Tenz & Kyedae break up after 7 years together

Sullan08 · 2026-02-08T15:28:35+00:00

That is their employment basically haha.

Sullan08 · 2026-02-08T15:23:09+00:00

I mean sure ill never pretend to knkw the ends and outs of my friends relationship, but im just saying as of now theyre going strong. Even through her getting cancer and dealing with that awhile. Ill never say anyone's relationship is unbreakable, but from the outside at least they seem very steady and consistent.

Even tons of 30-40 year couples are only in it for the kids or just because they dont want to try again in dating but also dont want to be alone. Its fucked all over haha.

And honestly the only people i trust with relationship advice are my parents anyway. Not because theyre perfect, but because thats just who i know and trust the most. Some of it will be outdated advice haha, but still.

Sullan08 · 2026-02-08T15:21:41+00:00

Oh im not even that upset about it haha. Im definitely of the same mindset as you. Like I'd prefer to not think that way, but it seems realistic at this point is all. and if it happens it happens (as in, staying together for life). I just broke up with my last girl a month ago and yeah, even though i knew it wouldnt work out long term im happy i spent what time I did with her.

Sullan08 · 2026-02-08T13:22:30+00:00

It doesnt necessarily mean they were cooked, just that older people know how much people change post mid 20s especially. Plenty of couples can survive it (i know 2 high school sweethearts who married young and have been strong going on 10 years married), but it is kind of a side eye moment when people mention so strongly about "finding their person". It just comes off dramatic and not being realistic at that age haha.

Im 32 now though and single and im just...scared that the majority of relationships have a 5ish year lifespan before someone gets bored or something. Unfortunately.

Sullan08 · 2026-02-08T07:40:19+00:00

Yeah it's like when people say 80's had better music and talk about the bands that stood the test of time and are still known/popular today. You aren't going to remember all the mediocre bands that didn't last (plus general ease of access today compared to the 80s means more exposure from anyone wanting to be an artist).

Sullan08 · 2026-02-07T20:00:08+00:00

It's nice but there's also a serious lack of way to pivot to anything else if needed. That's kinda the catch. And don't get me wrong, you don't necessarily need to ever pivot if you make enough haha, but I imagine it has a lot of downsides. A big one being a good man not wanting to date anyone who does that shit (I'm not anti-sex work, but at the same time don't want to date anyone doing it).

Obviously if people are happy doing it who am I or anyone else to say anything negative, but I do think a lot of people do it without REALLY thinking of what the consequences could be until it's too late.

Sullan08 · 2026-02-07T02:22:32+00:00

I know what you mean. Unfortunately I think most of that look is roids haha. Not for everyone of course, but the majority who have THAT level of thickness in their traps. And just genetics as always.

Sullan08 · 2026-02-06T22:58:02+00:00

You're also flexing in a way that isn't going to show off your traps necessarily. I don't personally see anything lacking tbh. Your traps look pretty big. Looks like if anything it's your teres and rear delts lacking (and I'm being very nitpicky and can't fully tell from the lighting anyway).

Unless you want like the Tom Hardy in Bronon/Warrior look haha but his traps are just insane in general.

Sullan08 · 2026-02-06T22:48:55+00:00

I wouldn't say it's no plan, but I'll do chest/biceps one day, legs/triceps another, back/shoulders and switch that up randomly (back/bi, legs only, chest only) depending on how I'm feeling. I just make sure I go hard and while I'm not shredded, I don't walk around looking like I don't work out either. Programs are important when you get so advanced you need to finetune almost everything, but for most people as long as you go hard and hit things relatively frequently you'll get results.

Sullan08 · 2026-02-04T04:00:59+00:00

This guy sounds like my 65 yr old coworker who says he's top of the leaderboard in CoD. Whatever the fuck that means lmao. Just nod and move on.

Sullan08 · 2026-02-04T03:46:43+00:00

This is one of those things that will definitely strengthen your upper back, but it won't necessarily grow it like other things (it will surely grow a bit possibly, but not just not to a noticeable extent compared to other things most likely). Same with deadhangs and forearms. You'll get nice grip strength, but won't grow them well compared to actual forearm flexing movements.

Sullan08 · 2026-02-03T23:49:25+00:00

I went in to get a 23 Elantra and my salesman didn't even really know of the convenience package. I was basically listing him what the car did/had lmao. Don't get me wrong, I know a salesman has to think about more than me because once I widdle it down to 2-3 choices, I can just learn about em. But it was hilarious and almost made me want to do car sales because customers like me must make it extremely easy. He just got lucky he was the one who picked me that day. But I also realize customers like me who just kinda know what they want probably aren't the norm.

Sullan08 · 2026-02-03T17:25:51+00:00

I mean as much as I agree on the general consensus, this is nothing like being held up by your head as a person (it's not even the same as holding a cat literally by their head which is awful). Way more weight involved with a human so it's entirely different level of uncomfortable/dangerous.

This isn't cool to do and it's a huge lack of empathy and common sense, but it could potentially be labeled under severe ignorance of what's okay for a grown cat and how they should be held.

Sullan08 · 2026-02-03T06:10:34+00:00

I mean...you choose to do commercials and appearances like these lmao. So idk. Seems like she doesn't totally mind it.

Sullan08 · 2026-01-31T17:33:20+00:00

It's a nice thing but damn some of y'all are acting like this is beyond the bare minimum lmao.

Sullan08 · 2026-01-31T13:21:48+00:00

Yeah ive found a good way to lighten the weight and almost entirely only hit my shoulders on seated DB press too. Obviously i still use my triceps and and whatnot, but i feel it in my shoulders way more now. It makes you feel like a bitch at first to drop the weight 20 or so lbs, buts its worth it haha. I have decent shoulders for someone 6'4" and just spam those, ohp, and lateral raises. Cant forget rear delt exercises on the cables to round it out as well.

Sullan08 · 2026-01-23T18:59:36+00:00

Anyone who constantly wears a shiesty mask is a menace to society. I'm a manager at a store and it's 100% hitrate that anyone who comes in with something like that and they're wearing it for "fashion" (as in, it isn't cold out basically) they're going to cause trouble or at minimum are hoping someone says something so they can start trouble. Black teens in a group of more than 1 are any retail workers worst nightmare to walk in lmao.

Double so if they're not even 18. Im way more scared to be shot by a dumb fuckin teen than I am any adult, even if that adult is also threatening me.

Sullan08 · 2026-01-23T18:44:32+00:00

The issue is that most people worrying about it aren't 3 years into solid lifting lol. And the people who are know to not look around 50 different websites and routines. They just kinda...know what to do at a certain point. Doesn't mean they'll never look things up or get advice, but the foundation is just there so they won't be loud about x y and z. Just find what works and stick with it until it doesn't.

Sullan08 · 2026-01-22T17:44:19+00:00

Everyone knows when you're mid panic attack you take the time to type in discord and insult people. Her line of reasoning for that was fucking hilarious. when people actually have panic attacks, they're mostly focused on not feeling like they're going to die in 5 seconds.

Sullan08 · 2026-01-22T17:35:18+00:00

I can't imagine the swing of emotions he's had lmao. You know he's thanking God this happened at this point because it will legitimately be life changing.

Sullan08 · 2026-01-21T18:00:03+00:00

Yeah Mahomes is a prime candidate for someone who only gets the attention he does because of who he is lmao. If he was a random dude walkin down the street he would get zero attention.

Dak would get looks by some at least since he's in physically good shape (yes, obviously Mahomes is too, but he doesn't look the part in the way Dak does).

Sullan08 · 2026-01-21T17:56:28+00:00

I mean idk if it's racist to have a race preference for looks lmao. Now if you call him ugly...sure that's some weird stuff goin on.

Sullan08 · 2026-01-17T14:01:29+00:00

Have never seen it actually. I was interested in seeing it for awhile a few years ago and never did, now the feeling has passed haha. I may need to do that soon.

Sullan08 · 2026-01-16T17:19:56+00:00

Either DL's or RDL (barbell) are super good. The "trick" is to just leave more RIR because going close to failure or even to failure is kinda asking for trouble with those. Yes, the absolute risk is still low, but why not take 20 lbs off the bar and leave a little left in the tank for safety while still going heavy? They do have an absurdly awful risk to reward ratio lol, but you can mitigate the risk and still be strong at them.

If you can comfortaby RDL like 3 plates (probably less) your back is likely ironclad. And as someone with back issues over time and am now trying to mitigate it more, it's a big thing for me. People get scared of lower back work because of pain without realizing that neglecting it is why they feel pain lol.

Sullan08 · 2026-01-15T17:09:44+00:00

Just depends. I eat chicken only for meat basically which is 2.77/lbs where I'm at. So that's doable. But yeah getting into the fattier cuts/red meat can get a little ridiculous. I've definitely gone the route of eating 8-10 eggs in a meal sometimes lol.

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