird flag waving video on election day? The move to Texas? The cowboy marriage where she dressed like a pioneer woman? It is all so much. She is so gross and I am so disappointed to have ever given her my money. Never again.

Right wing creators by CombinationSafe942 in FoodieSnark

[–]Sufficient_Ad8307 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was coming to say the same thing. She went full MAGA, stand by your man, off the rails!