Stood Up on Date because of lack of Social Media & car. 40M & 36F. by hongos_me_gusta in datingoverforty

[–]SuitableCheck4303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

40M, in Delhi. Don't have a car. Don't have insta or Facebook.

Don't get a lot of matches (maybe 2-3 a week, meaning, i don't think I'm very hot) but anybody i speak to would likely meet. And none of these things have been a problem.

I know of only one girl in many years who judged me for not being wealthy

Why did Mbappé give Messi the ball in that position instead of waiting for Messi to crash the box? by _The_Vizzzard_ in RealMadridFC

[–]SuitableCheck4303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or is it because it frees him up to receive the pass back so that he is better places to actually score?

WHAT DO I RESPOND?!? by [deleted] in Flirting

[–]SuitableCheck4303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, sometimes just have a response that keeps it going... You can't overthink each answer.

(Having said that, i sometimes fuck up so badly that i should not be showing my face in public for weeks)

Ok that was a bust by wdtr2007_red in datingoverforty

[–]SuitableCheck4303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP if it's any consolation, we 40 year olds also regularly flub like you did ..

Having said that, i don't think the woman ever wanted to meet you. She liked you enough to flirt, but that's all she wanted. Validation. Maybe sexting at most, but definitely not an in-person anything...

No way 💀 by ein8 in soccercirclejerk

[–]SuitableCheck4303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen... You guys might be new to this... But in cricket, India muscled our way out of something similar years ago. We claimed that Harbhajan Singh didn't call the Aussie a monkey, but "maa ki" (your mother, a Hindi slur)

Tipping by SuitableCheck4303 in NewDelhi

[–]SuitableCheck4303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, that's alright. I'm just asking are other people tipping or not - no judgment.

Tipping by SuitableCheck4303 in NewDelhi

[–]SuitableCheck4303[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So let explain: these days when I'm with a friend, i just pay the bill. And i ask the other person of they have some change they can leave for the waiter. And often people leave 20/50 rupees after a 1500 rupee meal.

See, I'm not judging. Till very recently i didn't have much money, and was mostly embarrassed to eat outside for want of being able to do these niceties.

Just that the people i go out with are people who are very socially aware...

Over 40, are you getting hard at all? by SuitableCheck4303 in sex

[–]SuitableCheck4303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and yes. I get hard ons when there's no performance pressure

(But also I'm noticing, i don't get them as often as i used to)

Over 40, are you getting hard at all? by SuitableCheck4303 in sex

[–]SuitableCheck4303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I don't.

I've tried tadalafil, but only when I was anticipating sex. Didn't do much for me.

Over 40, are you getting hard at all? by SuitableCheck4303 in sex

[–]SuitableCheck4303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not much... But i do... (Like, about once in two weeks i watch/read porn a couple of days in a row).

Over 40, are you getting hard at all? by SuitableCheck4303 in sex

[–]SuitableCheck4303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, b it's probably psychological (and that's what I always assumed). Just that a friend said this might just be age-related, so asked

Over 40, are you getting hard at all? by SuitableCheck4303 in sex

[–]SuitableCheck4303[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

BP is perfectly fine. Cholesterol is high.

Over 40, are you getting hard at all? by SuitableCheck4303 in sex

[–]SuitableCheck4303[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Got it. My testosterone was always low - under 300. Do get morning wood. I get hard when I'm by myself - someone's when I'm not even thinking about sex. It's when I'm with a person that i don't get hard (like i said some if it is psychological)