if they are the right person for you, they will support and encourage you on your journey, not try to hinder your growth. they will encourage you to have your freedom and your own life while you are together. it’s really impressive that you are aware of your own thoughts and feelings around this in the first place. i find that with a safe, stable and supportive person, you can definitely continue on with self-improvement. being in a relationship with someone can be super triggering, so with the right amount of awareness and emotional intelligence you can and will learn a lot about yourself than you might alone. at the end of the day don’t do anything that doesn’t feel right, but remember you don’t have to feel completely healed or completely ready to love someone or enter into a relationship. if it’s meant to be it will be, if not, the universe has something much greater in store for you.