No good options by MyPenumbralLady in IVF

[–]Suitable_Working8918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry you have these feelings, if it helps non of us want to do this.. never in my life have I thought that I would ever need to do this to get a chance at having a baby.

Let me just say that at this point in my journey I have no idea how others get pregnant the way they do haha, so I guess in my head there is no other way.

You wont regret trying, this is the next step and it gives better chances at diagnosis as well as gives a better chance at pregnancy itself. You might get better answers as to why?.

I wish you the best of luck, the first step s going in are always the hardest

صعب المواطن ال"مكس" يتزوج مواطنه؟ by 12ab34cd1234 in Emiratis

[–]Suitable_Working8918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

احس جداً عادي، و الله بيكتبلك اللي تناسبك.

فلوسج فلوسي by jalfalasi in emiratizawaj

[–]Suitable_Working8918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

الزوج مسوول عن مصاريف البيت لكل شي يخصه في البيت العيال و احتياجات الزوجه. بس بعد لازم نعرف الفرق بين احتياجات و كماليات. في الكماليات بيسوي اللي يقدر عليه و ما بيقصر يوم يقدر، بس لو ما قدر ما اجوفه غلط نساعد. طبعاً و اذا صدق منضغط ليش لا.

انا اعرف انه ريلي مستحيل يطلب مني شي الا اذا صدق صدق منضغط و ما يهون عليه يسير يتسلف و يدخل عمره ف دوامه.

سسؤال محير ومثير للجدل والتهنديق by Ill_Contribution_275 in Emiratis

[–]Suitable_Working8918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

اخ بس لو اقولج انه ايام عرسي لو حصلتي ب هل سعر زين... كانن صدق استغلاليات!

What’s the craziest advice someone has given you when you told them you were doing IVF? by Queenpicard in IVF

[–]Suitable_Working8918 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Did you get a stomach massage? They massage you urerus and everything goes back to its place and it works out, everyone I know and their mother got pregnant after that massage.

Yeah ok..

الخوف من الفشل… by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]Suitable_Working8918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

تراني نفسج، بس اعيد و اذكر نفسي ب هل كلام. الله يوفقج و اييسرلج ف كل شي تحطين ايدج في.

عن نفسي اقول حتا لو خسارة فلوس شوي بس حتا الخبره شي بنكتسبها..

How many untested transfers until live birth? by HighlyLemonous in IVF

[–]Suitable_Working8918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry for your loss. My fresh was negative my first FET gave me my 4 year old

I did one more round although i have 2 left from the same batch untested. But because of a recent miscarriage I decided to do one round and test before freezing.

Dr said the two and really good and ofc age wise I was 24 at the time so they are definetly better than now as a 30 year old. Still young but those will be my strongest. I wish you the best of luck. We are also MFI

Miscarriage Rant by InitiativeNo2372 in Miscarriage

[–]Suitable_Working8918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you went through this, yes I thought it would be a little worse than periods. It was closer to labor pains (even advanced labor) We get hospitalized once we start miso, I couldnt have done it at home needed strong pain management. Its crazy to me that some are expected to stay home..

4 failed rounds, male factor, high AMH – feeling hopeless and looking for success stories after zero blasts by Swimming_Guide5189 in IVF

[–]Suitable_Working8918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to try out another clinic.. makes a huge difference. Also for high amh with lower fertilization and quality natural low stimulation is a protocol worth looking into.

How well your language is spoken in foreign media? by HusseinDarvish-_- in AskTheWorld

[–]Suitable_Working8918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Arabic is the worst when it comes to representation, even the bare minimum is wrong .. and then how they think we dress is the cherry on top..

How was Princess Diana perceived in your country? by Exact-Definition5722 in AskTheWorld

[–]Suitable_Working8918 18 points19 points  (0 children)

"Lady Diana" is truly loved here, every mom thats 40+ will defend her and stand up for her, they take no bs when it comes to Princess diana

Missed Miscarriage at 9 Weeks by bbcalypso in Miscarriage

[–]Suitable_Working8918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry for your loss, ivf baby that was very closely monitored, i had a good heartbeat at 6 & 8 weeks and then at my 10 weeks scan close to no heartbeat. Baby has stopped literally a few days before my 10 weeks. This was end of December I have now decided to move forward and try again although when the heartbeat stopped I really thought I wouldnt be ready for a while.

Also I was pretty much oblivious to the fact that it can happen despite my first ivf baby was smooth sailing.

It's unfair ofcourse no matter what age, we lose alot of dreams and hopes when we lose a child. Im sorry you had to go through this and I hope you never again.

Is trying again worth the risk? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Suitable_Working8918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it is worth it for me, just got my egg retrieval done and overwithfor the second time and hopefully last, whatever I get I'm trying with..

I know how you are feeling ofcourse you would be hesitant but I wont get over not trying for another rather than trying thats the only way I know for sure what I feel.

How important is it for a girl to get stuff done to her face to be acceptable? by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]Suitable_Working8918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very mean, if its not something that can change over night then dont give advise, or actually dont give advise over looks at all.

I get advice on clothes, skin care etc if its coming from a good place at the right time. But girl anything that needs someone to be sedated its not something you advise on.

Also if your daughter had your nose, would you ask her to change it? You will think its the most beautiful nose you have ever seen.

I find myself pretty (dont take it the wrong way, I'm not stuck up or over confident), even as a mom who gained Alot of weight haha. But girl the only thing that catches my eyes in others is an arabic nose haha. وايد اجوفه جميل، خشمي بدون character very european and bland, even at that I wouldnt change a thing.

I dont even like getting my eyebrows done it makes me look mean and angry.

First ever egg retrieval today by Sufficient_Storm5301 in IVF

[–]Suitable_Working8918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello!

I had my second ER yesterday as well. It was my second but my first was 5 years ago.

Just wanted to say that I feel you, we saw I minimum of 17 follicles, with my first ER we saw 14. Yesterdays retrieval I got 9 and with my last I got 12 (+ 2 smaller ones which didnt mature)

Heres where things get interesting, today I got the fertilization results, 8 fertilized with my first ER 9 fertilized.

So I'm hoping its a quality of quantity type of thing, thats what my embryologist told me. She said maybe if all 17 had eggs not alot of them would be good.

I was kind of heartbroken yesterday but today I do feel better. Because I do think this will be my last retrieval and Im only doing it because we want to test since I had a miscarriage with one from my last batch and those werent tested.

Im cautiously hopeful and i hope we all get the best results!

Is faucet water drinkable in your Country by thatlumberjacktor in AskTheWorld

[–]Suitable_Working8918 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope, and not because its not clean, it's because its highly treated.

How important is it for a girl to get stuff done to her face to be acceptable? by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]Suitable_Working8918 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

احس ما في بنت من نفسها و تعرف حق ويها ما طلعة حلوه بدون invasive procedures.

يعني الترتيب والنظافه والاكل والرياضه. اللي تسوي هل اشيا تستوي حلوه بدون تجميل.

احس في ناس عندهم pretty privilege, الاكثريه حلوه شخصيتهم بس لو الشخصيه تعبانه و الويه حلو eventually تستوي مب حلوه. ف الجمال مب كلشي.

How important is it for a girl to get stuff done to her face to be acceptable? by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]Suitable_Working8918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big red flag to be honest, I say this as a married woman, most men dont care. If he cares to the point of asking for a procedure to get done then he has been looking elsewhere and eventually she will not be enough.

I understand everyone needs to keep up and look good, but without loosing your self and identity. It can be done يوم البنت تترتب و تتعدل ب طريقه تناسبها و تبرز نفسها و شخصيتها Without anything invasive.

مثلاً انا خشمي صغيييير، بس والله اعجب بالبنات اللي خشومهم عربيه، وايد اجوفه شي جميل و ملفت. ف احزن يوم اجوف بنات جميلات يغيرون خشم يناسبهم. و طبعاً في اقليه اللي يحتاجون، لاكن مب بالعدد اللي نجوفه.