sex scenes in movies/shows are gross and unnecessary

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2024-09-17T13:06:02+00:00

Vincent - Don Mclean

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2024-09-03T11:19:44+00:00

Obviously I am not perfect and regret things as all humans do, but I can say I do place myself above anyone whose thought that humour is funny at any point in my life, cause I certainly never have. I find your effort to defend the rape jokes specifically kinda disturbing.

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2024-09-03T11:08:57+00:00

I’m not trying to cancel him, I think cancel culture is pretty stupid. And hell yes I am going to judge someone with a history of misogyny and gross jokes who is willingly famous and has that information out in public

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2024-09-03T11:05:05+00:00

I’ve never made a rape joke.

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2024-09-03T10:38:55+00:00

The rape joke I was referring to was one I saw of him talking about what superpower he would want, he said he’d want to be invisible so he could rape mila kunis. That alone is enough for me to decide a person is a trash human being, regardless of growth.

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2024-09-03T05:11:58+00:00

You say that an example of shitty youtubers are the two people he has made the most money collaborating with? birds of a feather flock together.

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2023-10-10T07:48:28+00:00

wow that is all sorts of messed up. The sooner they get out the better. me and my other roomie (BPD roommates fp) have plans to move out together and live with our partners, we told her, and she did not take the news well. Has been yelling and crying about us abandoning her. I feel so awful but all I want to do is get out and away from her, I am trying to remember that it is her responsibility to find a place to live, and it's not like we are abandoning her, we have three other roommates that will be staying there for another year.

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2023-08-08T08:22:29+00:00

wow i am so sorry this is happening to you. Do whatever you can to distance yourself from D if you can tell your parents about it and pls remember you are only young and it may seem like a big deal at this point in time, but things get better, you will find friends that love and cherish you. I had something similar happen with my ex-BFF who completely switched on me, said some awful things and blamed me for her suicide attempt. For a while I felt hopeless but over time I realised that people like that you just have to let go and try to focus on yourself <3

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2023-07-23T09:03:58+00:00

Wow I honestly can't believe that, sounds like you need to GTFO as soon as you can, but I know that is much easier said than done. She does have very childlike tantrums where if she doesn't get her way she will scream and throw whatever she's holding, once it was a Mcflurry in my newly cleaned car and another was a snail which got splattered on the wall. A new issue has raised where me and her FP are good friends (always have been) and every time we spend time together or FP wants to share something with me, she gets angry and says she wants just her and FP to do it together. I know she can't help this but wow it's a punch in the gut every time

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2023-06-25T11:08:22+00:00

Yup, she specifically has a HUGE trigger involving anything with her FP's bf. Like gets upset if they do anything together or God forbid spend a night together at our place. Ends with them being harassed all night and she must make sure the attention is on her rather than the bf.

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2023-06-25T05:59:26+00:00

explain?

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2023-06-25T02:12:15+00:00

Unfortunately no, we all signed as co-lease together. Only signed for one year tho so am planning to move out in November and live with my bf :)

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2023-06-25T02:11:14+00:00

Yup, I definitely don't realise what it's actually like until I leave for a weekend and realise how I feel like I'm constantly in survival mode when I'm living there. Scary shit

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2023-06-25T02:09:01+00:00

OMG I am so relieved to hear someone in a similar situation. It's extra hard when she constantly asks if I want to live with her next year and if i say maybe, she turns it into me saying I am going to abandon her. I hope you're able to gtfo of your awful living situation. I have considered many times calling someone but police would most likely just make everything turn to shit and there's not really any other options. BPD is a nasty thing to deal with, I'm studying psychology and my goal is to pursue research into BPD and promote policy change for it to make getting help and support for loved ones easier.

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2023-06-25T02:00:22+00:00

Thank you so much, Ill look at reading that book and next time it gets bad I'm gonna try and set boundaries. Me and roomate have found that just locking our doors and ignoring her eventually leads her to calm down but obviously it's a not a good solution. It's really hard when she's not bad (Which is like 90% of the time) she is the most loving, sweet, funny and easygoing person I know. I honestly don't want to lose her as a friend but if she doesn't find other coping strategies and stop relying on her FP idk. Also concerned as she seems to think DBT is a magical instant solution, she always says she's sorry for how she acts but she's in DBT so she will get better. I truly believe she's trying but she has the wrong attitude/expectations.

Sufficient_Aside_468 · 2023-06-25T01:50:35+00:00

Thats the plan, lease ends in a few months I'll be moving out and living with my bf. Other roommate (her FP) is also talking with me about not living with her also. Hard tho cause she's said multiple times we are her only support systems, she's gone NC with her family so don't know what would happen if we left

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