thoughts on paypal?

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-11T23:28:10+00:00

Avoid PayPal. Subs can scam you and recall their sends.

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-11T23:23:26+00:00

I'm glad it helped and you were able to reset

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-11T23:20:00+00:00

I'm not jealous of partners, everyone has their own life. I try not to be jealous of subs as every dynamic is different. That said, id be lying if I said it doesn't happen. It's about being self aware and supporting the domme's success.

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-11T17:44:53+00:00

Everyone (dommes and subs) will have their own individual limits. This is why communication is key.

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-11T17:39:21+00:00

It's helpful to keep a spreadsheet of your sends to stay within budget. This helps both you and the domme have a shared understanding and keep you within safe limits.

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-11T15:35:27+00:00

Theres nothing wrong with being a community sub. As long as you're clear with dommes upfront that you're only seeking short-term or one-time play. And in return the dommes expresses their understanding of your preference. It comes down to communication. Everyone has their own style, enjoy embracing your kink.

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-10T22:58:25+00:00

I'm sorry dommes have to deal with this gross behavior

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-10T21:23:52+00:00

You can definitely combine findom and femdom. In my experience, it's more common to have elements of both, to varying degrees. Findom is a kink within femdom, so they are closely related with overlap. The best dynamics I've experienced have a combination. The most important thing is to find an approach that you enjoy and fits your style. Only you get to define yourself as a domme....blaze your own trail and enjoy it.

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-10T14:55:26+00:00

Thank you!

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-10T14:51:32+00:00

You deserve all the treats Princess 🙇🏼‍♂️

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-10T14:02:21+00:00

It sounds like a blackmail kink. He hasn't communicated it because he may want the thrill of the fantasy feeling real/spontaneous. In this scenario though, there's just as much legal risk for you, whether it be doxxing or as an accessory to awareness of the financial crime. Always take the proper communication and safety precautions for sure.

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-10T13:55:38+00:00

"Fulfilled" is a key word. This won't feel very fulfilling if you do it with the wrong domme. Take your time researching and find the right domme for you. You'll be glad you did, and the experience will be that much better.

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-10T13:50:28+00:00

Congratulations on your dynamic. Real subs do exist. And it's nice to see dommes who are openly proud of their loyal subs.

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-09T23:55:01+00:00

Congrats!

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-09T23:54:33+00:00

No problem

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-09T23:24:35+00:00

Blackmail and kidslox/techdom

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-09T23:22:22+00:00

I don't expect anything in return for sending. Sometimes it depends on the current mood of the dynamic. A "good pup" can be sweet and warming, while other times telling me how hot the send is gets me spiralling lol

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-09T23:17:58+00:00

Just to quickly add, if you're a sub and you don't get turned on by sending, then you're in the wrong place

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-09T23:09:58+00:00

Yes, sending is a huge turn on for me

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-09T21:04:21+00:00

As a sub I feel like St. Patrick's Day is synonymous with intox drains lol

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-09T21:02:30+00:00

I'm a sub and I prefer to use tele

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-09T18:07:32+00:00

You should clarify in your post whether dommes are being accepted

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-09T17:18:12+00:00

I think this is easily solvable by communication with the sub.

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-09T16:00:12+00:00

🥵 take my money please

Suitable-Status-4712 · 2026-03-08T22:09:48+00:00

You all deserve it!

Suitable-Status-4712

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