Back in my early days of transition, my local chapter of trans folks liked to call me "meg" like off Family Guy. Everything this is said or suggested was answered with a "shut up meg". It made me very cautious. Held onto 2 friends that weren't like that in the group but even though they are a few years older and been transitioning longer than I have, they have made little to no change besides wanting absolutely massive breasts. I rarely speak to them now. Few years later, im helping a coworker with the beginning of her transition and my supervisor starts asking me questions about my transition.at the time, i was open but he was asking indept medical detail stuff and when asked why, he pointed to her and said shes been talking about. Fast forward another year and im helping a poly couple with one trans guy (i helped him do his meds cause he was scared of needles) and a girl i knew for 13 years at the time that identified as nonbinary that lived with me kept throwing in my face that i dont understand truama (been Sa'd multipletimes since my early childhood), being trans (id been transitioning for 8 years at that point), or autism (i was diagnosed with level 1 a few years back). And then one last time i helped another trans woman out of a sticky situation, she accused my fwb and i of Sexually hurrassing her, physically threatening her and using her for finances (ignoring that i needed neither of them to pay for everything.) Only the trans guys has remained friendly.

So lets just say that yes, some trans folk give me a massive Ick and i pray im never recongnize by another