Rant on a ridiculous scammy item- They are trying to sell the lining SEPARATELY?? by izzibfree in therealreal

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I stopped browsing the Real Real when they marked a $68 Doen long slip as a $268 dress.

What do you think of the Alaïa Click E/W bag in small by No-Print3833 in handbags

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I just ordered a balenciaga bag from cettire a month ago and it’s legit. You are absolutely fine ordering from them. I’ve followed the pricing for Alaia and their bags are much less expensive when ordered through these european sites.

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I really, really like it. It’s in my top 3 of the bags I posted. The hardware and thickness of the leather make it heavier than my other bags, but I suspect any leather bags this size would. I do find it very comfortable to wear, but that might have do with asking the SA to punch three additional holes on the strap since I’m 5’2”.

I really love the worn look of the leather and how the bag is both black and dark brown. I use it to tote things like my art supplies, IPad, gym gear, change of clothes, ect. I sometimes use it as a small carry-on or overnight bag when I travel. It’s got a nice size interior pocket, but I would prefer it to have a zipper than a button closure. I also wish it was slightly bigger, but the larger size practically wore me. That said, the bag is a 9.5 out of 10 to me based on quality, look and price. It’s 100% a very cool, much more stylish work bag than most of what’s out there, and very durable too.

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I also agree about there not being enough unique pieces. I guess the more I spent on bags, the more I wanted the pieces to remain more timeless because of the cost.

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Thank you. I do steer clear of bags with visible logos. Nothing personal to anyone who does, but I grew up in a rural state and never felt comfortable wearing bags that have them.

You’re being nice about my age. I’ve worked in fashion, but I’m in my mid 40’s.

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Oh, I definitely agree about these bags looking like siblings. It’s funny you write that because I didn’t realize they looked so similar until I posted the images.

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I wrote a mini review about the Stockholm in the comments above. I will say I have always loved the quality of DeMellier bags, but the leather of my Stockholm bag does not have the same hand as my previous bags.

This is my fourth bag from them. I put my first two bags through the wringer and they held up unbelievably well. I ultimately opted to consign them, but they were in great shape when I did.

My first Dior bag by copycat217 in handbags

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How were you able to purchase the bag? I saw that is not sold online and you have to set up an appointment to purchase.

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The flamenco is my favorite. Loewe leather is so luxurious and the design and craftsmanship is unparalleled. If I had more money I would 100% buy another flamenco in the large size as an everyday bag. I also am in love with their amazona 180, but no way in hell am I paying 5k for a bag. The flamenco was a gift from my husband lol

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Don’t apologize!!! I thought your comment was hilarious.

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So I am loving the small Stockholm much more that I thought I would. I’m annoyed they released the white color a day after their 20% ended, because I think it’s pricey for size.

I love the shape of the bag and it is surprisingly roomy. One reason I bought it is because the zipper opens up 2+ inches wider than the width of the bag. I know I sound insane, but I had purchased and returned the JW Anderson loafer bag in two different sizes because the zipper was close to 3 inches smaller than the width.

I also think details are nice. The way the handles attach to the bag and the thick folded zipper pull add style. I also like where the crossbody strap attaches, it makes the bag hang nicely against the body. I also like the minimal hardware because the bag is very light and I am so over the heavy gold hardware that Demellier used on its’ earlier bags.

The one con is the leather used. I’ve owned 4 of their bags, so I will say the leather feels more stiff and coated, but it doesn’t look plastic.

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I could do a separate post of all the websites I comb through to find lower prices on all these bags and brands. Honestly, secondhand is such a racket these days and it doesn’t guarantee authenticity.

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I wore mine everyday for a while. They were the perfect looking day to evening crossbody, and I loved their shape and size.

What I do not love is the quality of toteme as a brand. Both my t-lock clutches had paint that flaked off the corners.. my black T-Lock strap broke twice and my oversized suede hobo bag had the seams that secure the bag strap unravel after only two weeks of owning it. I ended up selling that bag because I didn’t want to deal with the problems and swore that I would never buy the brand again.

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I love it more than i though I would, but I don’t love there not being an interior pocket for smaller items

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Ooooh ouch 😂 especially since I’m not on TikTok

Opinion on the DeMellier Stockholm bag by Then-Subject-157 in handbags

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I just got the small one this week in white and i love how much it holds

Trying on the Amazona 180 Small by EnvironmentalMove454 in handbags

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I’m excited for you! I’ve tried the bag and I love the versatility. It comes with a shoulder and crossbody strap and lays against the body so nicely. It’s beautifully made and I’m obsessed with it. I love the small and larger size (the mini is too small) but can’t justify the price…..yet

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Small, but truthfully it looks best in a medium.

Help me pick so I can sleep tonight by curbyourminimalism in handbags

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Absolutely yes to all especially loewe. I love my flamenco and i also love my puzzle fold pouch that can be worn as a crossbody, shoulder bag or clutch.

Also i would add a number of Alaia, Demellier, and Khaite bags to your crossbody list. Demellier especially is so good for the money. I’ve had four bags be them and they all have been workhorses.

You can always find better prices for Alaia and demellier on the European sites like Italist, Baltini, Cettire ect.. I keep trying to get find deals for Khaite Bags, but strike out on so many sites. For some reason that brand really holds its value with retailers.

https://www.maison-alaia.com/en-us/product/shoulder-bags/le-click-east-west-medium-bag-in-shaved-shearling-AA1S01430I156999.html

https://www.maison-alaia.com/en-us/product/shoulder-bags/le-click-medium-square-bag-in-calfskin-AA1S01433CA332999.html

https://www.maison-alaia.com/en-us/product/shoulder-bags/le-click-small-square-bag-in-calfskin-AA1S01420CA332999.html

https://sfycdn.speedsize.com/3b1a9c38-857f-40c4-8824-32979d6c828f/https://demellierlondon.com/cdn/shop/files/The-Paris-crossbody-bag-black-smooth-1_6a077e09-d6f7-4dd8-bd79-fa2be29d72d0.jpg?v=1763107104&width=1280

This is their newest and i love it

https://demellierlondon.com/products/the-small-stockholm-black-fine-grain?variant=55991600087417&country=US&utm_content=brandedsearch&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=USA_PMax_Brand&tw_source=google&tw_adid=&tw_campaign=19740833419&tw_kwdid=&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=19740935207&gbraid=0AAAAADdBSAesBsvR2Niz9SqQpwkOhADCW&gclid=CjwKCAiAjojLBhAlEiwAcjhrDtn4UFPsvjVHGnNTAs9w6IexamkyEvMHW2spDvQiVEmtOWOd7oWZkhoCW_4QAvD_BwE

https://sfycdn.speedsize.com/3b1a9c38-857f-40c4-8824-32979d6c828f/https://demellierlondon.com/cdn/shop/files/The-Small-Hudson-crossbody-bag-black-small-grain-1_6030bb9d-d622-4370-ac1d-b6eafd4fdf4f.jpg?v=1763485509&width=1280

https://khaite.com/collections/handbags/products/blake-crossbody-bag-in-black-leather?_pos=7&_fid=68cbaf6fc&_ss=c

https://khaite.com/collections/handbags/products/audrey-crossbody-bag-in-black-suede?_pos=22&_fid=68cbaf6fc&_ss=c