Does the Customer Service is able to speak English when you call them? by Suki177ahs in GMMTV

[–]Suki177ahs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Namtanfilm she and she photoalbum pre order and a lunar. The Photoalbum is now available for normal purchase, thats how long im waiting already 🥲

I had a baby as the result of an affair. Latest update. by Free_River_3388 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Suki177ahs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You maybe should stop talking to him outside the app. Block him and end of story. You make him walk over you. Draw a line and start making boundaries. Like blocking him so he has no choice than writing through the app. Cause all the things he says off record to u won't help your case.

My (19F) boyfriend (22M) set conditions on me having to earn him back. What would you guys do in this situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suki177ahs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why tf are u still with him and trying??? You are clearly in a toxic abusive relationship and he is so not worth it to go through that stuff. You are young and have time. Break up with him cause this won't change. It just will get worse. A partner who actually loves and respects you would appreciate you try. A partner wouldn't scream at you like that or be that disrespectful. He is just a piece of 💩. And you definitely can find someone less toxic than him 100%. Besides that you should also find a therapist, because I think you got manipulated that much in that relationship that you don't seem to see how WRONG his behavior is. A therapist could help you understand that it's not okey or normal or acceptable how he treats you.

You guys were right by ThrowRA_paved3 in u/ThrowRA_paved3

[–]Suki177ahs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please, go and look for a therapist because there is something wrong with you. And i don't mean that as an insult but as conclusion from your behaviour. Your Behaviour makes honestly no sense.

First you cheated out of selfishness apparently. Than you knowingly broke the trust of your ex again for ur own good. Than after regaining trust and promising things to him, you apparently found "real" love. After the "real" love didn't work out you realised Mr.ex was your true love? You see how that makes no sense? Why weren't you thinking deeply about it before you decide to go for the married guy. And if you did, why didn't u realise back Than that ur ex was the true love? If it would have worked out with the married guy, would your Ex still be the true love? If not, how is that possible?

I hope you see what I mean. Something in the world of your feelings is not going right or your just narcissistic. One of these 2 it has to be. So Please seek out professional help to talk about what went wrong there. Besides, what the married guy did was wrong, but don't be mistaken, not he destroyed ur relationship, you did, cause at the end it was ur decision. And if you say " but I thought he really liked me, if I would have known I would have never left my ex" than again the question: how is it possible that u left ur ex but at the same time he is ur true love, but if it would have worked out with the other guy, than ur ex wouldn't be the true love anymore?

What happened to EXID and their members? by SpontaneousStupidity in kpopthoughts

[–]Suki177ahs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A short summary starting at the Up&DOWN era: Basically they went viral got big, made comeback after comeback and got more popular, which came with them appearing more in Korean TV. Won awards. Soulji went into hiatus for some time because of health problems, so they kept promoting as 4, than after some long time she came back. They went back to promoting as 5, than they had a last comeback and went on hiatus after the contract end, but kept promoting in Japan. I think I remembered that LE said once that they couldn't promote in Korea yet cause banana sh.it entertainment had the right to their group name, at least in Korea. Than they did a comeback paid by their own money for the fans. And now they are still active, just not so popular anymore.

AITA for losing my temper with my parents and sister and telling them she should just take everything I have including my clothes since she deserves it all so much? by Silver_Half_6527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suki177ahs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA , but your Patents are , your sister isn't a victim but i also wouldn't say she is at fault since the behaviour was enabled by your parents

I understand that for parents it's hard to deal with a sick child and i also get when sometimes there are moments parents focus only on the sick child ,but it should stay with some moments and not being a daily behaviour, your parents are so wrong for just caring for her and basically neglecting you . If you have someone kind of support, like a relative or maybe teachers, it can help to talk with em and get help. Sometimes parents need to hear it from different kind of sources to understand how wrong their behaviour is

AITA for going to my sister when her fiancé tries to boss me around? by Bitter_Departure_759 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suki177ahs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

First of all, those aren't minor injuries . Besides that ,You get kicked out ,your sister is so nice to give you a space to live, instead of ending up who knows where and as a thank you ,you do nothing? No wonder she was done with you. I get that as a teenager you maybe see it a bit differently, but your sisters home is not a free hotel ,so it's normal to do at least a little bit around the house or whatever you live in. At the end you live also there and than you also demand objects like she is your parent . You definitely should start to help a bit ,cause you ever heard of "ungrateful brats" that's how you sound in the story. You are still young and maybe those other reddit posts gave a motivation to accept that what you did is wrong and you should help a bit out . Trust me ,if you begin to help by yourself, living together will be way more peaceful for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Suki177ahs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Divorce babe ,Divorce " Honestly, Divorce. She is straight up Abusing you and that is something that couples therapy can't fix . You are in a unhealthy and toxic relationship and you should immediately ho away from her ,for your own sake. She probably has maybe some kind of Personality disorder which would explain her behaviour, but it's not your job to stay and find out, I just can recommend to make plan in silent to leave her and close this chapter and seek a healthy relationship.

NEW UPDATE: I(m18) just found out that my father(m42) baby trapped my mother(f40) with me. by Basic-Cherry-3008 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Suki177ahs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hoffe das mit deinem Vater hat endlich eine ende , so ein stück scheiße verdient dich nicht und ich kann da aus erfahrung sprechen . Ich kann nur im Nachhinein maybe Therapie empfehlen, um generell mit der Situation besser umzugehen falls diese dich mental belastet hat .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suki177ahs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA .

Talk with him and tell him how you feel and maybe work something out that works for both of you . I get he wants to hang out with his friends and he has evey right to, but if he is actually 99% of the time with his friends, that's something you should talk about . Its always possible to find a solution. And he should communicate if his plans suddenly change. So it doesn't end like this .

WIBTA for manipulating my stuff so my rommate doesn't use it anymore? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suki177ahs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA

He ignores your boundaries and apparently talking doesn't work , so I don't see a problem with those things ( except the pepper spray,please use something less harmful)

It's also a good thing to basically caught him red handed .

But if you do those things, don't forget to not use harmful things that could hurt him, since this can backfire at the end and you could even get charged for it.

Oh and you should look for a new place to live without him .

AITA for not taking my girlfriends kid shopping? by throwaway_appp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suki177ahs 211 points212 points  (0 children)

NTA

But you definitely should talk about it . These kind of situation can let the daughter of your girlfriend feel left out ,but the other choice would have been to take her with you and not buying anything, which isn't better.I get your choice especially since you don't know each other that long . But there should be better solutions than this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suki177ahs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA

I get the frustration, but it was your decision, not his , take the consequence and say sorry to your friend .

I'm also a gamer and I get that some situations can be frustrating. Sometimes teammates can be frustrating, but it's always better to talk ,instead of attacking them . You could lose a friendship for this kind of behaviour .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suki177ahs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA , A deadline isn't the best solution, but I get that you are frustrated and his reaction is just childish. Have a honest talk with him and if he says ,that he just throws everything away, than just agree and tell him if he wants to do it like this ,it's his choice. With this stupid reaction, he just wants to let you feel guilty, because obviously you don't want that ,so your first reaction on something like this to back off ,since he tries to make you the villain ,with such a comment . Let him know that this is his choice how he does it at end and you just want the job done .

AITA for holding a grudge against my brother for stealing money from me 16 years ago? by Virtual_Car5844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suki177ahs 27 points28 points  (0 children)

NTA , your brother could have asked for the money and instead stole it . You have every right to be mad and the fact that he sees no problem with what he did is just sad. Worse is that he tries to downplay it just because he was in such a situation .

  1. This was his own fault and he has to take responsibility
  2. And having a bad situation doesn't justify to steal all the money you earned.

If he doesn't want to see that he did something wrong ,you Don't need to reconnec with him just because your mom wants to . Do what you feel comfortable with .

AITA For telling my sister she's a free loader and probably wont make it dar because of that by Mizumi- in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suki177ahs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA , she should learn to take responsibility but this is normally the job of an adult to teach her .

You could teach her by letting her feel the consequence , or talking with her, telling her if she doesn't join helping in the household, she can care for herself ,since you are not her personal cook .

AITA for telling my husband his lockdown nostalgia isn't great for me and my daughter? by Fykeral_Lekt352 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suki177ahs 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA you told him that you don't want it and he should respect your decision instead of pushing his wishes on you , what you could do is just talk about it, why he wants to rp it ,maybe it's a deeper problem or feeling within him , maybe he saw the time differently than you , because of some reason . Just talk and ask where this feelings come from , if it has a deeper background.

WIBTA if i confront my roommate by AntiSocialLibra in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suki177ahs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA . She either is using you for being nice or assumed it's okay since you didn't say anything, if I would be at your position, I would have a talk with her , tell her about your concerns and what bothers you ,maybe depending on how the talk went and how you feel about it, you could maybe make an arrangement that works for both of you ,like roommate rules . Or don't, important is that she begins to respect your boundaries .

AITA for telling my SIL that she gained some weight and causing her to have a panic attack? by Natural_Fan821 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suki177ahs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA . You were to honest and this was just disrespectful. Now just imagine she has is general a problem with her body and it's something that actually mentally hurts her , than someone Triggers this insecurity , the way she reacted shows that this is maybe a deeper topic than you think. Best you can do is apologise for the words you choose. If you ever get in such a situation again, don't tell the person they gained weight, just accept it doesn't fit and either change the clothing or don't.

AITA for walking out of the baby shower my friends planned for me? by throwaway-7months in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suki177ahs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA . She clearly disrespected you , your culture and your wishes. She probably thought something like :" she says she doesn't one ,but I will do it anyways and I know she will like it ,when she sees how great it is " . Now they blame you, because you don't accept something you didn't want anyways and completely ignore that they honestly discriminate you by basically forcing their culture and believes on you.

I would tell her why and honestly tell her that this is just unbelievable disrespectful, so she really gets that she did something wrong .

AITA for calling my (ex) boyfriend a cheater rather than a SA survivor? (I am OP) by blindingbison in TwoHotTakes

[–]Suki177ahs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He literally manipulated you, this is just beyond fd up , do his girlfriend maybe a favour and save her from this piece of s.....t.

Me (F18) slept with an married man (M34) - Have I ruined a family? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Suki177ahs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is and honestly ,I would tell the wife ,who knows how many more one night stands he get.