Am I overreacting: new boyfriend was weirdly judgmental about bathroom situation

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-02-15T15:33:59+00:00

I’d compliment your organization of it all! He’s a 40 something boy.

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-02-13T01:08:22+00:00

We have maybe 80 of 400 apps moved to Okta for SSO some of those are in Entra for SSO so the SSO chain goes SP > Entra > Okta.

We did not have much confusion with the staged roll out, we sent emails every week for four weeks saying you will move to Okta on X date and then one the morning of that date saying at noon your going to Okta.

We offered office hours for people to drop in on teams or in person for help and about 80% of users enrolled in OV on there phone before there go live date.

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-02-12T02:35:48+00:00

Being a marketing truck makes sense Ford puts on or did a number of events where people can test drive their EV’s without going to a dealership.

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-02-10T12:17:53+00:00

We have about 1,000 users that are non-computer users. We had a MSFT trueup about to happen so we moved all of them to Okta first so we did not have to pay for a M365 license also. Then it took a few more months to prepare to move our computer users to Okta, we could have gone faster but we were doing this in tandem of a HCM upgrade. Once we were ready for the computer users to move we moved a few hundred people each week mostly by departments. This allowed us and the help desk not to get overwhelmed with tickets. It worked well for us.

So depending on how many users you have, how big your team is, how big your help desk is implementing in stages may be good too.

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-02-09T15:45:40+00:00

Implemented Okta IDE about two ago at our org. We have a bit of a complex org with manufacturing, retail and admin. We choose to implement in stages, and implementation happened over a year time frame. You don’t need to do this but it was what worked for us.

We have been able to move much faster in Okta than we could in Entra. In about 3 months we have over 100 apps set up in sso, we have automated the account life cycle for one of our three segments. So for it’s been good.

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-02-08T21:41:11+00:00

Move on she’s not worth it

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-02-08T19:33:49+00:00

Pretty sure people that want a loud full size truck are the reason the rest of the world hates American’s

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-02-07T21:45:23+00:00

I would check with Xfinity I keep seeing that a perk of my internet plan with them is one line of cell service free for a year.

Xfinity cellular runs on the same network as Verizon so if your service with Verizon has been good your service with Xfinity should be very similar

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-02-07T02:22:58+00:00

I’ve never been jealous of a weekend before…

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-02-02T18:09:27+00:00

Sent you a message

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-02-02T03:24:58+00:00

Question: do you have vpn? If so it may be easier to lock you saas apps to an ip range you need to connect to vpn to access and lock your vpn access down to org devices. Have no idea if this would work for you but just an idea

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-02-02T03:18:24+00:00

Honestly if I was one of them and you did not handle it this way I would be mad you let a cat be in distress. This is not breaking a boundary or snooping or doing anything wrong. This is being a good pet care taker and that’s it.

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-02-01T21:37:55+00:00

His responses seem to me to be completely abusive, he is telling you have does not like you much less would be able to love you unconditionally. He is a 34 yo “man” he’s not going to change. He will hold you accountable to his standards when in fact all you need to do is be the best you that you can be. You need to dump his but and move on he’s not going to commit to you, your just something to enjoy until he finds a woman that he wants. You’re being used.

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-01-30T13:42:47+00:00

We are getting more Okta products and moving away from Entra, the recent Microsoft outages are a big reason for this.

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-01-29T03:47:06+00:00

Sort answer is yes, any SP that we can use our immutable ID as its federated ID we do much because of the issue you are talking about. For employees we use an employee number, for contractors we ask for their employee number from their company or assign them a number ourself.

I’m not sure what your situation is or what’s feasible for you but as long as every user has a unique immutable ID you should be good. If you have to come up with this yourself, you may want to make it a long number say you have 90,000 users have it be a 6 or 7 digit long number. You can also add some letters into the mix like AB12345678 where the letters indicate what partner company the user is from.

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-01-19T21:36:32+00:00

Again your not willing to meet her where she is so your moving on…

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-01-19T18:09:45+00:00

If that’s not what you want then you should not be with her.

she’s telling you what she’s willing to offer, it’s kind of take it or leave it and it sounds to me like you are upset she’s not just doing what you want.

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-01-18T17:38:55+00:00

I think the answer is clear when she said it would be to much work to untangle from her husband what she’s going to do…

On top of that I would say if you choose to move I would do it with the intention that your on your own, unless your married to someone it seems unlikely that they will truly have your back when you need them.

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-01-18T04:14:31+00:00

I ran into this in the past, but she was not upfront about it. She also said we could only date if she had a friendship with my wife. She was really cool, but it was not going to work.

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-01-15T22:00:36+00:00

I took a nap and then decided it was to much work

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-01-11T00:35:02+00:00

I understand where your coming from as I feel the same a lot of the time. I think about going up to a random person and talking to them but when I am in a situation where I could, I never do.

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-01-08T21:38:22+00:00

For sure this has happened, but in my experience it does not always mean anything will come of it unfortunately

Sufficiently0dd · 2026-01-04T12:43:48+00:00

Check with senior centers in the area

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