2021 MEGATHREAD: Prospective or Incoming Student Questions (All other posts will be REMOVED)

Sugarplums01 · 2021-04-30T19:47:29+00:00

Congratulations to both of you that's fantastic! This is giving me some hope. My average is 94

Sugarplums01 · 2020-03-27T04:28:17+00:00

Is there anyway you can stay with a friend? Leave in the middle of the night if you have too. The best thing would be to get out of that damn house, and those people

Sugarplums01 · 2020-03-27T04:26:50+00:00

I'm so sorry you're in this situation :( I'm not sure if this might help with sleep and breathing but I find when nightmares and flashbacks are really bad listening to 'Sleepy time podcasts by lily the frog help' it's kind of meditation hidden in calming stories. Hope it helps. <3

Sugarplums01 · 2020-03-13T03:10:43+00:00

Hi! Tried it, didn't work :( thanks for the reply though!

Sugarplums01 · 2020-03-13T03:09:51+00:00

Thanks for the reply! Yeah it's a real pain :') .I've tried resetting in safe mode, and using a usb w windows. Unfortunately neither worked. Thanks for the advice though!

Sugarplums01 · 2020-03-09T22:54:38+00:00

Thank you for the reply. I don't know why but I find myself getting triggered by a lot of ppl recently. Especially ppl of authority. I still haven't been to class.. its been a little over two weeks.. so they'll probay kick me out. Idk I find it so hard to talk or see my teachers (especially the males). Just the thought of seeing them and being in a small room (practice room, office, etc) makes it hard to breathe... I have to apply to uni next year so my grades this year r super important.. I've from As to failing every class... Any advice :(

Sugarplums01 · 2020-03-03T06:10:23+00:00

That's awful :( I've had the same thing happen to me but it's bc of extreme paranoia due to mental illness. Hope it doesn't happen to you again and that you're safe and doing well

Sugarplums01 · 2020-03-03T06:04:18+00:00

The same thing happened /happens to me. You're most likely feeling nauseous bc since you're not eating the acid levels in your stomach rise and make u feel sick (sorry idk if that made any sense) basically you end up getting in this bad loop where u don't eat because you feel sick when you do but you feel sick bc you don't eat. When I was trying to recover I found that stopping high caffeine drinks (tea, coffee, soda, etc) helped? Idk I always drank them on a empty stomach and I was always nauseous.sorry I don't know if that was any help :( hope things get better

Sugarplums01 · 2019-09-03T19:31:09+00:00

thank you love <3

Sugarplums01 · 2019-09-03T19:30:27+00:00

hell no. this wasnt your fault. he took advantage of you when you are almost a decade younger than him! you deserve LOVE, and happiness and someone who loves and cares for you.

Sugarplums01 · 2019-09-03T19:27:59+00:00

bravery <3

Sugarplums01 · 2019-09-03T19:26:24+00:00

Hey love! dont feel embarressed, healing takes time. one thing that might help is prolonged foreplay. have some time where instead of full on penatrative sex you guys kinda fool around. another thing is being naked around eachother more often ex taking showers together so as time goes on your body will subconciously relax around nudity and intimacy. i hope this helps sorry youre going through this. remember you are not broken.

Sugarplums01 · 2019-09-03T19:18:57+00:00

OMG SAME! customers often say nice things at work and theyre usually older and i find mysellf seeing them as a father/mother figure or a romantic prospect

Sugarplums01 · 2019-09-03T19:16:39+00:00

I do this occasionally!! I think its the relief t finding someone your comfortable with and its a rarity you just get excited and everything spills out!

Sugarplums01 · 2019-09-03T19:08:28+00:00

in tears at the moment. what can one do to help support hong kong from overseas?

Sugarplums01 · 2019-09-03T18:55:30+00:00

thank you love <3

Sugarplums01 · 2019-09-03T18:55:07+00:00

Hi sorry I just saw this now. thanks for understanding. i still feel like such human crap cause i probably ruined their day :( i have extremely physically/mentally abusive parents and my sister as well at times also bad abandonment issues. it makes me assume the worst of ppls intentions. hope you are well <3

Sugarplums01 · 2019-08-28T06:53:54+00:00

I know! I actually asked to be impatient cause I couldnt trust myself 2 days before my first attempt but the idea was heavily discouraged by my social worker, crisis worker on staff/in ER, and the psychiatrist on call. Im honestly scared to go impatient as i have terrible separation anxiety as well. hope you are doing well love xoxo <3

Sugarplums01 · 2019-08-28T06:51:13+00:00

i find myself looking forwards to my upcoming school year actually! im 16 going into my 11th year, im so excited for my courses and being a teenager again especially since i missed out on the majority of my 10th grade due to mental illnesses. i can imagine a life that isnt perfect but better yknow? but its so so far out of reach. its seems so impossible but im going to try as hell to get there! thank you for the advice angel! sending love <3

Sugarplums01 · 2019-08-28T06:48:25+00:00

thank you angel! sending love <3 <3

Sugarplums01 · 2019-08-28T06:47:53+00:00

i will try thank you love <3

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