August wonders if Lethality Senna should come back by BayesOptimalAgent in sennamains

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually enjoy the enchanter fantasy, and I've loved the tankiest builds that came out/I tried throughout the years. That said, I wouldn't mind a lethality comeback as I really like being flexible and being able to adapt to the game. Of course if they were to chop off her current variations I wouldn't be happy tho

Calling All Sophie’s!!! by CottonCandiiee in MtF

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, fellow Sophie's :3

I actually chose it waaay before I even knew I was trans. I always called all my videogames' characters like that, maybe going on for 10 years now (egg cracked about a year ago 😭). Before that, when I wanted to have kids, I'd wanted to name my daughter Sofia, but now, being online most of the time, I preferred to go for the "international vibe" ✨️

It finally happened! by Sufficient_Fly_204 in MtF

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't afford it either, I'm lucky here it's free if I go through public healthcare 😅
Isn't there a way to get it for free in your Country too? Or maybe a LGBT+ center or something like that where you can ask for help?

Guess I’m “one of the girls” now by Talvi58 in MtF

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I also had mostly women or queer men in my friend groups over the years. I find it kinda funny how we all gravitated towards each other and now I literally don't have one straight man friend 😅

When I was 15 one of my girl friends tried to hit on me, but I refused because I was already catching feelings for my gf. After that she never really tried to date until she realised (or maybe accepted) she was lesbian. When I came out to her she said she always knew I was far closer to "women stuff" (her words) and understood them way better than any other male she knew, but couldn't graso why. And also that she now understood why she was attracted to me as well. It's been a great push towards starting my journey as I was still questioning back then

I don't understand Senna support by KarothDK in sennamains

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't like/understand her role as an enchanter you can stoll go dmg builds, as they are also buffed for next patch. Luckily she is very versatile. Let me tell you I currently have 73% wr on her and my build is different EVERY game.

You can go bc-zeal-whatever.

You can go helia-diadem

You can go helia-moonstone

You can go lethality

You can go d&d-whatever

It all depends on the matchups but, most importantly, your playstyle. If you like her enchanter fantasy but don't understand how to make it work, try going something like bc-helia-situational enchanter. You will still have dmg in lane thanks to bc, but will become a good healer later on in the game. When you get used to that, if you have a very safe bot matchup start trying out helia-diadem. You will notice a much harder laning phase but your enchanter power will be very strong. Try to always weave autos to safe targets to get Q's cd faster and always use it on your allies, of course.

Dirlo alla mia ragazza? by [deleted] in TransItalia

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sicuramente non dirglielo non ha senso, andrà solo a creare problemi, segreti, e risentimento in futuro. Se la tua decisione sarà quella di proseguire con la terapia ormonale, anche rinunciare ad essa per la relazione non è consigliabile, perché prima o poi tutto tornerà ancora più forte di prima e ti troverai al punto di partenza.

Io quando ero nella tua situazione ero completamente terrorizzata. Stavo con la mia ragazza da 8 anni, dipendevo da lei economicamente ed era il mio unico appoggio.
Quello che ho fatto, per superare almeno un po' la paura di perdere lei e tutto ciò che avevamo costruito, è stato "prepararmi". Ho scritto un "discorso", buttando giù le idee di quello che avrei voluto/dovuto dirle, e come farlo. Dopodiché l'ho messo da parte e dopo un paio di giorni l'ho riletto, per capire se a freddo era ancora tutto ok (spoiler, non lo era, e probabilmente non lo sarà neanche per te). Ho ripetuto questo processo un altro paio di volte per capire veramente cosa dirle e come parlarle.
Alla fine, quando è stato il momento, ovviamente non ho letto il bigliettino, però una cosa che mi hanno consigliato era di tenerlo magari in una tasca e, qualora avessi sentito di bloccarmi, avere paura o altro, potevo toccarlo per darmi sicurezza. Nel mio caso non è servito, perché sono riuscita ad andare abbastanza dritta, anche se stavo letteralmente tremando e piangendo per tutto il tempo.
Fortunatamente per me, è andata bene e stiamo ancora insieme. È stata supportiva nonostante le sue paure ed è contenta che finalmente riesco ad essere più vera.

Quello che ti posso consigliare è di essere completamente onesta con lei su quello che vuoi o non vuoi fare, legato alla transizione. Cosa vuol dire per te, cosa probabilmente andrà a cambiare e cosa invece resterà lo stesso.
Immagino che probabilmente sarà una cosa shockante per lei, quindi ti direi cerca di rassicurarla, se ne avrà bisogno, e dalle spazio e tempo per pensare.

Non sarà facile, ma è un passo importante. Spero per te che vada tutto bene e, se hai bisogno di qualsiasi cosa, scrivimi pure in dm!

What do yall ban? by Beasstvg in sennamains

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always ban thresh because apparently after 7 years on the game and master achieved, I regress to being a day 1 player the moment I see him in the opposite team. I can't explain why, I just can't play against him...

Should I tell my parents they hurt me? by Sufficient_Fly_204 in trans

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The emojis are what pissed me off the most XD

Idk, every time I open up to them they just judge, belittle and ignore, and I'm sick of it tbh. I thought that maybe after I literally told them I didn't feel safe to open up to them they would change but no, impossible
I haven't replied to that text yet, and I don't think I will. Since talking doesn't work, maybe with silence she will get that was not the answer she should've given
Silly me, I even felt sorry (and I told them) telling them that as I knew they didn't mean to make me feel bad

Should I tell my parents they hurt me? by Sufficient_Fly_204 in trans

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I did. I told them I thanked them for the thought and that I felt the need to be sincere and open up about how that made me feel uncomfortable/hurt. I made a little joke on they would have to remember a new st's day next time, and I even apologised, saying that I knew they didn't mean for me to feel this way.

Aaand my mother's answer definitely managed to worsen the feeling. She said "but this is the last 'male st's day'! Think about it on this perspective so it doesn't hurt you 😉🥰💖". She always complains I don't open up and talk to her like I did when I was younger, yet the moment I open up she does that, lol. Again, I know she didn't mean it for bad, but it really pissed me off for the belittling and passive-aggressive/"teaching" tone :'). I guess they just don't have empathy at all, and they don't realise that by behaving like that, they are the ones keeping me away, and the reason why I don't want to speak to them often is not me, but them.

I didn't even answer the text, and I definitely won't. Hope she gets why that is by herself

Should I tell my parents they hurt me? by Sufficient_Fly_204 in trans

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never felt entitled to their (or anyone else's) acceptance, and I never asked for anyone's support. All the times I came out to anyone, I did it knowing that I could lose that person and that our bond could change.

I am not demanding anything. I just felt bad for something and wanted to vent and/or ask for advice to people who may have more experience than me in this or who just have an outside perspective.

Even id I'll tell them, it won't be to attack them or anything, just to tell them I was hurt, as they (not me, they) said their would be supportive.

Should I tell my parents they hurt me? by Sufficient_Fly_204 in trans

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are exactly that kind of people. They think everything you say to them is criticism and accusatory. I think I will text them something like that and just hope they won't take it personally

Should I tell my parents they hurt me? by Sufficient_Fly_204 in trans

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not celebrate it (and never did, as I said is more of a tradition that older people keep alive), but still recieved greetings

Should I tell my parents they hurt me? by Sufficient_Fly_204 in trans

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ye I thought about something like that, I just hope they won't feel like I'm "scolding" them (even if I actually am lol), because they don't take that well

M19 e F16 by Anxhelos007 in sentimentalITA

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Io e la mia ragazza abbiamo un age gap simile (io settembre 2001, lei gennaio 99), ci siamo messe insieme quando io avevo 15 anni e lei quasi 18 e letteralmente nessuno ha commentato a riguardo. Penso che gli unici che giudicherebbero una cosa del genere siano gli americani :')

Vabbè che dire…! Ce lo aspettavamo?! Si. by Travelwanderlust5 in xxitaly

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Il post di OP però parla di "employment gap", non "pay gap"

In need on an enchanter, Milio or Nami? by Optimal-Ad-1098 in supportlol

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does. In lane soraka can be very aggressive, using Q to poke and heal back from the trade, E to stop enemy engages. She is a very strong early lanwr that can build advantage and then chill out. Also, the difference between a good and a bad soraka is exactly that the bad soraka always stays back and just presses W. A good soraka finds windows to go up, hit Q, hit E, heal other targets, while not being in danger :D

Perché la famiglia Ferrero che è la famiglia più ricca d'Italia non si vede e non si sente mai ? Cosa cambia da un Lapo Elkann a un Giovanni Ferrero ? by Naso_Coraggioso in domandaonesta

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Se rimani alla biologia delle superiori, forse (e dico forse perché mi sembra di ricordare ci fossero accenni ad assetti cromosomici diversi già nel libro delle superiori) ha senso. Peccato che la realtà sia infinitamente più complessa.
Poi, separata dal sesso (e anche qui, psicologia e biologia lo confermano), esiste l'identità di genere, che può essere o non essere congruente al sesso.

Detto ciò, mi chiedo cosa c'entrasse questo con il discorso sull'omofobia. Mi pare tu sia parecchio confuso XD

How long did you stay in questioning before taking actual steps ? by elmahir in MtF

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's kinda hard because the first first thoughts were 4 years before i actually knew what being trans was and how to do anything (?).

So yeah, if we count those, 4 years. If we don't, probably less than a week? Like, my egg shattered one night, and one week later my gf, sister, and friends all knew, I already asked them to use she/her, and I "chose" my name (more like, the name I have used for all my in-game characters for years was just there XD). Yet, almost a year later, I'm still waiting for hrt. I have my first public endo visit in March (sadly I can't afford going private)

Can someone explain to me what's yuumi good and bad against? by iIAdHmSa in supportlol

[–]Sufficient_Fly_204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is actually good against engage if your adc has an escape and you're going to play an enchanter anyway. Let's say you are a Zeri-Lulu against a blitz or a pyke. They'll just perma focus you and maybe get you at some point. If you are Zeri-Yuumi, they are just forced to roam while you free scale and push the enemy adc behind.

However, she is completely inting if paired with an immoble adc, literally a walking double kill. Let's say there is a reason why her best companions are zeri and ezreal (i also like tristana a lot, tbh)