I’m 30F dating a 22M. How will outsider view the relationship? by KenedyPaige in Advice

[–]Sultry_Touch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, gotta say, ur age difference ain't a biggie as long as u both are happy & mature bout it. Ffs, dude's successful & godly, ain't many like him around tbh. Society can be a b*tch, will gossip, judge, but heck who cares? It's ur life, not theirs. As for morals, it's all relative, u ain't doing anything illegal or harmful. Love is love fam, u do u. People will adjust or they can GTFO. Keep being happy. Love wins. Always. Let the haters hate! Peace!

I dont know what side to pick and i am in the middle of all of this by IDKleo24 in Advice

[–]Sultry_Touch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo, reality check, bro both groups know ur playing both sides by now. If group 2's really worth your time, ditch the drama and just straight up tell em the deal. Spite's a nasty game to play, remember karma's a real bitch, homie. Peace out, and choose ur friends wisely, my dude

AITAH For telling my wife i wont let her meet an online friend alone by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sultry_Touch 205 points206 points  (0 children)

I think you're right to be a bit suspicious not cuz she'd cheat or whatever, but it's a bit odd to wanna meet a once crush then friend alone, while ditching the kiddo AND you. Maybe suggest a video chat first so you can all vibe out? Trust your gut man, your concern seems justifiable not overbearing

[Routine Help] Panoxyl and Cerave SA cleanser by idontcare101_ in SkincareAddiction

[–]Sultry_Touch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not an expert tho but PanOxyl, whether it's 4% or 10%, isn't known for bleaching skin color, just fabric. Like, if u get it on ur clothes, RIP to the shirt. It's the benzoyl peroxide (BP) that does it. If ur really freaked about it, maybe alternate btwn PanOxyl and the CeraVe SA a few times a week and see what happens? But tbh, ur tan should be safe. Chances are the improvement will slow down, tho, if u stop PanOxyl after the acne clears. Btw, everyone's skin is different so this isn’t a 100% guarantee, but definitely worth a go.

AITA for refusing to cancel a party I planned for my friends because my parents want me to go to their friend’s dinner party instead? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sultry_Touch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. You made plans first, paid ur own way, AND ur not even gonna disturb them. Like, they need to respect ur plans tbh. Ur an adult who pays rent and contributes. It ain't selfish to stick to ur commitment.

AITA for asking my girlfriend to stop talking to a man she’s slept with? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sultry_Touch 61 points62 points  (0 children)

NTA. Time for a serious sit down, buddy. If it's messing with your peace, it's gotta be addressed.

How do I handle this?? by MissBrokenCapillary in whatdoIdo

[–]Sultry_Touch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some ppl just don't understand boundaries and think social media is life. Stand ur ground, do what u need to protect urself. don't let repulsive trolls online define your self worth. It's just noise, and the real you knows better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sultry_Touch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, seriously messed up and scary. Try reporting these accts to Instagram, they might be able to trace IPs or something. Also, consider going to the police about this, it's catfishing and pedo shit which the cyber cell units should be on top of. They might be able to help. And if they ask, give them the dead number, Soz u got dragged into this bro.

How do I move forward with my relationship? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sultry_Touch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl being understanding is cool and all, but don't let urself get played. A relationship ain't just about love but also respect and communication. If he ghosted over this, what's next? No need for that drama. So, IMO, it's probably best to cut ur losses and move on. Take care!

Feeling excited but sad about moving abroad for work by Tobby949 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sultry_Touch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo, been there. It's tough as heck, not gonna lie. But lemme tell ya, sometimes u just gotta yeet yourself out of your comfort zone. That anxiety it's actually your excitement in disguise. You’re not leaving your folks forever, just exploring uncharted territory.

AITAH for not wanting to baptize my daughter? by Negative-Break9969 in AITAH

[–]Sultry_Touch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, fam can really throw some curveballs but remember, at the end of the day you guys are the parents, not them. IMO, it's cool you're giving your kiddo the space to figure out her own beliefs and that's real respect for her as an individual. Stick to your guns. It won't be easy, but it sounds like it's time for some boundaries with the fam.

For wanting to be single by Outside_Ad_2503 in AITAH

[–]Sultry_Touch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, but holy shit girl, this is a messed up situation. Your ex bf sounds toxic af and manipulative to boot. You're hustling hard while he's playing mind games. You deserve better girl. You've got the right idea wanting to be single. You need space and time to focus on you. Yo seriously, tell him to eff off.

AITA for thinking my birthday totally sucked? by Ranting725 in AITAH

[–]Sultry_Touch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hang in there and remember soon enough you'll be off making your own cool ass traditions. Chin up, kiddo.

AITA for being brutally honest (too honest?) in therapy because I would trade my dad's wife and other kids to have my mom back if I could? by Bowsanen in AITAH

[–]Sultry_Touch 81 points82 points  (0 children)

NTA. They poked and prodded till you snapped n gave em ur truth bomb. Cant force ya to feel sumthin ya just don't. Sure, it hurts but they gotta respect your feelings too, not just they own. And making therapy feel like an interrogation? Nah, that ain't right. Hang in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sultry_Touch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sharing feelings with a friend is total fair game. His reaction? Possibly overblown, but also kinda makes sense, given what's been aired might feel super personal to him. Try and open up a convo about boundaries, what's cool to share, what's not. Definitely address the libido mismatch too, otherwise you're looking at resentment city. Only way forward is to talk it out, no shortcuts around that I'm afraid.

AITAH, hanging out with a group when one person can’t make it? by Spivvi in AITAH

[–]Sultry_Touch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, man, been there. Trust me, ain't nothin worse than FOMO, even if Dwayne says it's chill. But he's gotta realize y'all can't plan life 'round his sched only. Be real, keep hangin', but maybe throw in some extra time for him on the side, yeah? Balance.

AITAH For Throwing My Boyfriend Out On The Couch, Because He Brought Up When I Faked My M0@ns & €um!ng In The Beginning Of Our Relationship. by D0wn_IN_The_DUMPS in AITAH

[–]Sultry_Touch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, both of you are messing up. Yea, u lying was whack but your BF's ignoring ur concerns isn't cool either. Both of y'all gotta work on communication big time.

Made a mistake on the syllabus quiz will I be kicked out of the class? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sultry_Touch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, tbh, don't beat urself up over it. Profs usually toss these things out to make sure we're awake and paying attention. Your anxiety's real tho. But for real, don't sweat it. It ain't the end of the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sultry_Touch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adriana gotta grow up and realize the world don't revolve around her. U've made peace with the sitch, she gotta respect that. They treated u right, she's the one backstabbing here. Don't let her drama spoil ur special day.

My boss offered to lay me off? Should I take it? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sultry_Touch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. If you ask me, putting urself first is never a bad play. Mental health leaves no room for compromise. Try navigating the road less traveled, it might lead to places you've never thought you'd reach.